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Welcome to Elust 190

Cover image courtesy of Kate Leigh. 

A bubbling cauldron of austenitic sex blog posts will put the shakti in your vajrayana.

Sex & Relationships

Morgan Destera, Ten Years!

The trip mentioned in this post is recounted in detail in the latest post on Morgan's blog. Check it out!

Sex Toy DB, So You’ve Bought a Sex Machine … Now What?

X2 the plumbers pipe clamps recommendation to fix your sex machine in place. When I had my f machine clamped to the bed frame, that thing was a beast.

Lushense, How To Choose The Best Lubricant For Your Intimate Moments

Silicone lube with metal or glass toys is a good shout. Just take care not to get it on fabric. It's not easy to wash out.

Betty's Toy Box, The Smart Guide to Penis Extensions for Couples

Detachable penis.

Kink & Fetish

Mx Valentina, A Man isn't Whole without a Woman to Serve

The fortunate few are allowed to serve a sex witch.

Erotica

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 16

That student has spent 16 chapters getting penetrated by Sensei. She's going to get home from school 16 days late, walking like John Wayne.

Sugarbutch, You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out

And take it they do.

Liz Black X, Lumiis Glow - Sasha's Bimbo Bliss Fiction

Bimbotastic.

Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Erotic Body as Cosmic Mirror: Tantric Rituals of Union and the Politics of Liberation

My vajrayana is overflowing with shakti.

Hannah McKnight, He’s Wearing a Skirt…

If the femme clothes fits.

Sex Work

Elizabeth of London, Athens

Fox Digital, How to Attract Wealthy Clients in an Oversaturated Market

Does it really matter how affluent they are? £300 is £300, I don't care if it's handed to me by a billionaire or a barista.

The Siren Domme, Five Archetypes of a Dom/me (and Why You Don’t Have to Pick Just One)

Whenever I see emdashes, I copy and paste the article into grammarly to see how much of it is AI generated. Only 8% in this case which is a relief. It would be a bit scary if something this well written, accurately describing various Domme archetypes was 100% chat gpt. I suspect what the author, and many of us (myself included) has done, is drafted notes, typed up the ideas, and then used Gen AI for fine tuning and formatting the post for SEO optimisation.

Sex Worker Search, Payment Portal Pre-Release Invite

Give it a try. I think this, or something very like it, will be the future for sex workers. I can't wait to see how we can benefit from receiving payments directly via a widget on our own personal websites and see hypocrites like onlyfans that take 30% + of our hard earned profits whilst providing effectively no value and doing nothing for our community, take a massive financial hit as we all leave their platform.

Hellga, Conor's Craic. My Upcoming Tour of Dublin, Ireland

Top of the morning to you.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Pillion (2025): The Celluloid Dungeon

Writing About Writing

Oxy Shop, Femdom Fiction: How Erotic Stories Spark Real-Life Submission

More emdashes. Grammarly says this one is close to 100% AI generated. The subject matter is interesting. The content is informative. The formatting is impeccable. Look at how all the sentences are almost the exact same length and the paragraphs all have almost the exact same number of sentences. It's like a ChatGPT haiku of SEO optimised text blocks.

Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes

No emdashes. Compare and contrast. Varying character count of sentences and paragraphs, first person perspective, personal opinions and anecdotes, a lot less structured, no subheadings. Grammarly says it's zero percent AI. It does look like it's been deliberately SEO optimised so the author is probably following the guidance of the Yoast plug in or similar. I use Yoast too. It is good for search ranking but the reason it's good for search ranking is because Google is giving us better rankings in exchange for making content that's easier for it's AI to parse and then extracting our ideas, without crediting us, to generate it's own AI mode responses which appear above search results. So it's tricking us into agreeing to a Faustian bargain where we are working to help Google render ourselves obsolete. But that's progress. I'm not anti AI but I do think things like what I describe above are taking the piss.

Product Reviews

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Three Bead Stainless Steel Butt Plug Review

Austenitic.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Femina Viva, Is Learning How to Receive My Waterloo?

Waterloo? That's between Southwark and Westminster on the Jubilee line, innit?

Welcome to Elust 189

Cover image courtesy of Venus Fantasy.

Pole may be slippery when wet.

Sex Work

Elizabeth of London, Sex in Selfridges

I tried it on but it was a bit tight.

Charli, Your Deposit, Your Provider, and You

Do your research, pay deposits to genuine providers, not to scammers.

Jack Parker, How to Discuss Sex Work with Friends and Family

In my case, don't, but if you did, excellent advice to follow here.

Hellga, One More Night in Paris

C’est sexy. Tres sexy. It's fine written down but when I try to speak romance languages romantically, I sound like Brad Pitt in Inglorious Basterds.

Sandra, Hide and Seek in a Hotel Lobby & Hardcore Fucking in a Hotel Room

Only a ballerina would attempt to do anything involving walking, let alone running, in Louboutins.

Oz Bigdownunder, Mrs Robinson. MMF Duo with an Elegant English Mistress

Hard day at the office.

Sex Worker Search, How to Suck Like a Porn-Star

Sloppily.

Erotic Fiction

Mx Valentina, The Making of a Puppy

Woof.

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 15

Sensei has spent the last 14 chapters fucking his students, that school is going to fire him so hard when he does eventually go back to work.

Blogging

Morgan Destera, Announcement

I'm happy to hear Morgan will still be posting.

Liz X, Evolving Desires - My Journey from Soft Surrender to Darker Depths in Erotica

Extreme bimbofication.

Erotic Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Renewal of Desire: Sustaining Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

Tantra is not a distant, esoteric discipline but a living pedagogy capable of transforming relational life. My lingam throbs when you talk pedagogical to me.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Sexual Wellness Professional Alliance, The Best Sexual Wellness Workshops and Certification Programs

Well, well, well.

Femina Viva, Owning my demons

The horsies.

Product Reviews

Miss Ruby Reviews, We-Vibe Melt 2

A pressure wave clitoral suction toy.

Lushense, CockBlock - The Best Gay Sex Toy From Another Universe

Let’s answer the question every curious astronaut might ask: what is frotting?

Pleasure Me Now, We-Vibe Jive Review: Meet Your New Favorite Egg Vibrator!

What came first? The chicken or the egg?

Ramone Quides, A Most Tantalizing Kurve

The + and - are designed to be recognisable by touch. That's cool! Brail for buzz my clit harder. Or softer.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzzvibes, 5 Red Flags Your Sex Life Is Heading for a Snooze Fest

Maybe your love life's D.O.A. It's like you're always stuck in second gear When it hasn't been your day, your week
Your month, or even your year, but I'll be there for you.