Welcome to Elust 179

Cover image courtesy of  Countess Diamond.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

LDRBJFTW long distance relationship blowjobs for the win!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

This is all completely lost on me I'm afraid. Each to their own, anyone who enjoys tantra, that's great. Personally I like my sex profane and with an absence of mumbo jumbo.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lucy gets an earful.

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

A mysterious stranger story. This is fun. The contents of my inbox are a lot less cryptic.

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

I love a good cuckolding scenario.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Beastly bivius.

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Gigreesque!

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Techy.

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

I one bookmarked an ovipositor toy from Sinnovator since it looked awesome. Never got around to buying one. One day. But the bookmark found it's way into my bookmarks toolbar so now every time I glance at that part of my screen, I get delightful mental images. So there it stays.

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Will have you yodelling for the fjords.

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Written by the same author as the other tantra article? It has some very similar phrases eg about tantra being misunderstood in the west as purely sexual.

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire - 10 Years Of Submission

A sub exposed and naked stands before two fearsome Mistresses.

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

barefoot roped up and drooling. That's hot!

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

If you're meeting with a sex worker, just enjoy the session for what it is. Please don't "fall in love". You're meeting a professional who's providing a service and to the best of their ability creating the exact scene that's perfect for you. They're not being themselves, they're being an illusion of what you need them to be in that moment. Many of us love our work. I do. I care about my clients. A lot. But there is no Oz to fall in love with. Oz is a service I provide when I'm working. When the hour is up, Oz no longer exists. The Oz who appears for the next client is a different Oz depending on what that client needs Oz to be.

Sex Work

Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication

Essential reading.

Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work

This is really well written and makes a lot of excellent points. An optimistic look at the future of sex work.

Elizabeth, Torture Goddess

Elizabeth's writing is evocative as always.

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed

My post.

Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu

Yallah.

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel

Crafty.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins

NRE, new relationship energy. But without any LDRBJFTW.