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Welcome to Elust 182

Cover image courtesy of  Kiki Lover.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Bri & Liam spend a day with Lena & Carlos, Part 2

Four friends shed their clothes and their inhibitions.

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 7

Sensei eyes off Asuka's entry.

Sex Work

Lenore Sins, Sex Work & Love: Mistress Lenore’s Perspective

Elizabeth of London, Traveling and Sex

Naked swing sauna in Madrid.

Super Smash Cache, Making Money Lewd & Nude Modeling: The Grind Behind It

Sitting pretty.

Domina Jemma, Understanding and preparing for the implementation of the Online Safety Act. Info for adult providers.

Cautious optimism regarding how the OSA might be implemented.

Mx Valentina, The dominatrix as life coach

Beyond tutti frutti.

Femina Viva, Stepping onto the tantric path

A wild ride.

Maîtresse Nuit, BDSM Power Games: Pushing Limits And Playing At The Edge Of The Unbearable

Helot submits to a forced bi ritual.

Sex Worker Search, I Hate My Job: Thots on Labor, Sex Work, and Capitalism. An Interview with Adrie Rose

Sex work is work even when it's not wonderful and empowering. It can be hard work, or just an ordinary day at the office like any other job.

 

Erotic Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Metaphysics of Desire: Tantra, Eroticism, and the Transmutation of the Self

Nothing is intrinsically impure or profane.

Kristina J, Whispers of Enchantment

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Discovering the Art of Tantra and the Transformative Power of Tantric Massage

Liz Black, How a Sex Doll Creates Comfort During Cold Weather

Hygge.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Disorderly House, 10 Ways To Stop Having Terrible Condom Sex

Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 11 to 15

Betty's Toy Box, Top 8 Foods to Boost Your Libido: What to Eat for a Healthier Sex Life 

Eats nuts and leaves.

 

Interviews

Dirk Hooper, Fetish Week: Interview with Comic Book Artist SexGazer by Dirk Hooper

This is a very interesting read since NSFW artists face many of the same obstacles as sex workers in terms of de-platformimg, shadowbanning, discrimination from payment portals and card processors etc.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Inflatable Vibrator

I like the concept. Maybe the sequel will get it just right.

Miss Ruby Reviews, Tracy’s Dog Swirlii

Cute. Looks like a claymation character.

Lushense, Top UK Sex Toy Brands in 2025

Great shouts. Most of them I'm familiar with but there's a few new brands there that look very promising.

 

Writing About Writing

Emily Rooks, Emily Describes Her Writing Process

Conflict resolution, erotica style.

Welcome to Elust 181

Who wouldn't follow that white rabbit? Cover image courtesy of Angelica Noi.Photography by Chris Nutt.  

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Come-In (Part 2)

There's going to be an event where hundreds of naked people will simultaneously masturbate to orgasm? Let's go!

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 5

Sensei teaches Yua, Chiaki and Asuka a lesson.

Peach Kisser, Mid-Flight Hospitality

A sapphic trip to the mile high club. Loins swimming with desire.

Simone Francis, Fetish Secretary

What's the office policy regarding inserting company property into one's orifices during business hours?

Ambyr Leigh, My Terrible Date Fucked Me Bareback In The Backseat Of His Car

That's going to leave a stain on the upholstery.

Schey Place Books, The Story So Far

The award winning adventures of story of reunited lovers, Christian and Alison.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Natalie Hepburn, Surviving a Dead Bedroom

It's pining for the fjords.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Erotism and the Transcendence of the Ego

The boundless unity of existence.

Blogging

Miss Ruby Reviews, A Decade in the Sex Toy Industry

Happy decaversary!

Erotic Non Fiction

Modesty Ablaze, Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10

The questions = What are your thoughts on foreplay? Favourite types, Best Experiences, Wishes? What parts of your lover’s body are you most drawn to? If you don’t currently have a lover, consider past or future lovers. Consider a moment in your life of great sensuality, eroticism or sexuality. Then answer the questions that Mary Oliver does in her poem “Gratitude” as they apply to that moment: If you were to recreate the early days of your favourite sexy relationship, what would they look like? Would you change anything? What would you want more of in your sex life?

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The alchemy of surrender and activation

Shiva and Shakti are at it again.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast Marchosias

Demonic

Oh Joy Sex Toy, The Uberrime Fantasy by Hien Pham

Avatar the last dildo bender.

Sydney Screams, FemmeFunn Klio Vibrator Review

A triple action rabbit style vibrator with g-spot, a-spot and clitoral stimulation.

Liz X, Beyond Ordinary Stimulation - Kiiroo ProWand with App Streaming

A wand that integrates with different online streaming sites so that lights change colour to indicate when the model receives a tip from a viewer.

Lushense, Introducing the Viballdo - The World's 1st Vibrating Ball Dildo

The evolution of ball sex.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cara Sutra, How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex

Helping to dispel multiple myths and stigma surrounding strap-on sex.

Sex Work

Lady Ava Sheridon, The Application Process; and why yours might be unsuccessful

FAQ’s

Kristina J, Authenticity and Connection: The Art of Being Real in Sex Work

Feel the realness.

Princess Kaz, Dommes – Carving Out You-Time

The importance of self care. Especially for us introverts.

Miss Kim Rub, Leather Fetishist Domme

Gotta love the smell and texture of leather.

Sex Worker Search, Are Sex Workers Welcome on Bluesky?

I hope to update this with a definitive answer if Bluesky responds.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humour

History of BDSM, “People Who Like Kinky Sex Are Just Bad In Bed”: Evie Magazine and the Raw Milkmaid Dress

This must be the most "only in America" thing of all time = Evie Magazine is a conservative women’s magazine first published in 2019. Its aesthetics and content reflect the “trad life/trad wife” movement, creating a pastoral fantasy of rural, agrarian labour combined with an idealized hetero-nuclear family. At the fringier end of things, Evie’s content splices into ideologies like pronatalism, anti-vaccination, the benefits of “raw milk” and other health quackery, transphobia, anti-feminism, COVID denial, QAnon, etc.

Welcome to Elust 180

Cover image courtesy of  Natasha Kaur.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

 

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Intersection of Sacred Sex and Kink in Tantric Philosophy

 

The role of kink within tantra.

 

Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 1 to 5

 

Good sex, PDAs, turn ons, wank fantasies, and porn genres.

 

For science.

 

Erotic Fiction

 

Fern River Cub, Luc sits for Asami (Part 1)
I love the concept and it's very well written. I am a bit confused about the dildo making method. Plaster? To make a mould and then the finished product is glazed ceramic? I'm not sure about the porcelain dildo. Too easy to chip or scratch the glaze. Maybe silicone in the mould would be better?

Schey Place Books, Erotica with Substance

 

A historical thriller that sizzles.
Simone Francis, Bondage Violation
Written and illustrated to kinky perfection.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 5
Seamus' students finally get the lesson they've been eagerly anticipating. Spankings.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

 

Ramone Quides, Time to Celebrate the Holiday Season
Putting the X (rated) in Xmas.

Product Reviews

 

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast “The Serpent”
A wiggly, wobbly, demon's blood red coloured, snake skin textured dildo. Now there's a stocking filler.
Liz X, Leten Insulated Cabin Telescopic Heating Male Masturbator Review
Infrared thermal tech.
Miss Ruby Reviews, Womanizer Vibe
Ergonomic sage green vibrator.

Erotic Non Fiction

 

Kristina J, The Power Manifesto: How I Own My Life as a Sex Worker
Hear, hear.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Alchemy of Surrender and Activation
Yin yang yoni.
Femina Viva, Tripping the life fantastic: real life is wilder than any book I’ve ever read
12 suitcases.
barefoot sub, Belated Birthday Beatings
Nice marks.

Sex Work

 

Sex Worker Search, Interview with Cory Doctorow. Disenshittification of the Internet for Sex Workers
My post.
Oz Bigdownunder, A Duo with Queen Kali Rain, Makiyo and Cherry
Beta boy gets disciplined in quadruplicate.
Hellga, An Offering to Aphrodite. A Duo with Maîtresse Nuit and Oz
The Goddess of love, harmony and unity. She also approves of floggings and anal sex.

Books and Movies

 

History of BDSM, Sanctuary (2022): The Celluloid Dungeon
A movie about the power dynamics of a relationship between a Pro Domme and her client who is a CEO.