Tag: Awakening Your Inner Essence

Welcome to Elust 181

Who wouldn't follow that white rabbit? Cover image courtesy of Angelica Noi.Photography by Chris Nutt.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Come-In (Part 2)

There's going to be an event where hundreds of naked people will simultaneously masturbate to orgasm? Let's go!

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 5

Sensei teaches Yua, Chiaki and Asuka a lesson.

Peach Kisser, Mid-Flight Hospitality

A sapphic trip to the mile high club. Loins swimming with desire.

Simone Francis, Fetish Secretary

What's the office policy regarding inserting company property into one's orifices during business hours?

Ambyr Leigh, My Terrible Date Fucked Me Bareback In The Backseat Of His Car

That's going to leave a stain on the upholstery.

Schey Place Books, The Story So Far

The award winning adventures of story of reunited lovers, Christian and Alison.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Natalie Hepburn, Surviving a Dead Bedroom

It's pining for the fjords.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Erotism and the Transcendence of the Ego

The boundless unity of existence.

Blogging

Miss Ruby Reviews, A Decade in the Sex Toy Industry

Happy decaversary!

Erotic Non Fiction

Modesty Ablaze, Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10

The questions = What are your thoughts on foreplay? Favourite types, Best Experiences, Wishes? What parts of your lover’s body are you most drawn to? If you don’t currently have a lover, consider past or future lovers. Consider a moment in your life of great sensuality, eroticism or sexuality. Then answer the questions that Mary Oliver does in her poem “Gratitude” as they apply to that moment: If you were to recreate the early days of your favourite sexy relationship, what would they look like? Would you change anything? What would you want more of in your sex life?

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The alchemy of surrender and activation

Shiva and Shakti are at it again.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast Marchosias

Demonic

Oh Joy Sex Toy, The Uberrime Fantasy by Hien Pham

Avatar the last dildo bender.

Sydney Screams, FemmeFunn Klio Vibrator Review

A triple action rabbit style vibrator with g-spot, a-spot and clitoral stimulation.

Liz X, Beyond Ordinary Stimulation - Kiiroo ProWand with App Streaming

A wand that integrates with different online streaming sites so that lights change colour to indicate when the model receives a tip from a viewer.

Lushense, Introducing the Viballdo - The World's 1st Vibrating Ball Dildo

The evolution of ball sex.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cara Sutra, How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex

Helping to dispel multiple myths and stigma surrounding strap-on sex.

Sex Work

Lady Ava Sheridon, The Application Process; and why yours might be unsuccessful

FAQ’s

Kristina J, Authenticity and Connection: The Art of Being Real in Sex Work

Feel the realness.

Princess Kaz, Dommes – Carving Out You-Time

The importance of self care. Especially for us introverts.

Miss Kim Rub, Leather Fetishist Domme

Gotta love the smell and texture of leather.

Sex Worker Search, Are Sex Workers Welcome on Bluesky?

I hope to update this with a definitive answer if Bluesky responds.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humour

History of BDSM, “People Who Like Kinky Sex Are Just Bad In Bed”: Evie Magazine and the Raw Milkmaid Dress

This must be the most "only in America" thing of all time = Evie Magazine is a conservative women’s magazine first published in 2019. Its aesthetics and content reflect the “trad life/trad wife” movement, creating a pastoral fantasy of rural, agrarian labour combined with an idealized hetero-nuclear family. At the fringier end of things, Evie’s content splices into ideologies like pronatalism, anti-vaccination, the benefits of “raw milk” and other health quackery, transphobia, anti-feminism, COVID denial, QAnon, etc.

Welcome to Elust 180

Cover image courtesy of Natasha Kaur.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Intersection of Sacred Sex and Kink in Tantric Philosophy

The role of kink within tantra.

Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 1 to 5

Good sex, PDAs, turn ons, wank fantasies, and porn genres.

Sex Toy DB, Is Squirting The Same as Peeing?

For science.

Cara Sutra, Guide To Prostate Milking & The Health Benefits Of P-Spot Stimulation

Doctor's orders.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc sits for Asami (Part 1)

I love the concept and it's very well written. I am a bit confused about the dildo making method. Plaster? To make a mould and then the finished product is glazed ceramic? I'm not sure about the porcelain dildo. Too easy to chip or scratch the glaze. Maybe silicone in the mould would be better?

Schey Place Books, Erotica with Substance

A historical thriller that sizzles.

Simone Francis, Bondage Violation

Written and illustrated to kinky perfection.

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 5

Seamus' students finally get the lesson they've been eagerly anticipating. Spankings.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Ramone Quides, Time to Celebrate the Holiday Season

Putting the X (rated) in Xmas.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast “The Serpent”

A wiggly, wobbly, demon's blood red coloured, snake skin textured dildo. Now there's a stocking filler.

Liz X, Leten Insulated Cabin Telescopic Heating Male Masturbator Review

Infrared thermal tech.

Miss Ruby Reviews, Womanizer Vibe

Ergonomic sage green vibrator.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, The Power Manifesto: How I Own My Life as a Sex Worker

Hear, hear.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Alchemy of Surrender and Activation

Yin yang yoni.

Femina Viva, Tripping the life fantastic: real life is wilder than any book I’ve ever read

12 suitcases.

barefoot sub, Belated Birthday Beatings

Nice marks.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Interview with Cory Doctorow. Disenshittification of the Internet for Sex Workers

My post.

Oz Bigdownunder, A Duo with Queen Kali Rain, Makiyo and Cherry

Beta boy gets disciplined in quadruplicate.

Hellga, An Offering to Aphrodite. A Duo with Maîtresse Nuit and Oz

The Goddess of love, harmony and unity. She also approves of floggings and anal sex.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Sanctuary (2022): The Celluloid Dungeon

A movie about the power dynamics of a relationship between a Pro Domme and her client who is a CEO.

Welcome to Elust 179

Cover image courtesy of Countess Diamond.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

LDRBJFTW long distance relationship blowjobs for the win!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

This is all completely lost on me I'm afraid. Each to their own, anyone who enjoys tantra, that's great. Personally I like my sex profane and with an absence of mumbo jumbo.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lucy gets an earful.

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

A mysterious stranger story. This is fun. The contents of my inbox are a lot less cryptic.

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

I love a good cuckolding scenario.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Beastly bivius.

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Gigreesque!

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Techy.

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

I one bookmarked an ovipositor toy from Sinnovator since it looked awesome. Never got around to buying one. One day. But the bookmark found it's way into my bookmarks toolbar so now every time I glance at that part of my screen, I get delightful mental images. So there it stays.

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Will have you yodelling for the fjords.

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Written by the same author as the other tantra article? It has some very similar phrases eg about tantra being misunderstood in the west as purely sexual.

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire - 10 Years Of Submission

A sub exposed and naked stands before two fearsome Mistresses.

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

barefoot roped up and drooling. That's hot!

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

If you're meeting with a sex worker, just enjoy the session for what it is. Please don't "fall in love". You're meeting a professional who's providing a service and to the best of their ability creating the exact scene that's perfect for you. They're not being themselves, they're being an illusion of what you need them to be in that moment. Many of us love our work. I do. I care about my clients. A lot. But there is no Oz to fall in love with. Oz is a service I provide when I'm working. When the hour is up, Oz no longer exists. The Oz who appears for the next client is a different Oz depending on what that client needs Oz to be.