Welcome to Elust 195
Cover image courtesy of 848ellie.
Pretty pic. Of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Britney Spears? Buffy has big strong hands and callused knuckles. Must be from punching out all those vampires.
Image Courtesy of Sighonsocial.
State of the World
Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Anonymous for Viewers? A Practical Privacy Checklist
Ah the rise and fall and rise again of the social webcam site. Chat roulette. Omegle. Nice idea. Eventually gets overrun by masturbating Borat clones and men using fake cam to impersonate women.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 3)
Someone buy the movie rights for this and make it into an X rated choose your own adventure concept like Bandersnatch but all sex scenes.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Architecture of Intimacy: Rewriting Love Beyond Possession, Identity, and Fear
Tantra vs jealousy
Awakening Your Inner Essence, When Betrayal Becomes Arousal: Understanding Erotic Survival Through a Tantric Lens
Tantra vs PTSD.
Femina Viva, Submission need not be weakness
Atonement for masculinity
Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, The Spirit Is Willing, Part Two: The Flesh is Weak
The lovers convalesce and canoodle
B R Saiph, Locked on the Precipice of Permanence: Her Decision, My Submission
That is some impressive commitment to chastity
Product reviews
Liz Black, Hands-Free Pleasure: A Closer Look at the VVD Rider Desire & Rider Go (Plus Exclusive Discount!)
Spices of Lust, Lovense Gush 2 Review
Stroker toy
Sex Toy DB, Saddle Sex Machines or Sybian Alternatives: What Are They, and Which Is The Best?
Giddy up!
Sex Work
Rogue Love Escapades, What’s in a name? The inspiration behind Rogue Love Escapades…
A collaboration between FBSM and Domme personas.
Sex Worker Search, Interview With YAS Work
My conversation with AM Davies. Stripper, activist and podcast host.
Danny Gold, Anal Therapy
Greek
Adam Black, Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort
The possibilities are endless
Oz Bigdownunder, London Eye View MMF Couple Sex Marathon
Threesome fun
Ellie Hart, Why Emotional Intelligence Is the Most Attractive Quality
The brain is the third biggest organ. After the skin and the liver.
Sandra, A Massage with a Twist
Fits like a glove
Hellga, Sara Graduates Sissy School
Every good (sissy) boy deserves fucking
Mx Valentina, 113. Beyond the Veil: The Existential Architecture of Mx Valentina
Instruments of metamorphosis
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, High Maintenance S03E05 “Payday”: The Celluloid Dungeon
Fake taxi bangbus kinky lesbian version
Blogging
Sinclair Sexsmith, Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026)
Webinars
Welcome to Elust 194
Cover image courtesy of Saint.
Elust accelerates from erotica to product reviews faster than a turbo charged wank sleeve.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, Luc photographs Yvette (Part 1)
Luc photographs a performance artist humping a phallic sculpture cast from his own erection.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Meaning Before Pleasure: Tantric Erotics Beyond Indulgence, Constraint, and Possession
Tantra things
Femina Viva, There are no do-overs in life
Philosophy and floggings
The Sex Shed, Sex Idea Generator & Randomizer
A handy tool
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J, Beyond the Label: Where Desire Actually Lives
The Muji of sex work
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Sexual Abuse Is Not Sex: Rebuilding Trust in the Body A Tantric Perspective
Tantra
Tantric Connections, What Intimacy Really Is
Tantra
Morgan Destera, Discovering My Kinks
Med fet
Sex Work
Lady Ava Sheridon, The Pathology of Time Wasters: A Study by a Worthing Dominatrix in Dullness, Avoidance, and Self-Inflicted Smallness
Timewaster repellant = reply to all enquiries that are blatantly timewasters with "I also offer paid chat sessions. Send £50 to (my account details) and I'll chat to you about your fantasy for 20 minutes." then they either pay, or they get blocked.
Emily Palmer, Escort for Couples
Une deux Ménage à Trois
Oz Bigdownunder, Humping Camel Toes in Dubai
Fun fact, in Canada the camel toe is better known as the moose knuckle.
Madame Caramel, A New Era of Kink: The All-New London Dungeon Suite Opens in Tottenham Hale
Industrial luxury
Sex Worker Search, Creator's Spicy Tea Interview
My interview with the author of the definitive source of Education, resources, and community. By content creators, for content creators.
Adam Black, Why use an independent London male escort?
Bargain.
Valerie Valtesse, On dining… at the Y
Ah yes, the dietary vaginatarian. The ol coochy smoochy. Hymenlick maneuver. To earn ones black belt in tonguekwondo.
Hellga, Sissy Makeover Session
Note to self. Billion dollar business idea. Cum proof mascara.
Milady, Alien Role-Play
Alien anal probe technology has come a long way.
Poetry
Author Stew, If I Could Not Touch You
I was listening to Wu Tang while reading this. If anyone could give this poem the gravitas it deserves, it's ODB.
Product Reviews
Sex Toy DB, BeYourLover M2 Automatic Thrusting Masturbator Review: Brilliant Hardware, Weak App
Turbo mode! Please tell me turbo mode comes with a nitrous burst sound effect.
Welcome to Elust 193
Cover image courtesy of Circe.
This must be underwater love! Beautiful pic.
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.
Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it'll be here at Elust.
Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, A Little Sex
A flashback to an earlier chapter in Morgan's story.
Femina Viva, Love, submission, and are these my demons?
Well written and insightful.
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra against optimisation and the refusal of efficiency
Tantra
Kristina J, He Thought He Was Leading, Intimacy, Control & Desire with Kristina J
Tease me, tease me, tease me, baby 'Til I lose control.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Tantric Massage and Sexual Energy: Releasing Performance and Feeling Alive
Tantra
Tantric Connections, Why Your Fears could be Guarding Your Pleasure
Tantra
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Chastity Cages, How to Introduce Chastity to Your Partner (Without the Awkwardness)
This article holds the key.
Mx Valentina, This is Not Kink: How Feminine Authority Rewires the Nervous System
Aetas Deae.
Denying Thumper, 2025 by the numbers
That is some incredible commitment to chastity.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, Margot hosts (Part 2)
Tit wank.
Simone Francis, The Artists’ Model
Paint me like one of your French girls.
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search, Ur Little Secret Privacy Policies
Adam Black, Why become a kinky high-end male escort?
Welcome to Elust Adam!
Oz Bigdownunder, Nightclub Upskirting Perv Gets His Comeuppance
Hey Mr S, want to hear a joke about pussy? Never mind, you won't get it.
Hellga, Ball Busting
Right in the crown jewels.
Sandra, Double Penetration with a Man and a Dragon
CPU BFG DP
Product Reviews
Lushense, Original & Innovative Pleasure Toys Unveiled Part 2
Think anyone would notice if I installed that Enby on my bike seat?
Books and Movies
Liz Black X, Need a Vacation - Surrender to the Bliss Liner - The Complete Paradise Punch Trilogy is Live
Aye aye captain.
The History of BDSM, CSI S11E14 “Sqweegel”: The Celluloid Dungeon
Time to get kinky!