Welcome to Elust 195
Cover image courtesy of 848ellie.
Pretty pic. Of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Britney Spears? Buffy has big strong hands and callused knuckles. Must be from punching out all those vampires.
Image Courtesy of Sighonsocial.
State of the World
Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Anonymous for Viewers? A Practical Privacy Checklist
Ah the rise and fall and rise again of the social webcam site. Chat roulette. Omegle. Nice idea. Eventually gets overrun by masturbating Borat clones and men using fake cam to impersonate women.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 3)
Someone buy the movie rights for this and make it into an X rated choose your own adventure concept like Bandersnatch but all sex scenes.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Architecture of Intimacy: Rewriting Love Beyond Possession, Identity, and Fear
Tantra vs jealousy
Awakening Your Inner Essence, When Betrayal Becomes Arousal: Understanding Erotic Survival Through a Tantric Lens
Tantra vs PTSD.
Femina Viva, Submission need not be weakness
Atonement for masculinity
Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, The Spirit Is Willing, Part Two: The Flesh is Weak
The lovers convalesce and canoodle
B R Saiph, Locked on the Precipice of Permanence: Her Decision, My Submission
That is some impressive commitment to chastity
Product reviews
Liz Black, Hands-Free Pleasure: A Closer Look at the VVD Rider Desire & Rider Go (Plus Exclusive Discount!)
Spices of Lust, Lovense Gush 2 Review
Stroker toy
Sex Toy DB, Saddle Sex Machines or Sybian Alternatives: What Are They, and Which Is The Best?
Giddy up!
Sex Work
Rogue Love Escapades, What’s in a name? The inspiration behind Rogue Love Escapades…
A collaboration between FBSM and Domme personas.
Sex Worker Search, Interview With YAS Work
My conversation with AM Davies. Stripper, activist and podcast host.
Danny Gold, Anal Therapy
Greek
Adam Black, Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort
The possibilities are endless
Oz Bigdownunder, London Eye View MMF Couple Sex Marathon
Threesome fun
Ellie Hart, Why Emotional Intelligence Is the Most Attractive Quality
The brain is the third biggest organ. After the skin and the liver.
Sandra, A Massage with a Twist
Fits like a glove
Hellga, Sara Graduates Sissy School
Every good (sissy) boy deserves fucking
Mx Valentina, 113. Beyond the Veil: The Existential Architecture of Mx Valentina
Instruments of metamorphosis
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, High Maintenance S03E05 “Payday”: The Celluloid Dungeon
Fake taxi bangbus kinky lesbian version
Blogging
Sinclair Sexsmith, Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026)
Webinars
Welcome to Elust 191
Cover image courtesy of Elegant Companion and Discreet Confidante Valora Saint. What a hotty!
Sex News
The Sex Shed, The Sex Shed is looking for brand ambassadors & reviewers!
An Xbiz and AVN award winning sex toy retailer is looking for collabs.
Erotic Non-Fiction
Morgan Destera, What Can I Say…
Morgan travels to New York for comiccon and to spend a night with her man.
Tantric Connections, The Longing Beneath Success: Remembering How To Feel
This isn't a criticism but I think for a sentence like "Tantra isn’t about performance. It’s about presence. It’s about giving yourself permission to feel again, to trust your body, to follow your breath, to open to what’s real." to have value, you need to have faith that those words mean something.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Embodiment and the Alchemy of Power: Transforming Desire into Collective Awakening
More tantra. A lot more.
Kristina J, Let’s Talk About Touch (and Why Communication Is The Sexiest Thing You Can Do)
The abs of a Greek god, and the enthusiasm of a Labrador.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Secret to Lasting Longer Isn’t Control — It’s Connection
I like this tantra post. No pseudoscience or evangelism. No 10,000 word instruction manual containing no instructions. Just practical advice.
Erotic Fiction
B.R.Saiph, Locktober Reward
Locktober for the permanently locked.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 17
Ramen and a blowjob.
Jasmine Gold, Opening chapters of Mindgames, a dark dystopian novel about naked sex slaves
The whippings shall continue until morale improves.
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 1)
A chapter in the lives of bohemian artists on a swingers commune.
Product Reviews
Spices of Lust, Womanizer Peach Review
Juicy.
Oz Bigdownunder, Nothosaur Avoyo - Centaur Horse Ejaculating Dildo - Review
Hung like a clydesdale.
Sex Work
Sex worker Search, A Guide to Selfie Photo-Shoots For Sex Workers
Strike a pose.
Lita Mackenzie, An Imperfect Quick Guide to Finding – and Verifying- a Companion
In a sea of Al, bots, fake ads and OF girls utilizing escorting sites; how do you find the right companion for you?
Ulla Burns, No Safeword for the Soul -Maternal Domination without a script
Yes, mummy.
Sierra Skyy, Feminism and Sex Work; Have We Lost the Plot?
A balanced, considered and very well written thought piece on deposits, screening, duos and more from a sex worker as well as a client point of view.
Elizabeth of London, A naughty Nurse
I prescribe vitamin S.
Hellga, Sit On My Face and Tell Me That You Love Me
That gif is hypnotic. Thwap Thwap Thwap.
Book and Movies
Liz Black, Two New Bimbo Releases Are Here - Two Series Completed
Putting the fic in bimbofication.
History of BDSM, Nine and a Half Weeks (1978)
Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger get kinky like it's 1978.
Welcome to Elust 182
Cover image courtesy of Kiki Lover.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Cub, Bri & Liam spend a day with Lena & Carlos, Part 2
Four friends shed their clothes and their inhibitions.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 7
Sensei eyes off Asuka's entry.
Sex Work
Lenore Sins, Sex Work & Love: Mistress Lenore’s Perspective
Elizabeth of London, Traveling and Sex
Naked swing sauna in Madrid.
Super Smash Cache, Making Money Lewd & Nude Modeling: The Grind Behind It
Sitting pretty.
Domina Jemma, Understanding and preparing for the implementation of the Online Safety Act. Info for adult providers.
Cautious optimism regarding how the OSA might be implemented.
Mx Valentina, The dominatrix as life coach
Beyond tutti frutti.
Femina Viva, Stepping onto the tantric path
A wild ride.
Maîtresse Nuit, BDSM Power Games: Pushing Limits And Playing At The Edge Of The Unbearable
Helot submits to a forced bi ritual.
Sex Worker Search, I Hate My Job: Thots on Labor, Sex Work, and Capitalism. An Interview with Adrie Rose
Sex work is work even when it's not wonderful and empowering. It can be hard work, or just an ordinary day at the office like any other job.
Erotic Non Fiction
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Metaphysics of Desire: Tantra, Eroticism, and the Transmutation of the Self
Nothing is intrinsically impure or profane.
Kristina J, Whispers of Enchantment
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Discovering the Art of Tantra and the Transformative Power of Tantric Massage
Liz Black, How a Sex Doll Creates Comfort During Cold Weather
Hygge.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
The Disorderly House, 10 Ways To Stop Having Terrible Condom Sex
Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 11 to 15
Betty's Toy Box, Top 8 Foods to Boost Your Libido: What to Eat for a Healthier Sex Life
Eats nuts and leaves.
Interviews
Dirk Hooper, Fetish Week: Interview with Comic Book Artist SexGazer by Dirk Hooper
This is a very interesting read since NSFW artists face many of the same obstacles as sex workers in terms of de-platformimg, shadowbanning, discrimination from payment portals and card processors etc.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Inflatable Vibrator
I like the concept. Maybe the sequel will get it just right.
Miss Ruby Reviews, Tracy’s Dog Swirlii
Cute. Looks like a claymation character.
Lushense, Top UK Sex Toy Brands in 2025
Great shouts. Most of them I'm familiar with but there's a few new brands there that look very promising.
Writing About Writing
Emily Rooks, Emily Describes Her Writing Process
Conflict resolution, erotica style.