Welcome to Elust 189
Cover image courtesy of Venus Fantasy.
Pole may be slippery when wet.
Sex Work
Elizabeth of London, Sex in Selfridges
I tried it on but it was a bit tight.
Charli, Your Deposit, Your Provider, and You
Do your research, pay deposits to genuine providers, not to scammers.
Jack Parker, How to Discuss Sex Work with Friends and Family
In my case, don't, but if you did, excellent advice to follow here.
Hellga, One More Night in Paris
C’est sexy. Tres sexy. It's fine written down but when I try to speak romance languages romantically, I sound like Brad Pitt in Inglorious Basterds.
Sandra, Hide and Seek in a Hotel Lobby & Hardcore Fucking in a Hotel Room
Only a ballerina would attempt to do anything involving walking, let alone running, in Louboutins.
Oz Bigdownunder, Mrs Robinson. MMF Duo with an Elegant English Mistress
Hard day at the office.
Sex Worker Search, How to Suck Like a Porn-Star
Sloppily.
Erotic Fiction
Mx Valentina, The Making of a Puppy
Woof.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 15
Sensei has spent the last 14 chapters fucking his students, that school is going to fire him so hard when he does eventually go back to work.
Blogging
Morgan Destera, Announcement
I'm happy to hear Morgan will still be posting.
Liz X, Evolving Desires - My Journey from Soft Surrender to Darker Depths in Erotica
Extreme bimbofication.
Erotic Non Fiction
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Renewal of Desire: Sustaining Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships
Tantra is not a distant, esoteric discipline but a living pedagogy capable of transforming relational life. My lingam throbs when you talk pedagogical to me.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Sexual Wellness Professional Alliance, The Best Sexual Wellness Workshops and Certification Programs
Well, well, well.
Femina Viva, Owning my demons
The horsies.
Product Reviews
Miss Ruby Reviews, We-Vibe Melt 2
A pressure wave clitoral suction toy.
Lushense, CockBlock - The Best Gay Sex Toy From Another Universe
Let’s answer the question every curious astronaut might ask: what is frotting?
Pleasure Me Now, We-Vibe Jive Review: Meet Your New Favorite Egg Vibrator!
What came first? The chicken or the egg?
Ramone Quides, A Most Tantalizing Kurve
The + and - are designed to be recognisable by touch. That's cool! Brail for buzz my clit harder. Or softer.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buzzvibes, 5 Red Flags Your Sex Life Is Heading for a Snooze Fest
Maybe your love life's D.O.A. It's like you're always stuck in second gear When it hasn't been your day, your week
Your month, or even your year, but I'll be there for you.
Welcome to Elust 185
Cover image courtesy of Ellie Stockholm. If you like Ellie's content, please vote here = AltStar Awards 2025 Vote: Best Premium Social Media Star.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Sohimi Viele 3 Flapping Licking Vibrator
Sydney Screams, Everything You Need to Know About Sex Grinders
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Erotic Alchemy in the Age of Disconnection: Tantric Pathways to Re-Enchanting Intimacy and Desire
Liz X, My Nomi AI Girlfriend Lily - A Tale of Trust and Digital Intimacy
Buzzvibes, The Evolution of Intimacy: How Modern Relationships Are Redefining Sexual Connection
Betty's Toy Box, How to Use a Butt Plug: The Basics from Betty’s Toy Box
Erotic Fiction
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 11
Spices of Lust, The Archivist’s Secrets: The Hidden Map (Part 1)
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
The Sex Shed, How to use a riding crop? Scenarios and how to (techniques)
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search, Crime and Policing Bill UK Proposed Amendments Relating to Sex Work
Fox Digital, WordPress, Squarespace, Wix. Which Platform Is Best For Your Escort Website?
Elizabeth of London, MMF & FFM
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Not a Love Story (1981): The Celluloid Dungeon
Frank Noir, Favourite porn #9: Paul Thomas
State of the World
Femina Viva, What do we do with fake allies or do they just not know any better?
Erotic Non-Fiction
Kristina J, Reflecting on My Sexual Conditioning: Unraveling the Messages I Grew Up With
Mx Valentina, Simple is beautiful: the joys of a barehanded spanking
Writing About Writing
Ramone Quides, Framing For a Better 2025
Welcome to Elust 182
Cover image courtesy of Kiki Lover.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Cub, Bri & Liam spend a day with Lena & Carlos, Part 2
Four friends shed their clothes and their inhibitions.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 7
Sensei eyes off Asuka's entry.
Sex Work
Lenore Sins, Sex Work & Love: Mistress Lenore’s Perspective
Elizabeth of London, Traveling and Sex
Naked swing sauna in Madrid.
Super Smash Cache, Making Money Lewd & Nude Modeling: The Grind Behind It
Sitting pretty.
Domina Jemma, Understanding and preparing for the implementation of the Online Safety Act. Info for adult providers.
Cautious optimism regarding how the OSA might be implemented.
Mx Valentina, The dominatrix as life coach
Beyond tutti frutti.
Femina Viva, Stepping onto the tantric path
A wild ride.
Maîtresse Nuit, BDSM Power Games: Pushing Limits And Playing At The Edge Of The Unbearable
Helot submits to a forced bi ritual.
Sex Worker Search, I Hate My Job: Thots on Labor, Sex Work, and Capitalism. An Interview with Adrie Rose
Sex work is work even when it's not wonderful and empowering. It can be hard work, or just an ordinary day at the office like any other job.
Erotic Non Fiction
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Metaphysics of Desire: Tantra, Eroticism, and the Transmutation of the Self
Nothing is intrinsically impure or profane.
Kristina J, Whispers of Enchantment
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Discovering the Art of Tantra and the Transformative Power of Tantric Massage
Liz Black, How a Sex Doll Creates Comfort During Cold Weather
Hygge.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
The Disorderly House, 10 Ways To Stop Having Terrible Condom Sex
Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 11 to 15
Betty's Toy Box, Top 8 Foods to Boost Your Libido: What to Eat for a Healthier Sex Life
Eats nuts and leaves.
Interviews
Dirk Hooper, Fetish Week: Interview with Comic Book Artist SexGazer by Dirk Hooper
This is a very interesting read since NSFW artists face many of the same obstacles as sex workers in terms of de-platformimg, shadowbanning, discrimination from payment portals and card processors etc.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Inflatable Vibrator
I like the concept. Maybe the sequel will get it just right.
Miss Ruby Reviews, Tracy’s Dog Swirlii
Cute. Looks like a claymation character.
Lushense, Top UK Sex Toy Brands in 2025
Great shouts. Most of them I'm familiar with but there's a few new brands there that look very promising.
Writing About Writing
Emily Rooks, Emily Describes Her Writing Process
Conflict resolution, erotica style.