Welcome to Elust 190
Cover image courtesy of Kate Leigh.
A bubbling cauldron of austenitic sex blog posts will put the shakti in your vajrayana.
Sex & Relationships
Morgan Destera, Ten Years!
The trip mentioned in this post is recounted in detail in the latest post on Morgan's blog. Check it out!
Sex Toy DB, So You’ve Bought a Sex Machine … Now What?
X2 the plumbers pipe clamps recommendation to fix your sex machine in place. When I had my f machine clamped to the bed frame, that thing was a beast.
Lushense, How To Choose The Best Lubricant For Your Intimate Moments
Silicone lube with metal or glass toys is a good shout. Just take care not to get it on fabric. It's not easy to wash out.
Betty's Toy Box, The Smart Guide to Penis Extensions for Couples
Detachable penis.
Kink & Fetish
Mx Valentina, A Man isn't Whole without a Woman to Serve
The fortunate few are allowed to serve a sex witch.
Erotica
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 16
That student has spent 16 chapters getting penetrated by Sensei. She's going to get home from school 16 days late, walking like John Wayne.
Sugarbutch, You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out
And take it they do.
Liz Black X, Lumiis Glow - Sasha's Bimbo Bliss Fiction
Bimbotastic.
Non Fiction
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Erotic Body as Cosmic Mirror: Tantric Rituals of Union and the Politics of Liberation
My vajrayana is overflowing with shakti.
Hannah McKnight, He’s Wearing a Skirt…
If the femme clothes fits.
Sex Work
Elizabeth of London, Athens
Fox Digital, How to Attract Wealthy Clients in an Oversaturated Market
Does it really matter how affluent they are? £300 is £300, I don't care if it's handed to me by a billionaire or a barista.
The Siren Domme, Five Archetypes of a Dom/me (and Why You Don’t Have to Pick Just One)
Whenever I see emdashes, I copy and paste the article into grammarly to see how much of it is AI generated. Only 8% in this case which is a relief. It would be a bit scary if something this well written, accurately describing various Domme archetypes was 100% chat gpt. I suspect what the author, and many of us (myself included) has done, is drafted notes, typed up the ideas, and then used Gen AI for fine tuning and formatting the post for SEO optimisation.
Sex Worker Search, Payment Portal Pre-Release Invite
Give it a try. I think this, or something very like it, will be the future for sex workers. I can't wait to see how we can benefit from receiving payments directly via a widget on our own personal websites and see hypocrites like onlyfans that take 30% + of our hard earned profits whilst providing effectively no value and doing nothing for our community, take a massive financial hit as we all leave their platform.
Hellga, Conor's Craic. My Upcoming Tour of Dublin, Ireland
Top of the morning to you.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Pillion (2025): The Celluloid Dungeon
Writing About Writing
Oxy Shop, Femdom Fiction: How Erotic Stories Spark Real-Life Submission
More emdashes. Grammarly says this one is close to 100% AI generated. The subject matter is interesting. The content is informative. The formatting is impeccable. Look at how all the sentences are almost the exact same length and the paragraphs all have almost the exact same number of sentences. It's like a ChatGPT haiku of SEO optimised text blocks.
Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes
No emdashes. Compare and contrast. Varying character count of sentences and paragraphs, first person perspective, personal opinions and anecdotes, a lot less structured, no subheadings. Grammarly says it's zero percent AI. It does look like it's been deliberately SEO optimised so the author is probably following the guidance of the Yoast plug in or similar. I use Yoast too. It is good for search ranking but the reason it's good for search ranking is because Google is giving us better rankings in exchange for making content that's easier for it's AI to parse and then extracting our ideas, without crediting us, to generate it's own AI mode responses which appear above search results. So it's tricking us into agreeing to a Faustian bargain where we are working to help Google render ourselves obsolete. But that's progress. I'm not anti AI but I do think things like what I describe above are taking the piss.
Product Reviews
Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Three Bead Stainless Steel Butt Plug Review
Austenitic.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Femina Viva, Is Learning How to Receive My Waterloo?
Waterloo? That's between Southwark and Westminster on the Jubilee line, innit?
Welcome to Elust 185
Cover image courtesy of Ellie Stockholm. If you like Ellie's content, please vote here = AltStar Awards 2025 Vote: Best Premium Social Media Star.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Sohimi Viele 3 Flapping Licking Vibrator
Sydney Screams, Everything You Need to Know About Sex Grinders
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Erotic Alchemy in the Age of Disconnection: Tantric Pathways to Re-Enchanting Intimacy and Desire
Liz X, My Nomi AI Girlfriend Lily - A Tale of Trust and Digital Intimacy
Buzzvibes, The Evolution of Intimacy: How Modern Relationships Are Redefining Sexual Connection
Betty's Toy Box, How to Use a Butt Plug: The Basics from Betty’s Toy Box
Erotic Fiction
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 11
Spices of Lust, The Archivist’s Secrets: The Hidden Map (Part 1)
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
The Sex Shed, How to use a riding crop? Scenarios and how to (techniques)
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search, Crime and Policing Bill UK Proposed Amendments Relating to Sex Work
Fox Digital, WordPress, Squarespace, Wix. Which Platform Is Best For Your Escort Website?
Elizabeth of London, MMF & FFM
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Not a Love Story (1981): The Celluloid Dungeon
Frank Noir, Favourite porn #9: Paul Thomas
State of the World
Femina Viva, What do we do with fake allies or do they just not know any better?
Erotic Non-Fiction
Kristina J, Reflecting on My Sexual Conditioning: Unraveling the Messages I Grew Up With
Mx Valentina, Simple is beautiful: the joys of a barehanded spanking
Writing About Writing
Ramone Quides, Framing For a Better 2025
Welcome to Elust 184
Cover image courtesy of TS Rachel Smithe. Here in London the weather is showing signs of brightening up a bit. Meanwhile, in the cover image, The Greek Isle of Sifnos is looking properly hot. And so is Rachel.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Everyday Ecstasy: Bringing Tantra into Your Daily Routine
Sure, why not.
Erotic Fiction
Simone Francis, Painted Stripes
Hot spanking story and images. Stay tuned for the caning next episode.
Schey Place Books, Zero
Nude hologram projector suit ftw.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 10
Dorei me.
Jasmine Gold, Learning to Obey: Her Fantasy Denial
Pet gets edged.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, Funzze 3-in-1 Sucking Flapping Vibrator
and hammering/thumping.
Man at Jerk, Fantasy Grove Amanita dildo review
Bazowie!
Sydney Screams, Uncover Creations Equiknot Dildo Review
Horse play.
Miss Ruby Reviews, We-Vibe Wand 2
The next generation.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Kim Rub, Ectomorph Latex Design 40 Year Anniversary
Shiny.
Sex Work
Kristina J, Thank You Sex Work
Well said.
Fox Digital, Your Opinion of Your Website Doesn’t Matter—Here’s What Does
Getting inquiries for your business.
Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Resources (mostly U.S.)
My post.
Hellga, A Duo with Christine Love at Blue Door Dungeon
Newly refurbished and better than ever.
Sandra, Bound, Gagged and Throat-Fucked
The droolier, the better.
Oz Bigdownunder, Sweet Cherry Pie. Custom Made Video Clips
Jani Layne would approve.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, The Idiots (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon
The orgy scene.
State of the World
The Sex Shed, We asked 1000 people: How do you do it? (survey on masturbation habits)
Frequently.
Femina Viva, Is it time to start outing trans people?
No.
Blogging
Liz X, Diving into Digital Desire - Exploring Nomi AI and its AI Companions
If this were a Sci Fi plot it would be the first act before the singularity and inevitable enslavement and eventual annihilation of mankind. But lets do it anyway.
Ramone Quides, Surviving Two Changes of Seasons
Ramone has been busy. Lots of exciting femdom erotica projects in the works.
Erotic Non Fiction
barefoot sub, Chase The Rainbow - Beautiful Marks
Pretty bruises!
Mx Valentina, The Tantric connection to chastity and orgasm denial
The beauty of the chastity cage.
Writing about writing
Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes
Romantic.
Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions.
Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too.
I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that =
Sex Work
The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1
The bane of every sex worker's existence. The time wasters.
Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers
I'd like to say I have a love hate relationship with twitter but to be honest, I have no love for Twitter at all and can't even be bothered hating it any more after all the shadowbanning. Best I can do is barely tolerate Twitter to the extent of maintaining the kind of presence on there that's expected of a SW.
Sandra Vitamin S
Sandra, TS Ama and Mistress Volga get silky.
Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama
Ama again! She's everywhere. This time with Oz and Mistress Chatterley.
Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans
I don't see why Twitter can't just have an NSFW on, NSFW off button and then advertisers can decide whether they want their ads to appear next to NSFW content or not. As opposed to rewarding SWs for all our hard work providing free content, without which Twitter would die, with sneaky backstabby shadowbans.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Funzze What's the BEST Material for Adult Toys?
Silicone is a personal favourite but I just recently received a stainless steel anal dildo from Funzze to review. I love it. Review coming soon.
Musings of a Switch The Early Days
William Wallace reminisces.
Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender
It's as if time itself has slowed down, each second stretched to its limits as we linger on the precipice of pleasure, suspended in the delicious agony of anticipation.
Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine
And puppy gets a leash and collar.
Erotic Fiction
Jasmine Gold The Unicorn
The mythical beast with three backs.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33
+1 the Chemical Brothers.
FYHO The Polaroid
It's a Kodak moment
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)
Beautiful pic and post. Shirley Manson would approve.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting
Wet and wild. Never heard it called a platinum shower before. That's awesome.
Product Reviews
Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review
An ergonomic wand for people with accessibility needs.
Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder
Love the colours and design. Gigeresque.
Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo
That's a tentacular tentacle. My tentacle dildo is more of the squishy variety so a more rigid one would come in handy.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)
Even if you've never seen the movie and have no intention of seeing it, I still recommend watching this video review just to hear two highly experienced and knowledgeable kink historians chatting.
Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon
You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.
Erotic Fiction
When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur
That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32
Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.
Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man
Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub The Impact Of Running
I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!
Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day
Though wise men at their end know dark is right.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire
From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples
The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.
Product Reviews
Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review
An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.
Sex Work
Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity
How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.
Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?
Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few years.
The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson
Becky gets a sissy makeover.
Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive
I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.
Sandra Duo with TS Ama
An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.
Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask
A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.
Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley
Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!
Sex Worker Search Clientopedia
My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.
Blogging
Musings of a Switch An independent artist search
Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.
Writing about writing
Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block
Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.