Welcome to Elust 196
Cover image courtesy of Miss Parker.
Strip down and saddle up for April's Elust 196.
Erotic Fiction
Sugarbutch, Supine: A Jealousy Play Erotica Story
DDlg spank fantasy. Yum!
Jessica Lansdown, Peeping Tom
Tom gets an eyeful.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Morgan Destera, Transfer Post – How Do I Feel?
Spoiler alert, they hook up in the next episode.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
ThatGrrl, A Dominant Woman is Not a Fetish
A woman's perspective on BDSM dating.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Fruity Cams, How to jerk off longer
Slow down.
State of the World
Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Safe? Privacy, Tracking & Security Explained
This is the way. Insist on more privacy online.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Temporality and the Ecology of Desire: How Ritual Transforms Time, Pleasure, and Attentional Economy
Prolongation.
Product Reviews
Oz Bigdownunder, I'll Let You Lick My Lollypop. Funzze Candy Cane Vibrator
Oz and Luka get frisky with a new toy.
Liz X, Tabletop Review: The simplyjoy 10-Inch Dual Density Dildo
A solid contender.
Spices of Lust, VVD Rider Desire Review
Clit tapping mode.
Sex Work
Evie + Axel, Anxiety around sexual performance
Let go of the porn star standard.
Mistress Sophie, How Best To Approach A Pro-Domme, (Some Helpful Do’s And Don’t’s)
Politely.
Sex Worker Search, Clients. Are you more like A? Or B?
My post.
Sandra, “Will abuse u and leave marks but make sure u enjoy!”
A belting.
Mx Valentina, Maid Fantasy. With a Twist.
Oh for a service sub who can actually clean.
Vivienne Parker, Swingers Club
My kind of party.
Milady, Rendezvous in Paris with a Butt Plug
Voulez vous coucher avec moi with a buttplug?
Hellga, Bunkhaus Dungeon Femdom Session
A fun session in London's best dungeon.
Books and Movies
O Miss Pearl, “What Fury Brings” by Tricia Levenseller [Femdom Book Review]
A liberal pile of femdom.
The History of BDSM, Box Hill (2020) by Adam Mars-Jones
Pillion the movie was fun. I'd like to read the book too.
Welcome to Elust 195
Cover image courtesy of 848ellie.
Pretty pic. Of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Britney Spears? Buffy has big strong hands and callused knuckles. Must be from punching out all those vampires.
Image Courtesy of Sighonsocial.
State of the World
Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Anonymous for Viewers? A Practical Privacy Checklist
Ah the rise and fall and rise again of the social webcam site. Chat roulette. Omegle. Nice idea. Eventually gets overrun by masturbating Borat clones and men using fake cam to impersonate women.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 3)
Someone buy the movie rights for this and make it into an X rated choose your own adventure concept like Bandersnatch but all sex scenes.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Architecture of Intimacy: Rewriting Love Beyond Possession, Identity, and Fear
Tantra vs jealousy
Awakening Your Inner Essence, When Betrayal Becomes Arousal: Understanding Erotic Survival Through a Tantric Lens
Tantra vs PTSD.
Femina Viva, Submission need not be weakness
Atonement for masculinity
Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, The Spirit Is Willing, Part Two: The Flesh is Weak
The lovers convalesce and canoodle
B R Saiph, Locked on the Precipice of Permanence: Her Decision, My Submission
That is some impressive commitment to chastity
Product reviews
Liz Black, Hands-Free Pleasure: A Closer Look at the VVD Rider Desire & Rider Go (Plus Exclusive Discount!)
Spices of Lust, Lovense Gush 2 Review
Stroker toy
Sex Toy DB, Saddle Sex Machines or Sybian Alternatives: What Are They, and Which Is The Best?
Giddy up!
Sex Work
Rogue Love Escapades, What’s in a name? The inspiration behind Rogue Love Escapades…
A collaboration between FBSM and Domme personas.
Sex Worker Search, Interview With YAS Work
My conversation with AM Davies. Stripper, activist and podcast host.
Danny Gold, Anal Therapy
Greek
Adam Black, Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort
The possibilities are endless
Oz Bigdownunder, London Eye View MMF Couple Sex Marathon
Threesome fun
Ellie Hart, Why Emotional Intelligence Is the Most Attractive Quality
The brain is the third biggest organ. After the skin and the liver.
Sandra, A Massage with a Twist
Fits like a glove
Hellga, Sara Graduates Sissy School
Every good (sissy) boy deserves fucking
Mx Valentina, 113. Beyond the Veil: The Existential Architecture of Mx Valentina
Instruments of metamorphosis
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, High Maintenance S03E05 “Payday”: The Celluloid Dungeon
Fake taxi bangbus kinky lesbian version
Blogging
Sinclair Sexsmith, Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026)
Webinars