Welcome to Elust 178
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts
William's thoughts on online videos.
Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening
Exploring deeper intimacy through meditative practices.
The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide
Wanking 101.
Betty's Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try
Tempted to try them all right here, right now in Joe and the Juice.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)
Civility counts.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner
Sexplosive.
Little Red Spanking, The Lover’s Spat: A Paddle Story
Nothing better than the sound effects of a really good paddling.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything
i horny robot.
Erotic Fiction
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3
Seamus gets his hands on a rattan cane.
Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow
She got a real pretty mouth, ain't she?
Jasmine Gold, A Nun's Humiliation
Ginny sells her soul to the devil.
Product Reviews
Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn't Know Existed (2024)
A roundup of standout devices for male-focused enjoyment.
Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo's Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker
We don't have flying cars yet but we do have this.
Sex Work
Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You
Magnifique!
Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices
From a top Pro Domme.
Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory
My post.
Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker
A new Pro Domme thinking about rates.
Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz
Terrific threesome.
Nuit d'Or, Self-care For Dominants
Excellent advice from an experienced BDSM coach and mentor.
Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave
Sissygsms.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon
Special guest appearance from Freddy Krueger.
Poetry
Simone Francis, Watch Me
Photo illustrated.
The cover image for Elust 177 is courtesy of Vivienne Black and what an image it is!
Sex Work
Gen West, When 3 Isn't a Crowd
Three is the magic number.
Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop's Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love
Two powerhouses come together over bubbly.
Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better
Spicing things up in the kitchen to elevate the aftertaste.
Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires
Know Thyself, Know Your Partner
Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue
A kink scene institution relocates.
Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker
A look behind the curtain of a profession often unseen and misunderstood.
Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM
A magical blend of fantasy and desire takes roleplay to a whole new level.
Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories
My post. Navigating the fine print of online privacy.
Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London
Some local favourite play spaces and a few new ones.
Erotic Fiction
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 2
I predict that someone's going to get taught a lesson in the next chapter or two.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug
This jewelled delight promises to make your toy chest sparkle.
Liz X, Clear Pleasure - Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise
A surprise twist on glass that will definitely catch your attention!
Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)
A sex toy breakpoint test.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights
Elevating intimacy one boundary at a time.
barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day
Bon voyage barefoot!
Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective
How exploring meditation can bring a new rhythm to intimacy.
O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage
Making time for playtime in long-term femdom.
Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship
Creative ways to reignite the romantic flame.
Books and Movies
Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year
A love story that might just be your next romantic obsession.
Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You
Two things I certainly love. Sex and Sci-Fi.
The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon
And Japan.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves
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Cover image courtesy of Eddy. Photography by Maurice Farrell.
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.
Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.
Erotic Fiction
Simone Francis, Goldilocks – A Supernatural BDSM Horror Story
Ramone Quides, Queenie and Little Dick, Part 1: Reticence
Kristina J, Captivated and Caught: Kristina J.‘s Seductive Revenge
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 1
Product Reviews
Liz X Likes, The Future of Pleasure is Here: A Comprehensive Review of the Keon Automatic Masturbator
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Dildo with a Twist
Princess Previews, N Joy Disco
Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Glass Toys
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Pleasure Me Now, Fist and Furious: The Ins and Outs of Anal Fisting
barefoot sub, Ageing, By Barefoot
Buzzing Babe, Buying Amazon Sex Toys the Smart Way
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search, Adult SEO. An Interview with Maverank
Lady Ava, Why Am I a Dominatrix?
Hellga, Showers of Gold: A Duo with Christine Love and Mr. E
Sandra, The Ouroboros. Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session
Erotic Non Fiction
Beyond Non-Binary, Baby steps for a baby domme learning her new profession
Lilly in Distress, Slave Spa
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Betty's Toy Box, Mastering the Art of Nipple Clamps
Hannah McKnight, Saturday Night’s Alright for Kinkiness
Books and Movies
LA Jayne, Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal
The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.
The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:
A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.
Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:
Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.
LA Jayne, Against the Discourse
Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:
Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.
Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:
Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.
Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:
A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.
Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:
A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.
Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:
Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.
Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo
Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:
Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.
Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:
An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.
Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:
Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.
Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:
Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.
Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:
Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.
barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss
The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:
A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.
Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:
Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.
Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:
Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.
Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:
A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.
Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:
A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.
Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:
An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.
The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:
A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.
Elust 174 fishnets the catch of the day of the sexiest blog posts on the web. Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina's Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips. I'm in awe of Catalina's website and overall web presence. Fingers crossed Epoch, the company that provides credit card processing facilities for her site might work with me too. I've sent them an email.
Erotic Non Fiction
Voyageur Maggie and Paul
A complicated affair.
Kristina J Kink and Fetish
Encyclopaedic.
Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery
BRB SRS.
Erotic Fiction
barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences
Most enjoyable chastity erotica. I love the idea of downsizing the cage!
FYHO Her Boys
Bizarre love square.
Jasmine Gold A Submissive's First Threesome
Site seems to be offline.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End
Stephanie, Maires and Master have been engaged in a 36 day non stop sex marathon in a sharehouse. In consideration of their flatmates, who probably bought earplugs on day 1 and may have been considering hosing the loving throuple down with a fire extinguisher by day 36, they decide not to have a threesome in the shared kitchen and discuss getting their own house together.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo
Ooh, shiny! A toy for stimulating the G spot or prostate.
Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O
Whisper quiet, versatile and rumbly. I like the idea of the O ring for grip.
Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review
That's an impressive looking stallion cock. Especially with the addition of the syringe for squirting fake cum out of it.
Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison
A mini herd of adorable clit sucking unicorns.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine
Vote for your favourite in the comments.
Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare
Really important for sub and Dom.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships
Who'd have imagined in the 80s, when the variety of porn available to me was magazines and vhs tapes, what porn would be like in 2024. No post scarcity utopia, inter galactic space travel or true AI yet but we do have lots of genres of porn to choose from.
Betty's Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms
Recommended positions to get the perfect angle and constant, firm stimulation.
Books and Movies
LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)
The one about the sharks in Paris looks like fun.
Sex Work
Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune
A karaoke ode to a kinky threesome.
Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?
My latest.
Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow
Glaswegian shennanigans.
Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong
That looks like the Kowloon Ladies Market. I found some treasures there. I still often wear a t-shirt I bought there 10 years ago that cost about £5 but is somehow made from indestructible fabric and shows almost no signs of wear after a decade.
Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon
You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.
Erotic Fiction
When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur
That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32
Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.
Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man
Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub The Impact Of Running
I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!
Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day
Though wise men at their end know dark is right.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire
From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples
The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.
Product Reviews
Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review
An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.
Sex Work
Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity
How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.
Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?
Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few years.
The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson
Becky gets a sissy makeover.
Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive
I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.
Sandra Duo with TS Ama
An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.
Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask
A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.
Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley
Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!
Sex Worker Search Clientopedia
My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.
Blogging
Musings of a Switch An independent artist search
Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.
Writing about writing
Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block
Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.
The perfect image thanks to Pod1213 to illustrate the sexiness that is this months collection of sex blog posts in Elust 167.
Product Reviews
Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator
Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox
The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action
The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023
I'm a big monster dildo fan. That Teufl looks amazing!
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame
What if your +1 for Christmas dinner is your polycule? Ready for Polyamory has some ideas.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship
Silken Claws on setting protocol, relation with punishment, how to set the right level of intensity, whether consent is necessary and much more when it comes to maintenance spankings.
Erotic Fiction
Red Panties and Purple Passions
Sexy story time with Ramone Quides and Jerusalem Mortimer.
Books and Movies
Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings
Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon
"A small town girl who runs into big time trouble as she takes on her roommates identity as a dominatrix to pay the bills" sounds like fun!
Sex Work
The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine
Oz, Lady Phoenix, Mina, Lousia, myself and Hellga with diverse takes on sex work and the adult industry.
The September edition, Elust 166, is jam packed with sexy blog posts for your reading pleasure.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles
Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential
Super Smash Cache and Silken claws on how to handle male subs and when chastity isn't all that respectively.
Erotic Non Fiction
The barefoot sub sees a sexy sight in the mirror.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man
Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend
Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple
Beyond Non-binary, Betty's Toy Box and Joan Price have changes to the libido, a way to use toys to stimulate the vulva just inside the vaginal opening and sexiness for sexagenarians.
Product Reviews
Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer
Sexy Toys reviewed on the blogs of Musings of a switch and Liz X Likes.
Erotic Fiction
FYHO, Voyageur, Dr Girlfriend and Sinclair Sexsmith with the best erotica on the net this month.
Writing about writing
Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit
Ramone Quides gives thanks to writers and writers groups who helped motivate him this month.
Sex Work
Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie
Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition
Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin
Charlie Rose, Meet the Minx, Oz, Sandra and Hellga share their writing on different aspects of sex work. Fantasies, how to get in contact, a cuckolding duo, fighting for the rights and freedoms of the adult industry, bisexual MMF and Femdom FMTY.
Elust 164 Cover Image is courtesy of the barefoot sub.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Engaging With A Mistress – Never Compromise Your Personality & Get Your Energies In Check
5 Oddly Specific Penis Facts You Didn’t Know
Podopheleus, Supersmashcache and Musings of a Switch present three excellent and informative articles.
Books and Movies
TammyJo and Peter Discuss Bound (2015): The Celluloid Dungeon
A film review of a kinky movie thanks to two very knowledgeable kink experts.
Erotic Fiction
My Buddy Blew Me While We Watched The Game
Steamy erotica thanks to When Jerry Met Ali, Voyageur, For Your Heart Only, Jerusalem Mortimer, Ambyr Leigh and Mirror Secret Mirror.
Product reviews
New Tenga Puffy Soft Reusable Masturbators Review
A review of a squishy fuck toy from Safe Lust.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Ten Things I Am Not - Kinky Edition
Effective Punishment for Subs: A Comprehensive Guide for D/s Dynamics
The barefoot sub and Silken Claws on kink and fetish.
Sex Work
Cross Dressing Threesome with Ellie and Nikita
The one about Financial Domination
Her: My first time with a woman
Krásná kurvička. A Trio of Duos
What is the Most Popular Sex Worker Name?
Katie Wright, Audrey Astor, Sienna Nichols, Oz Bigdownunder, Hellga and myself with 6 articles on diverse types of sex work experiences.
Erotic Non Fiction
Pieces of Jade has a plan.
Elust 163 cover image courtesy of Jordan Maxx.
Decorated dungeons, submersible sex toys, wildness, erotic imaginings, perverted poetry and the oldest profession.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Accepting Sadism: Separating Hurt and Harm
15 Sex Room Decor Themes To Consider
7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dom Dirty Talk
Kylie Cockwhore’s Kinky Commentary Part Two
Great posts from Silken Claws, Spices of Lust, Super Smash cache and Morgan Destera. I especially enjoyed the dungeon decor ideas. Given the opportunity, I'd open a Japanese love hotel dungeon with dozens of themed mini dungeon rooms for hourly rentals. Medieval torture chamber in the basement. Alien experimentation suite in the penthouse. One can but dream.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Embrace Your Inner Wildness and Take a Leap of Faith
The Barefoot Sub and Musings of a Switch share their thoughts. And that image on the Wildness post. Wow!
Product Reviews
Tenga Geo Coral Masturbator Review
Review of the Wave Shower Head Stimulator by Womanizer and Hans Grohe
Sucky Ducky. Funzze Clit Sucking Toy Review
Safelust, Liz X, Oz and Witch of the Wands with four fully submersible sex toys. Bath time has never been so fun!
Erotic Fiction
Foryourheartonly, When Jerry Met Ali and Mirror Secret Mirror present their erotic imaginings. These are some talented authors. I'd love to see all three get film adaptations.
Erotic Non Fiction
Mistress Victory never ceases to amaze with her depraved rhyming couplets.
Sex Work
The ‘Mommy Goddess’ and the Mass Reporting of Sex Workers on Instagram
Double Penetration with Big Dildos
Chat GPT, Bing AI and Google Bard's Opinions on Sex Work
Hemmily Rose, Sandra, Tulsi Tamora, Olivia Snow, Hellga and myself want you to know, sex work is work. There's a whole unbelievably diverse world of different kinds of sex work out there but we all fairly unanimously want decriminalisation and we'd all like to share content online without being silenced and censored. Everything in the world is about sex. Money is what makes the world go around. Is it really that shocking when consenting adults exchange sex and money?