Welcome to Elust 190
Cover image courtesy of Kate Leigh.
A bubbling cauldron of austenitic sex blog posts will put the shakti in your vajrayana.
Sex & Relationships
Morgan Destera, Ten Years!
The trip mentioned in this post is recounted in detail in the latest post on Morgan's blog. Check it out!
Sex Toy DB, So You’ve Bought a Sex Machine … Now What?
X2 the plumbers pipe clamps recommendation to fix your sex machine in place. When I had my f machine clamped to the bed frame, that thing was a beast.
Lushense, How To Choose The Best Lubricant For Your Intimate Moments
Silicone lube with metal or glass toys is a good shout. Just take care not to get it on fabric. It's not easy to wash out.
Betty's Toy Box, The Smart Guide to Penis Extensions for Couples
Detachable penis.
Kink & Fetish
Mx Valentina, A Man isn't Whole without a Woman to Serve
The fortunate few are allowed to serve a sex witch.
Erotica
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 16
That student has spent 16 chapters getting penetrated by Sensei. She's going to get home from school 16 days late, walking like John Wayne.
Sugarbutch, You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out
And take it they do.
Liz Black X, Lumiis Glow - Sasha's Bimbo Bliss Fiction
Bimbotastic.
Non Fiction
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Erotic Body as Cosmic Mirror: Tantric Rituals of Union and the Politics of Liberation
My vajrayana is overflowing with shakti.
Hannah McKnight, He’s Wearing a Skirt…
If the femme clothes fits.
Sex Work
Elizabeth of London, Athens
Fox Digital, How to Attract Wealthy Clients in an Oversaturated Market
Does it really matter how affluent they are? £300 is £300, I don't care if it's handed to me by a billionaire or a barista.
The Siren Domme, Five Archetypes of a Dom/me (and Why You Don’t Have to Pick Just One)
Whenever I see emdashes, I copy and paste the article into grammarly to see how much of it is AI generated. Only 8% in this case which is a relief. It would be a bit scary if something this well written, accurately describing various Domme archetypes was 100% chat gpt. I suspect what the author, and many of us (myself included) has done, is drafted notes, typed up the ideas, and then used Gen AI for fine tuning and formatting the post for SEO optimisation.
Sex Worker Search, Payment Portal Pre-Release Invite
Give it a try. I think this, or something very like it, will be the future for sex workers. I can't wait to see how we can benefit from receiving payments directly via a widget on our own personal websites and see hypocrites like onlyfans that take 30% + of our hard earned profits whilst providing effectively no value and doing nothing for our community, take a massive financial hit as we all leave their platform.
Hellga, Conor's Craic. My Upcoming Tour of Dublin, Ireland
Top of the morning to you.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Pillion (2025): The Celluloid Dungeon
Writing About Writing
Oxy Shop, Femdom Fiction: How Erotic Stories Spark Real-Life Submission
More emdashes. Grammarly says this one is close to 100% AI generated. The subject matter is interesting. The content is informative. The formatting is impeccable. Look at how all the sentences are almost the exact same length and the paragraphs all have almost the exact same number of sentences. It's like a ChatGPT haiku of SEO optimised text blocks.
Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes
No emdashes. Compare and contrast. Varying character count of sentences and paragraphs, first person perspective, personal opinions and anecdotes, a lot less structured, no subheadings. Grammarly says it's zero percent AI. It does look like it's been deliberately SEO optimised so the author is probably following the guidance of the Yoast plug in or similar. I use Yoast too. It is good for search ranking but the reason it's good for search ranking is because Google is giving us better rankings in exchange for making content that's easier for it's AI to parse and then extracting our ideas, without crediting us, to generate it's own AI mode responses which appear above search results. So it's tricking us into agreeing to a Faustian bargain where we are working to help Google render ourselves obsolete. But that's progress. I'm not anti AI but I do think things like what I describe above are taking the piss.
Product Reviews
Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Three Bead Stainless Steel Butt Plug Review
Austenitic.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Femina Viva, Is Learning How to Receive My Waterloo?
Waterloo? That's between Southwark and Westminster on the Jubilee line, innit?
Life's a Beach and this month in Elust 172, all the most talented sex bloggers on the net are here to share their posts. Cover image courtesy of Victoria CMT makes me wish I was somewhere warm and sunny playing in the sand right now.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Girl On The Net Practical sex tips: blankets, playlists and banishing shame!
What's your favourite sex playlist? I like this one. It's mostly deep house so it's got enough rhythm to keep things moving without being too frenetic and there are some lyrics but nothing too distracting.
Spices of Lust How To Use A Hismith Sex Machine (Solo + Couples)
Highly recommended. If you're not sure, you can always rent a pay per hour dungeon space that has one and try before you buy.
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search E-Commerce for Sex Workers
An update to this post. CCbill replied. They said no.
Tulsi Tamora Is it normal to feel nervous when seeing a companion?
It's very normal to feel nervous before meeting with a companion who you're seeing for the first time. If that companion is as experienced and talented as Tulsi, you won't be feeling nervous for long once you've met.
Darla Blake From the bizarre to the banal, here’s some things you might not know about me!
Getting to know a very sexy sex worker.
The Silky Masseuse Setting Good Financial Boundaries
One more. Don't get a credit card. If you have credit cards, pay them off and then cancel them. I used to work for a bank. Credit cards are great. If you're a bank. Otherwise they're terrible. They're designed to make bankers richer and bank customers poorer. The idea is to encourage you to spend as much money as possible, as thoughtlessly as possible, and then ruin your life with interest repayments. Use a debit card instead. If your credit card debt is already out of control, here's some advice.
The Lady Phoenix The Boss Calls the Shots
Cocky Chris gets taken down a peg or two.
Catherine Schneider Hentai BDSM
If you're unfamiliar with the genre, you're in for a treat! There's a lot of free Hentai out there but if you find a Doujin artist you like, please consider commissioning some custom content or subscribing to their Patreon.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera Toy Test - Funzze.com Vibrating Anal Beads
11 inches of silicone anal beads.
Liz Black X Review of the Hermosa: A High-Quality Torso Sex Doll for Men by XTorso.com
Compact, Beautiful, and Functional.
Oz Bigdownunder Silver Surfer. Funzze Double-ended Stainless Steel Dildo Review
- Aliens. 2. The Hunt for Red October. 3. Evil Dead. 4. Austin Powers. 5. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. 6. Full Metal Jacket. 7. Borat. 8. Bladerunner. 9. Fight Club. 10. The Big Lebowsky. BRB off to watch a 20 hour movie marathon of all of the above.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J Exploring the Depths of Mindful Intimacy: A Guide to Enriched Connections
It's a journey. Or a space. Or a pillar.
Beyond Nonbinary Finding my Womanhood as I Bleed
A unique perspective on a sex change operation.
Charli and Margeaux How To Eat My Pussy
Just listen.
The Disorderly House Men Sharing Their Wives
Between consenting adults, if everyone involved is into it, why not?
Musings of a Switch Sexually Daring
William Wallace in a vulnerable position.
Erotic Fiction
Well Written Smut Co. This is Our Life
A short story in which old friends reunite for an orgy.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 34
An unstable table.
Fern River Van reminisces
Sweet dreams are made of throbbing shafts.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Super Smash Cache 3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts
A pro domme works in men's mental health. True that.
Blogging
the barefoot sub Airport Exposure With SWL
Few places could be trickier to find a moment out of view of passers-by and CCTV than an airport. barefoot sub rises to the challenge.
Writing about writing
Ramone Quides Three Years In and Loving Life
An interesting glimpse into a writer's reasons for writing. I recommend Ramone's Canvas Rebel interview too.