Welcome to Elust 189
Cover image courtesy of Venus Fantasy.
Pole may be slippery when wet.
Sex Work
Elizabeth of London, Sex in Selfridges
I tried it on but it was a bit tight.
Charli, Your Deposit, Your Provider, and You
Do your research, pay deposits to genuine providers, not to scammers.
Jack Parker, How to Discuss Sex Work with Friends and Family
In my case, don't, but if you did, excellent advice to follow here.
Hellga, One More Night in Paris
C’est sexy. Tres sexy. It's fine written down but when I try to speak romance languages romantically, I sound like Brad Pitt in Inglorious Basterds.
Sandra, Hide and Seek in a Hotel Lobby & Hardcore Fucking in a Hotel Room
Only a ballerina would attempt to do anything involving walking, let alone running, in Louboutins.
Oz Bigdownunder, Mrs Robinson. MMF Duo with an Elegant English Mistress
Hard day at the office.
Sex Worker Search, How to Suck Like a Porn-Star
Sloppily.
Erotic Fiction
Mx Valentina, The Making of a Puppy
Woof.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 15
Sensei has spent the last 14 chapters fucking his students, that school is going to fire him so hard when he does eventually go back to work.
Blogging
Morgan Destera, Announcement
I'm happy to hear Morgan will still be posting.
Liz X, Evolving Desires - My Journey from Soft Surrender to Darker Depths in Erotica
Extreme bimbofication.
Erotic Non Fiction
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Renewal of Desire: Sustaining Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships
Tantra is not a distant, esoteric discipline but a living pedagogy capable of transforming relational life. My lingam throbs when you talk pedagogical to me.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Sexual Wellness Professional Alliance, The Best Sexual Wellness Workshops and Certification Programs
Well, well, well.
Femina Viva, Owning my demons
The horsies.
Product Reviews
Miss Ruby Reviews, We-Vibe Melt 2
A pressure wave clitoral suction toy.
Lushense, CockBlock - The Best Gay Sex Toy From Another Universe
Let’s answer the question every curious astronaut might ask: what is frotting?
Pleasure Me Now, We-Vibe Jive Review: Meet Your New Favorite Egg Vibrator!
What came first? The chicken or the egg?
Ramone Quides, A Most Tantalizing Kurve
The + and - are designed to be recognisable by touch. That's cool! Brail for buzz my clit harder. Or softer.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buzzvibes, 5 Red Flags Your Sex Life Is Heading for a Snooze Fest
Maybe your love life's D.O.A. It's like you're always stuck in second gear When it hasn't been your day, your week
Your month, or even your year, but I'll be there for you.
Welcome to Elust 185
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Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Sohimi Viele 3 Flapping Licking Vibrator
Sydney Screams, Everything You Need to Know About Sex Grinders
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Erotic Alchemy in the Age of Disconnection: Tantric Pathways to Re-Enchanting Intimacy and Desire
Liz X, My Nomi AI Girlfriend Lily - A Tale of Trust and Digital Intimacy
Buzzvibes, The Evolution of Intimacy: How Modern Relationships Are Redefining Sexual Connection
Betty's Toy Box, How to Use a Butt Plug: The Basics from Betty’s Toy Box
Erotic Fiction
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 11
Spices of Lust, The Archivist’s Secrets: The Hidden Map (Part 1)
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
The Sex Shed, How to use a riding crop? Scenarios and how to (techniques)
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search, Crime and Policing Bill UK Proposed Amendments Relating to Sex Work
Fox Digital, WordPress, Squarespace, Wix. Which Platform Is Best For Your Escort Website?
Elizabeth of London, MMF & FFM
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Not a Love Story (1981): The Celluloid Dungeon
Frank Noir, Favourite porn #9: Paul Thomas
State of the World
Femina Viva, What do we do with fake allies or do they just not know any better?
Erotic Non-Fiction
Kristina J, Reflecting on My Sexual Conditioning: Unraveling the Messages I Grew Up With
Mx Valentina, Simple is beautiful: the joys of a barehanded spanking
Writing About Writing
Ramone Quides, Framing For a Better 2025
Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions.
Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too.
I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that =
Sex Work
The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1
The bane of every sex worker's existence. The time wasters.
Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers
I'd like to say I have a love hate relationship with twitter but to be honest, I have no love for Twitter at all and can't even be bothered hating it any more after all the shadowbanning. Best I can do is barely tolerate Twitter to the extent of maintaining the kind of presence on there that's expected of a SW.
Sandra Vitamin S
Sandra, TS Ama and Mistress Volga get silky.
Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama
Ama again! She's everywhere. This time with Oz and Mistress Chatterley.
Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans
I don't see why Twitter can't just have an NSFW on, NSFW off button and then advertisers can decide whether they want their ads to appear next to NSFW content or not. As opposed to rewarding SWs for all our hard work providing free content, without which Twitter would die, with sneaky backstabby shadowbans.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Funzze What's the BEST Material for Adult Toys?
Silicone is a personal favourite but I just recently received a stainless steel anal dildo from Funzze to review. I love it. Review coming soon.
Musings of a Switch The Early Days
William Wallace reminisces.
Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender
It's as if time itself has slowed down, each second stretched to its limits as we linger on the precipice of pleasure, suspended in the delicious agony of anticipation.
Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine
And puppy gets a leash and collar.
Erotic Fiction
Jasmine Gold The Unicorn
The mythical beast with three backs.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33
+1 the Chemical Brothers.
FYHO The Polaroid
It's a Kodak moment
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)
Beautiful pic and post. Shirley Manson would approve.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting
Wet and wild. Never heard it called a platinum shower before. That's awesome.
Product Reviews
Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review
An ergonomic wand for people with accessibility needs.
Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder
Love the colours and design. Gigeresque.
Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo
That's a tentacular tentacle. My tentacle dildo is more of the squishy variety so a more rigid one would come in handy.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)
Even if you've never seen the movie and have no intention of seeing it, I still recommend watching this video review just to hear two highly experienced and knowledgeable kink historians chatting.