Welcome to Elust 191
Cover image courtesy of Elegant Companion and Discreet Confidante Valora Saint. What a hotty!
Sex News
The Sex Shed, The Sex Shed is looking for brand ambassadors & reviewers!
An Xbiz and AVN award winning sex toy retailer is looking for collabs.
Erotic Non-Fiction
Morgan Destera, What Can I Say…
Morgan travels to New York for comiccon and to spend a night with her man.
Tantric Connections, The Longing Beneath Success: Remembering How To Feel
This isn't a criticism but I think for a sentence like "Tantra isn’t about performance. It’s about presence. It’s about giving yourself permission to feel again, to trust your body, to follow your breath, to open to what’s real." to have value, you need to have faith that those words mean something.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Embodiment and the Alchemy of Power: Transforming Desire into Collective Awakening
More tantra. A lot more.
Kristina J, Let’s Talk About Touch (and Why Communication Is The Sexiest Thing You Can Do)
The abs of a Greek god, and the enthusiasm of a Labrador.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Secret to Lasting Longer Isn’t Control — It’s Connection
I like this tantra post. No pseudoscience or evangelism. No 10,000 word instruction manual containing no instructions. Just practical advice.
Erotic Fiction
B.R.Saiph, Locktober Reward
Locktober for the permanently locked.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 17
Ramen and a blowjob.
Jasmine Gold, Opening chapters of Mindgames, a dark dystopian novel about naked sex slaves
The whippings shall continue until morale improves.
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 1)
A chapter in the lives of bohemian artists on a swingers commune.
Product Reviews
Spices of Lust, Womanizer Peach Review
Juicy.
Oz Bigdownunder, Nothosaur Avoyo - Centaur Horse Ejaculating Dildo - Review
Hung like a clydesdale.
Sex Work
Sex worker Search, A Guide to Selfie Photo-Shoots For Sex Workers
Strike a pose.
Lita Mackenzie, An Imperfect Quick Guide to Finding – and Verifying- a Companion
In a sea of Al, bots, fake ads and OF girls utilizing escorting sites; how do you find the right companion for you?
Ulla Burns, No Safeword for the Soul -Maternal Domination without a script
Yes, mummy.
Sierra Skyy, Feminism and Sex Work; Have We Lost the Plot?
A balanced, considered and very well written thought piece on deposits, screening, duos and more from a sex worker as well as a client point of view.
Elizabeth of London, A naughty Nurse
I prescribe vitamin S.
Hellga, Sit On My Face and Tell Me That You Love Me
That gif is hypnotic. Thwap Thwap Thwap.
Book and Movies
Liz Black, Two New Bimbo Releases Are Here - Two Series Completed
Putting the fic in bimbofication.
History of BDSM, Nine and a Half Weeks (1978)
Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger get kinky like it's 1978.
Welcome to Elust 190
Cover image courtesy of Kate Leigh.
A bubbling cauldron of austenitic sex blog posts will put the shakti in your vajrayana.
Sex & Relationships
Morgan Destera, Ten Years!
The trip mentioned in this post is recounted in detail in the latest post on Morgan's blog. Check it out!
Sex Toy DB, So You’ve Bought a Sex Machine … Now What?
X2 the plumbers pipe clamps recommendation to fix your sex machine in place. When I had my f machine clamped to the bed frame, that thing was a beast.
Lushense, How To Choose The Best Lubricant For Your Intimate Moments
Silicone lube with metal or glass toys is a good shout. Just take care not to get it on fabric. It's not easy to wash out.
Betty's Toy Box, The Smart Guide to Penis Extensions for Couples
Detachable penis.
Kink & Fetish
Mx Valentina, A Man isn't Whole without a Woman to Serve
The fortunate few are allowed to serve a sex witch.
Erotica
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 16
That student has spent 16 chapters getting penetrated by Sensei. She's going to get home from school 16 days late, walking like John Wayne.
Sugarbutch, You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out
And take it they do.
Liz Black X, Lumiis Glow - Sasha's Bimbo Bliss Fiction
Bimbotastic.
Non Fiction
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Erotic Body as Cosmic Mirror: Tantric Rituals of Union and the Politics of Liberation
My vajrayana is overflowing with shakti.
Hannah McKnight, He’s Wearing a Skirt…
If the femme clothes fits.
Sex Work
Elizabeth of London, Athens
Fox Digital, How to Attract Wealthy Clients in an Oversaturated Market
Does it really matter how affluent they are? £300 is £300, I don't care if it's handed to me by a billionaire or a barista.
The Siren Domme, Five Archetypes of a Dom/me (and Why You Don’t Have to Pick Just One)
Whenever I see emdashes, I copy and paste the article into grammarly to see how much of it is AI generated. Only 8% in this case which is a relief. It would be a bit scary if something this well written, accurately describing various Domme archetypes was 100% chat gpt. I suspect what the author, and many of us (myself included) has done, is drafted notes, typed up the ideas, and then used Gen AI for fine tuning and formatting the post for SEO optimisation.
Sex Worker Search, Payment Portal Pre-Release Invite
Give it a try. I think this, or something very like it, will be the future for sex workers. I can't wait to see how we can benefit from receiving payments directly via a widget on our own personal websites and see hypocrites like onlyfans that take 30% + of our hard earned profits whilst providing effectively no value and doing nothing for our community, take a massive financial hit as we all leave their platform.
Hellga, Conor's Craic. My Upcoming Tour of Dublin, Ireland
Top of the morning to you.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Pillion (2025): The Celluloid Dungeon
Writing About Writing
Oxy Shop, Femdom Fiction: How Erotic Stories Spark Real-Life Submission
More emdashes. Grammarly says this one is close to 100% AI generated. The subject matter is interesting. The content is informative. The formatting is impeccable. Look at how all the sentences are almost the exact same length and the paragraphs all have almost the exact same number of sentences. It's like a ChatGPT haiku of SEO optimised text blocks.
Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes
No emdashes. Compare and contrast. Varying character count of sentences and paragraphs, first person perspective, personal opinions and anecdotes, a lot less structured, no subheadings. Grammarly says it's zero percent AI. It does look like it's been deliberately SEO optimised so the author is probably following the guidance of the Yoast plug in or similar. I use Yoast too. It is good for search ranking but the reason it's good for search ranking is because Google is giving us better rankings in exchange for making content that's easier for it's AI to parse and then extracting our ideas, without crediting us, to generate it's own AI mode responses which appear above search results. So it's tricking us into agreeing to a Faustian bargain where we are working to help Google render ourselves obsolete. But that's progress. I'm not anti AI but I do think things like what I describe above are taking the piss.
Product Reviews
Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Three Bead Stainless Steel Butt Plug Review
Austenitic.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Femina Viva, Is Learning How to Receive My Waterloo?
Waterloo? That's between Southwark and Westminster on the Jubilee line, innit?
Welcome to Elust 185
Cover image courtesy of Ellie Stockholm. If you like Ellie's content, please vote here = AltStar Awards 2025 Vote: Best Premium Social Media Star.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Sohimi Viele 3 Flapping Licking Vibrator
Sydney Screams, Everything You Need to Know About Sex Grinders
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Erotic Alchemy in the Age of Disconnection: Tantric Pathways to Re-Enchanting Intimacy and Desire
Liz X, My Nomi AI Girlfriend Lily - A Tale of Trust and Digital Intimacy
Buzzvibes, The Evolution of Intimacy: How Modern Relationships Are Redefining Sexual Connection
Betty's Toy Box, How to Use a Butt Plug: The Basics from Betty’s Toy Box
Erotic Fiction
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 11
Spices of Lust, The Archivist’s Secrets: The Hidden Map (Part 1)
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
The Sex Shed, How to use a riding crop? Scenarios and how to (techniques)
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search, Crime and Policing Bill UK Proposed Amendments Relating to Sex Work
Fox Digital, WordPress, Squarespace, Wix. Which Platform Is Best For Your Escort Website?
Elizabeth of London, MMF & FFM
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Not a Love Story (1981): The Celluloid Dungeon
Frank Noir, Favourite porn #9: Paul Thomas
State of the World
Femina Viva, What do we do with fake allies or do they just not know any better?
Erotic Non-Fiction
Kristina J, Reflecting on My Sexual Conditioning: Unraveling the Messages I Grew Up With
Mx Valentina, Simple is beautiful: the joys of a barehanded spanking
Writing About Writing
Ramone Quides, Framing For a Better 2025
Welcome to Elust 184
Cover image courtesy of TS Rachel Smithe. Here in London the weather is showing signs of brightening up a bit. Meanwhile, in the cover image, The Greek Isle of Sifnos is looking properly hot. And so is Rachel.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Everyday Ecstasy: Bringing Tantra into Your Daily Routine
Sure, why not.
Erotic Fiction
Simone Francis, Painted Stripes
Hot spanking story and images. Stay tuned for the caning next episode.
Schey Place Books, Zero
Nude hologram projector suit ftw.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 10
Dorei me.
Jasmine Gold, Learning to Obey: Her Fantasy Denial
Pet gets edged.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, Funzze 3-in-1 Sucking Flapping Vibrator
and hammering/thumping.
Man at Jerk, Fantasy Grove Amanita dildo review
Bazowie!
Sydney Screams, Uncover Creations Equiknot Dildo Review
Horse play.
Miss Ruby Reviews, We-Vibe Wand 2
The next generation.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Kim Rub, Ectomorph Latex Design 40 Year Anniversary
Shiny.
Sex Work
Kristina J, Thank You Sex Work
Well said.
Fox Digital, Your Opinion of Your Website Doesn’t Matter—Here’s What Does
Getting inquiries for your business.
Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Resources (mostly U.S.)
My post.
Hellga, A Duo with Christine Love at Blue Door Dungeon
Newly refurbished and better than ever.
Sandra, Bound, Gagged and Throat-Fucked
The droolier, the better.
Oz Bigdownunder, Sweet Cherry Pie. Custom Made Video Clips
Jani Layne would approve.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, The Idiots (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon
The orgy scene.
State of the World
The Sex Shed, We asked 1000 people: How do you do it? (survey on masturbation habits)
Frequently.
Femina Viva, Is it time to start outing trans people?
No.
Blogging
Liz X, Diving into Digital Desire - Exploring Nomi AI and its AI Companions
If this were a Sci Fi plot it would be the first act before the singularity and inevitable enslavement and eventual annihilation of mankind. But lets do it anyway.
Ramone Quides, Surviving Two Changes of Seasons
Ramone has been busy. Lots of exciting femdom erotica projects in the works.
Erotic Non Fiction
barefoot sub, Chase The Rainbow - Beautiful Marks
Pretty bruises!
Mx Valentina, The Tantric connection to chastity and orgasm denial
The beauty of the chastity cage.
Writing about writing
Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes
Romantic.
Welcome to Elust 181
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Cub, Come-In (Part 2)
There's going to be an event where hundreds of naked people will simultaneously masturbate to orgasm? Let's go!
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 5
Sensei teaches Yua, Chiaki and Asuka a lesson.
Peach Kisser, Mid-Flight Hospitality
A sapphic trip to the mile high club. Loins swimming with desire.
Simone Francis, Fetish Secretary
What's the office policy regarding inserting company property into one's orifices during business hours?
Ambyr Leigh, My Terrible Date Fucked Me Bareback In The Backseat Of His Car
That's going to leave a stain on the upholstery.
Schey Place Books, The Story So Far
The award winning adventures of story of reunited lovers, Christian and Alison.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Natalie Hepburn, Surviving a Dead Bedroom
It's pining for the fjords.
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Erotism and the Transcendence of the Ego
The boundless unity of existence.
Blogging
Miss Ruby Reviews, A Decade in the Sex Toy Industry
Happy decaversary!
Erotic Non Fiction
Modesty Ablaze, Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10
The questions = What are your thoughts on foreplay? Favourite types, Best Experiences, Wishes? What parts of your lover’s body are you most drawn to? If you don’t currently have a lover, consider past or future lovers. Consider a moment in your life of great sensuality, eroticism or sexuality. Then answer the questions that Mary Oliver does in her poem “Gratitude” as they apply to that moment: If you were to recreate the early days of your favourite sexy relationship, what would they look like? Would you change anything? What would you want more of in your sex life?
Awakening Your Inner Essence, The alchemy of surrender and activation
Shiva and Shakti are at it again.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast Marchosias
Demonic
Oh Joy Sex Toy, The Uberrime Fantasy by Hien Pham
Avatar the last dildo bender.
Sydney Screams, FemmeFunn Klio Vibrator Review
A triple action rabbit style vibrator with g-spot, a-spot and clitoral stimulation.
Liz X, Beyond Ordinary Stimulation - Kiiroo ProWand with App Streaming
A wand that integrates with different online streaming sites so that lights change colour to indicate when the model receives a tip from a viewer.
Lushense, Introducing the Viballdo - The World's 1st Vibrating Ball Dildo
The evolution of ball sex.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Cara Sutra, How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex
Helping to dispel multiple myths and stigma surrounding strap-on sex.
Sex Work
Lady Ava Sheridon, The Application Process; and why yours might be unsuccessful
FAQ’s
Kristina J, Authenticity and Connection: The Art of Being Real in Sex Work
Feel the realness.
Princess Kaz, Dommes – Carving Out You-Time
The importance of self care. Especially for us introverts.
Miss Kim Rub, Leather Fetishist Domme
Gotta love the smell and texture of leather.
Sex Worker Search, Are Sex Workers Welcome on Bluesky?
I hope to update this with a definitive answer if Bluesky responds.
Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humour
History of BDSM, “People Who Like Kinky Sex Are Just Bad In Bed”: Evie Magazine and the Raw Milkmaid Dress
This must be the most "only in America" thing of all time = Evie Magazine is a conservative women’s magazine first published in 2019. Its aesthetics and content reflect the “trad life/trad wife” movement, creating a pastoral fantasy of rural, agrarian labour combined with an idealized hetero-nuclear family. At the fringier end of things, Evie’s content splices into ideologies like pronatalism, anti-vaccination, the benefits of “raw milk” and other health quackery, transphobia, anti-feminism, COVID denial, QAnon, etc.
Welcome to Elust 180
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Intersection of Sacred Sex and Kink in Tantric Philosophy
The role of kink within tantra.
Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 1 to 5
Good sex, PDAs, turn ons, wank fantasies, and porn genres.
Sex Toy DB, Is Squirting The Same as Peeing?
For science.
Erotic Fiction
Schey Place Books, Erotica with Substance
Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Product Reviews
Erotic Non Fiction
Sex Work
Books and Movies
Welcome to Elust 178
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts
William's thoughts on online videos.
Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening
Exploring deeper intimacy through meditative practices.
The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide
Wanking 101.
Betty's Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try
Tempted to try them all right here, right now in Joe and the Juice.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)
Civility counts.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner
Sexplosive.
Little Red Spanking, The Lover’s Spat: A Paddle Story
Nothing better than the sound effects of a really good paddling.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything
i horny robot.
Erotic Fiction
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3
Seamus gets his hands on a rattan cane.
Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow
She got a real pretty mouth, ain't she?
Jasmine Gold, A Nun's Humiliation
Ginny sells her soul to the devil.
Product Reviews
Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn't Know Existed (2024)
A roundup of standout devices for male-focused enjoyment.
Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo's Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker
We don't have flying cars yet but we do have this.
Sex Work
Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You
Magnifique!
Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices
From a top Pro Domme.
Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory
My post.
Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker
A new Pro Domme thinking about rates.
Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz
Terrific threesome.
Nuit d'Or, Self-care For Dominants
Excellent advice from an experienced BDSM coach and mentor.
Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave
Sissygsms.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon
Special guest appearance from Freddy Krueger.
Poetry
Simone Francis, Watch Me
Photo illustrated.
Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions.
Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too.
I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that =
Sex Work
The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1
The bane of every sex worker's existence. The time wasters.
Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers
I'd like to say I have a love hate relationship with twitter but to be honest, I have no love for Twitter at all and can't even be bothered hating it any more after all the shadowbanning. Best I can do is barely tolerate Twitter to the extent of maintaining the kind of presence on there that's expected of a SW.
Sandra Vitamin S
Sandra, TS Ama and Mistress Volga get silky.
Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama
Ama again! She's everywhere. This time with Oz and Mistress Chatterley.
Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans
I don't see why Twitter can't just have an NSFW on, NSFW off button and then advertisers can decide whether they want their ads to appear next to NSFW content or not. As opposed to rewarding SWs for all our hard work providing free content, without which Twitter would die, with sneaky backstabby shadowbans.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Funzze What's the BEST Material for Adult Toys?
Silicone is a personal favourite but I just recently received a stainless steel anal dildo from Funzze to review. I love it. Review coming soon.
Musings of a Switch The Early Days
William Wallace reminisces.
Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender
It's as if time itself has slowed down, each second stretched to its limits as we linger on the precipice of pleasure, suspended in the delicious agony of anticipation.
Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine
And puppy gets a leash and collar.
Erotic Fiction
Jasmine Gold The Unicorn
The mythical beast with three backs.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33
+1 the Chemical Brothers.
FYHO The Polaroid
It's a Kodak moment
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)
Beautiful pic and post. Shirley Manson would approve.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting
Wet and wild. Never heard it called a platinum shower before. That's awesome.
Product Reviews
Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review
An ergonomic wand for people with accessibility needs.
Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder
Love the colours and design. Gigeresque.
Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo
That's a tentacular tentacle. My tentacle dildo is more of the squishy variety so a more rigid one would come in handy.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)
Even if you've never seen the movie and have no intention of seeing it, I still recommend watching this video review just to hear two highly experienced and knowledgeable kink historians chatting.
Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon
You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.
Erotic Fiction
When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur
That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32
Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.
Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man
Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub The Impact Of Running
I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!
Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day
Though wise men at their end know dark is right.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire
From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples
The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.
Product Reviews
Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review
An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.
Sex Work
Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity
How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.
Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?
Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few years.
The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson
Becky gets a sissy makeover.
Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive
I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.
Sandra Duo with TS Ama
An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.
Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask
A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.
Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley
Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!
Sex Worker Search Clientopedia
My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.
Blogging
Musings of a Switch An independent artist search
Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.
Writing about writing
Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block
Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.
Blogging
Ramone Quides, Oh, What a November to Remember!
Reflections on the year that was and teasers for upcoming plans for 2024.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, TammyJo & Peter discuss Professor Marston & the Wonder Women
Covering how to be bi and kinky in the 1930s, negotiating polyamory in the closet, and the femdom episode of Speed Buggy.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Cut to the Chaste, A Debate Over Orgasm Denial and Chastity
There is more to chastity than orgasm denial, eg psychological power dynamics, exploration of boundaries, and intimacy-building.
Pieces of Jade, Happy Christm-ASS
180 whacks!
Morgan Destera, Guest Blog - Kylie Cockwhore
Your favorite gay cockslut is a sucker of thumbs, amongst other things.
Podopheleus, 7 Powerful Insights: Exploring the Essence of France FemDom with Inanna Justice
Inanna Justice and Pod discuss France FemDom, an international three-day event celebrating female domination.
Product reviews
barefoot, The Joy Snowman- A Bestvibe Review
Tis the season to wank yourself off with a sex toy shaped like a snowman.
Sex Toy DB, This Hip Doll Fucks You Back: Sinloli Ethel 27lb “Smart” Hip Doll Review
A sex doll with a ridiculously cool superpower: she fucks back
Joanne's Reviews, Colon Balls Platinum Silicone Depth Trainer
The smallest of the four size options is not small enough for those new to anal, at roughly the size of a satsuma.
Betty's Toy Box, The Top 10 New Sex Toys of 2023. A Sexy Year in Review
The most popular toys of the past year, the newest, most innovative, and bestselling sex toys.
Princess Previews, Top 10 Sex Toys of 2023
Number one on this list and number one on Betty's list above are both on my shopping list for sure.
Erotic Fiction
Jasmine Gold, Teacher's Pet
A parent teacher conference gets smutty.
Jaime Mortimer. Bedroom Eyes 31
Maires gets buggered. Stephanie has an unusual pet name. "Scallop".
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J, The Role of Ego in BDSM: Navigating Power Dynamics with Awareness
Musings of a Switch, Female desires.
William fantasises about having the appearance and desires of a woman
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buzz Vibes, Everything you need to know about the G-Spot
This article discusses the elusive g-spot, describing its location and variations in sensitivity, offering tips on how to find and stimulate it using fingers, vibrators, or different sexual positions, and showcasing popular g-spot toys to enhance sexual experiences and intimacy with your partner.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Liz X Likes, Unlocking the Surprising Mental Health Benefits of Self-Pleasure
The mental health benefits of self-pleasure, including stress relief through oxytocin release, improved mood due to endorphins and dopamine, and better sleep regulation.
Sex Work
Lady Phoenix, 12 Months A Slave
Slave M's journey over the past year has involved intense training in serving and worshiping his Mistress, highlighting his significant progress and numerous new experiences during their sessions and outings, ultimately demonstrating the potential for a novice slave to excel under proper guidance and commitment.
Ms Sapora Knight, Erotic Devotion
Vividly describes a passionate and spiritual union between two individuals, emphasizing the intense sensations, emotional connection, and surrendering of the self to a transcendent experience of love and desire.
Sex Worker Search, Sexworkopedia
An A to Z of sex work.
Delilah Odell, Adventures In Playing For Both Teams: January 2024 Edition
An escort's experiences as a client of escorts between December 2018 and July 2023.