Image courtesy of Blazoner. Cash is king in the sex work business, especially for in person providers. An envelope with my work name written on it containing my exact fee handed to me at the beginning of the session without me having to ask, is always very welcome. But there are times when I'd like […]
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Elust 171 Puppy Play, Precipices and Platinum Showers.
Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions. Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too. I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that = Sex Work The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To […]
Twitter (X) Shadowbans
A shadow ban is Twitter's method of reducing an account's visibility without fully suspending it. It's a sneaky and cowardly way to censor content that advertisers might disapprove of without outright banning accounts in order to keep numbers of active users inflated and use these figures to sell ad space. When subjected to a shadow […]
Elust 170. Coregasms, E-stim butt plugs, Sissies and Pro Subs.
Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss. Books and Movies History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct […]
Clientopedia
As a follow up to my Sexworkopedia post, I decided to compile a Clientopedia based on the How to Find a Safe Provider guide on the Sexworkers subreddit. I'll continue adding more subheadings here and hope to make this a useful resource for clients wanting to know how to properly approach a provider, how to […]
Elust 169. Wonder Woman, Big Balls, Buggery and G-Spots.
Elust 169 has it all. From a stunning image courtesy of Calea Toxic, to Wonder Woman, orgasm denial, spanking, Femdom, snowman sex toys, sex dolls, big balls, the best sex toys of 2023, self-pleasure, buggery, G- spots, and so much more. Blogging Ramone Quides, Oh, What a November to Remember! Reflections on the year that […]
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Sexworkopedia
This is a work in progress based on the How-to Get Started as a Sexworker FAQ I wrote for the /r/sexworkers subreddit. I'll continue to add more subheadings here and hopefully build this into a useful resource. Agencies When someone contacts you saying they represent an agency, assume that they are lying. Don't proceed until […]
Elust 168. A Santa's Sackful Of Erotica And Sexuality
Image courtesy of Adrianna Assante. It's Christmas Eve and Elust 168 is a gift that keeps on giving. We delve into a diverse range of topics within the realm of books, movies, erotic fiction, sex work, product reviews, and thoughtful insights on kink and relationships. From a book review of "Principle Decisions" by Thea Belmont, […]
Revolting Prostitutes Book Review
Revolting Prostitutes is a thought-provoking book that tackles the complex subject of sex work with an impressive blend of scholarship and activism. Written by Juno Mac and Molly Smith, this book offers a fresh perspective on the issues surrounding sex work, challenging societal norms and advocating for the rights and dignity of sex workers. One […]