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Welcome to Elust 189

Cover image courtesy of Venus Fantasy.

Pole may be slippery when wet.

Sex Work

Elizabeth of London, Sex in Selfridges

I tried it on but it was a bit tight.

Charli, Your Deposit, Your Provider, and You

Do your research, pay deposits to genuine providers, not to scammers.

Jack Parker, How to Discuss Sex Work with Friends and Family

In my case, don't, but if you did, excellent advice to follow here.

Hellga, One More Night in Paris

C’est sexy. Tres sexy. It's fine written down but when I try to speak romance languages romantically, I sound like Brad Pitt in Inglorious Basterds.

Sandra, Hide and Seek in a Hotel Lobby & Hardcore Fucking in a Hotel Room

Only a ballerina would attempt to do anything involving walking, let alone running, in Louboutins.

Oz Bigdownunder, Mrs Robinson. MMF Duo with an Elegant English Mistress

Hard day at the office.

Sex Worker Search, How to Suck Like a Porn-Star

Sloppily.

Erotic Fiction

Mx Valentina, The Making of a Puppy

Woof.

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 15

Sensei has spent the last 14 chapters fucking his students, that school is going to fire him so hard when he does eventually go back to work.

Blogging

Morgan Destera, Announcement

I'm happy to hear Morgan will still be posting.

Liz X, Evolving Desires - My Journey from Soft Surrender to Darker Depths in Erotica

Extreme bimbofication.

Erotic Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Renewal of Desire: Sustaining Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

Tantra is not a distant, esoteric discipline but a living pedagogy capable of transforming relational life. My lingam throbs when you talk pedagogical to me.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Sexual Wellness Professional Alliance, The Best Sexual Wellness Workshops and Certification Programs

Well, well, well.

Femina Viva, Owning my demons

The horsies.

Product Reviews

Miss Ruby Reviews, We-Vibe Melt 2

A pressure wave clitoral suction toy.

Lushense, CockBlock - The Best Gay Sex Toy From Another Universe

Let’s answer the question every curious astronaut might ask: what is frotting?

Pleasure Me Now, We-Vibe Jive Review: Meet Your New Favorite Egg Vibrator!

What came first? The chicken or the egg?

Ramone Quides, A Most Tantalizing Kurve

The + and - are designed to be recognisable by touch. That's cool! Brail for buzz my clit harder. Or softer.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzzvibes, 5 Red Flags Your Sex Life Is Heading for a Snooze Fest

Maybe your love life's D.O.A. It's like you're always stuck in second gear When it hasn't been your day, your week
Your month, or even your year, but I'll be there for you.

Welcome to Elust 185

Cover image courtesy of  Ellie Stockholm. If you like Ellie's content, please vote here = AltStar Awards 2025 Vote: Best Premium Social Media Star.

Betty's Toy Box, How to Use a Butt Plug: The Basics from Betty’s Toy Box

Fox Digital, WordPress, Squarespace, Wix. Which Platform Is Best For Your Escort Website?

Elizabeth of London, MMF & FFM

State of the World

Femina Viva, What do we do with fake allies or do they just not know any better?

Erotic Non-Fiction

Kristina J, Reflecting on My Sexual Conditioning: Unraveling the Messages I Grew Up With

Mx Valentina, Simple is beautiful: the joys of a barehanded spanking

Writing About Writing

Ramone Quides, Framing For a Better 2025

Welcome to Elust 182

Cover image courtesy of  Kiki Lover.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Bri & Liam spend a day with Lena & Carlos, Part 2

Four friends shed their clothes and their inhibitions.

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 7

Sensei eyes off Asuka's entry.

Sex Work

Lenore Sins, Sex Work & Love: Mistress Lenore’s Perspective

Elizabeth of London, Traveling and Sex

Naked swing sauna in Madrid.

Super Smash Cache, Making Money Lewd & Nude Modeling: The Grind Behind It

Sitting pretty.

Domina Jemma, Understanding and preparing for the implementation of the Online Safety Act. Info for adult providers.

Cautious optimism regarding how the OSA might be implemented.

Mx Valentina, The dominatrix as life coach

Beyond tutti frutti.

Femina Viva, Stepping onto the tantric path

A wild ride.

Maîtresse Nuit, BDSM Power Games: Pushing Limits And Playing At The Edge Of The Unbearable

Helot submits to a forced bi ritual.

Sex Worker Search, I Hate My Job: Thots on Labor, Sex Work, and Capitalism. An Interview with Adrie Rose

Sex work is work even when it's not wonderful and empowering. It can be hard work, or just an ordinary day at the office like any other job.

 

Erotic Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Metaphysics of Desire: Tantra, Eroticism, and the Transmutation of the Self

Nothing is intrinsically impure or profane.

Kristina J, Whispers of Enchantment

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Discovering the Art of Tantra and the Transformative Power of Tantric Massage

Liz Black, How a Sex Doll Creates Comfort During Cold Weather

Hygge.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Disorderly House, 10 Ways To Stop Having Terrible Condom Sex

Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 11 to 15

Betty's Toy Box, Top 8 Foods to Boost Your Libido: What to Eat for a Healthier Sex Life 

Eats nuts and leaves.

 

Interviews

Dirk Hooper, Fetish Week: Interview with Comic Book Artist SexGazer by Dirk Hooper

This is a very interesting read since NSFW artists face many of the same obstacles as sex workers in terms of de-platformimg, shadowbanning, discrimination from payment portals and card processors etc.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Inflatable Vibrator

I like the concept. Maybe the sequel will get it just right.

Miss Ruby Reviews, Tracy’s Dog Swirlii

Cute. Looks like a claymation character.

Lushense, Top UK Sex Toy Brands in 2025

Great shouts. Most of them I'm familiar with but there's a few new brands there that look very promising.

 

Writing About Writing

Emily Rooks, Emily Describes Her Writing Process

Conflict resolution, erotica style.