Sex Worker Search

Welcome to Elust 180

Cover image courtesy of  Natasha Kaur.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

 

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Intersection of Sacred Sex and Kink in Tantric Philosophy

 

The role of kink within tantra.

 

Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 1 to 5

 

Good sex, PDAs, turn ons, wank fantasies, and porn genres.

 

For science.

 

Erotic Fiction

 

Fern River Cub, Luc sits for Asami (Part 1)
I love the concept and it's very well written. I am a bit confused about the dildo making method. Plaster? To make a mould and then the finished product is glazed ceramic? I'm not sure about the porcelain dildo. Too easy to chip or scratch the glaze. Maybe silicone in the mould would be better?

Schey Place Books, Erotica with Substance

 

A historical thriller that sizzles.
Simone Francis, Bondage Violation
Written and illustrated to kinky perfection.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 5
Seamus' students finally get the lesson they've been eagerly anticipating. Spankings.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

 

Ramone Quides, Time to Celebrate the Holiday Season
Putting the X (rated) in Xmas.

Product Reviews

 

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast “The Serpent”
A wiggly, wobbly, demon's blood red coloured, snake skin textured dildo. Now there's a stocking filler.
Liz X, Leten Insulated Cabin Telescopic Heating Male Masturbator Review
Infrared thermal tech.
Miss Ruby Reviews, Womanizer Vibe
Ergonomic sage green vibrator.

Erotic Non Fiction

 

Kristina J, The Power Manifesto: How I Own My Life as a Sex Worker
Hear, hear.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Alchemy of Surrender and Activation
Yin yang yoni.
Femina Viva, Tripping the life fantastic: real life is wilder than any book I’ve ever read
12 suitcases.
barefoot sub, Belated Birthday Beatings
Nice marks.

Sex Work

 

Sex Worker Search, Interview with Cory Doctorow. Disenshittification of the Internet for Sex Workers
My post.
Oz Bigdownunder, A Duo with Queen Kali Rain, Makiyo and Cherry
Beta boy gets disciplined in quadruplicate.
Hellga, An Offering to Aphrodite. A Duo with Maîtresse Nuit and Oz
The Goddess of love, harmony and unity. She also approves of floggings and anal sex.

Books and Movies

 

History of BDSM, Sanctuary (2022): The Celluloid Dungeon
A movie about the power dynamics of a relationship between a Pro Domme and her client who is a CEO.

Welcome to Elust 179

Cover image courtesy of  Countess Diamond.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

LDRBJFTW long distance relationship blowjobs for the win!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

This is all completely lost on me I'm afraid. Each to their own, anyone who enjoys tantra, that's great. Personally I like my sex profane and with an absence of mumbo jumbo.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lucy gets an earful.

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

A mysterious stranger story. This is fun. The contents of my inbox are a lot less cryptic.

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

I love a good cuckolding scenario.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Beastly bivius.

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Gigreesque!

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Techy.

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

I one bookmarked an ovipositor toy from Sinnovator since it looked awesome. Never got around to buying one. One day. But the bookmark found it's way into my bookmarks toolbar so now every time I glance at that part of my screen, I get delightful mental images. So there it stays.

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Will have you yodelling for the fjords.

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Written by the same author as the other tantra article? It has some very similar phrases eg about tantra being misunderstood in the west as purely sexual.

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire - 10 Years Of Submission

A sub exposed and naked stands before two fearsome Mistresses.

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

barefoot roped up and drooling. That's hot!

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

If you're meeting with a sex worker, just enjoy the session for what it is. Please don't "fall in love". You're meeting a professional who's providing a service and to the best of their ability creating the exact scene that's perfect for you. They're not being themselves, they're being an illusion of what you need them to be in that moment. Many of us love our work. I do. I care about my clients. A lot. But there is no Oz to fall in love with. Oz is a service I provide when I'm working. When the hour is up, Oz no longer exists. The Oz who appears for the next client is a different Oz depending on what that client needs Oz to be.

Sex Work

Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication

Essential reading.

Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work

This is really well written and makes a lot of excellent points. An optimistic look at the future of sex work.

Elizabeth, Torture Goddess

Elizabeth's writing is evocative as always.

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed

My post.

Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu

Yallah.

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel

Crafty.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins

NRE, new relationship energy. But without any LDRBJFTW.

The cover image for Elust 177 is courtesy of Vivienne Black and what an image it is!

 

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn't a Crowd

Three is the magic number.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop's Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Two powerhouses come together over bubbly.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Spicing things up in the kitchen to elevate the aftertaste.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Know Thyself, Know Your Partner

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

A kink scene institution relocates.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

A look behind the curtain of a profession often unseen and misunderstood.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

A magical blend of fantasy and desire takes roleplay to a whole new level.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

My post. Navigating the fine print of online privacy.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Some local favourite play spaces and a few new ones.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 2

I predict that someone's going to get taught a lesson in the next chapter or two.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

This jewelled delight promises to make your toy chest sparkle.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure - Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

A surprise twist on glass that will definitely catch your attention!

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

A sex toy breakpoint test.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Elevating intimacy one boundary at a time.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

Bon voyage barefoot!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

How exploring meditation can bring a new rhythm to intimacy.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Making time for playtime in long-term femdom.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

Creative ways to reignite the romantic flame.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

A love story that might just be your next romantic obsession.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Two things I certainly love. Sex and Sci-Fi.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

And Japan.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

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Cover image courtesy of Eddy. Photography by Maurice Farrell.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.

 

Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis, Goldilocks – A Supernatural BDSM Horror Story

Ramone Quides, Queenie and Little Dick, Part 1: Reticence

Kristina J, Captivated and Caught: Kristina J.‘s Seductive Revenge

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 1

Product Reviews

Liz X Likes, The Future of Pleasure is Here: A Comprehensive Review of the Keon Automatic Masturbator

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Dildo with a Twist

Princess Previews, N Joy Disco

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Glass Toys

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Fist and Furious: The Ins and Outs of Anal Fisting

barefoot sub, Ageing, By Barefoot

Buzzing Babe, Buying Amazon Sex Toys the Smart Way

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Adult SEO. An Interview with Maverank

Lady Ava, Why Am I a Dominatrix?

Hellga, Showers of Gold: A Duo with Christine Love and Mr. E

Sandra, The Ouroboros. Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session

Erotic Non Fiction

Beyond Non-Binary, Baby steps for a baby domme learning her new profession

Lilly in Distress, Slave Spa

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty's Toy Box, Mastering the Art of Nipple Clamps

Hannah McKnight, Saturday Night’s Alright for Kinkiness

Books and Movies

LA Jayne, Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal

Elust 176 Eddy

The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.

The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:

A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.

Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:

Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:

Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.

Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:

Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.

Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:

A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.

Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:

A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.

Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:

Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.

Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:

Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.

Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:

An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.

Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:

Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.

Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:

Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.

Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:

Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:

A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.

Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:

Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.

Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:

Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.

Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:

A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.

Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:

A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.

Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:

An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.

The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:

A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.

Elust 174 fishnets the catch of the day of the sexiest blog posts on the web. Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina's Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips. I'm in awe of Catalina's website and overall web presence. Fingers crossed Epoch, the company that provides credit card processing facilities for her site might work with me too. I've sent them an email.

Erotic Non Fiction

Voyageur Maggie and Paul

A complicated affair.

Kristina J Kink and Fetish

Encyclopaedic.

Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery

BRB SRS.

Erotic Fiction

barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences

Most enjoyable chastity erotica. I love the idea of downsizing the cage!

FYHO Her Boys

Bizarre love square.

Jasmine Gold A Submissive's First Threesome

Site seems to be offline.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End

Stephanie, Maires and Master have been engaged in a 36 day non stop sex marathon in a sharehouse. In consideration of their flatmates, who probably bought earplugs on day 1 and may have been considering hosing the loving throuple down with a fire extinguisher by day 36, they decide not to have a threesome in the shared kitchen and discuss getting their own house together.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo

Ooh, shiny! A toy for stimulating the G spot or prostate.

Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O

Whisper quiet, versatile and rumbly. I like the idea of the O ring for grip.

Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review

That's an impressive looking stallion cock. Especially with the addition of the syringe for squirting fake cum out of it.

Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison

A mini herd of adorable clit sucking unicorns.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine

Vote for your favourite in the comments.

Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare

Really important for sub and Dom.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships

Who'd have imagined in the 80s, when the variety of porn available to me was magazines and vhs tapes, what porn would be like in 2024. No post scarcity utopia, inter galactic space travel or true AI yet but we do have lots of genres of porn to choose from.

Betty's Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms

Recommended positions to get the perfect angle and constant, firm stimulation.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)

The one about the sharks in Paris looks like fun.

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune

A karaoke ode to a kinky threesome.

Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?

My latest.

Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow

Glaswegian shennanigans.

Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

That looks like the Kowloon Ladies Market. I found some treasures there. I still often wear a t-shirt I bought there 10 years ago that cost about £5 but is somehow made from indestructible fabric and shows almost no signs of wear after a decade.

Cover image courtesy of Multi Award Winning Adult Model & Content Creator! Zara Du Rose. Subscribe on Fansly for Solo, GG & BG content, Cock ratings, Custom clips and Sexy voice messages.

Erotic Fiction

Ramone Quides Eggs and Cream

Carbonara for breakfast. Why not?

For Your Heart Only The Shower

Wetter than a fishes wet bits.

Jasmine Gold Turnabout is Fair Play

Sexy switchy erotica.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 35

The penultimate.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Carrie Young The Joys of Erotic Humiliation

Compelling subject matter and very well written.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search How to Build a Website

My post.

The Disorderly House How To Be An Escort The Right Way & Have A Thrilling Career

Hmm. Some good tips in there but some misinformation too. Would have been better with some input from sex workers.

The Silky Masseuse Mastering the Art of Boundaries: A Pleasure Provider’s Guide

There's some science to setting boundaries and the skill can be refined to the point of an art form with experience. This article is an excellent place to start.

Beyond Non Binary Being a client with a professional sex worker, and the inherent balance of power

I like this. What a dreamy client!

Oz Bigdownunder Sexual Equanimity by Podopheleus

Oz reviews Pod.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Orgasm Monster Pro

Looks like a cattle prod but will it make you Moo?

the barefoot sub The (Bestvibe) Phoenix Rises: Thrusting Vibe

A dildo eternal.

Tiger Lily Kiiroo PowerBlow Review: The Ultimate Blowjob Simulator

Suckbot.

Sydney Screams NS Novelties Inya Grinder Vibrating Grind Pad Review

Hands free humping.

Betty's Toy Box Squirting Fantasy Dildos : Centaur and Phoenix Are Ready for Your Next Role Play

They're ready but are you ready for 200ml of monster semen?

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

N Likes I don't really like fucking

Neither do I. I love it.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

LA Jayne The Origin of Pain

This is going to hurt.

Girl on the Net Sensitivity Training: Sexual Feedback for Shy People

Am shy. Can confirm.

State of the World

Hannah McKnight Everybody Knows

A positive experience going out en Femme.

Erotic Non-Fiction

The Big Gay Review Sexy Thoughts #20: Reflection 

Nothing like a nice relaxing wank in the shower to destress after a long day.

Life's a Beach and this month in Elust 172, all the most talented sex bloggers on the net are here to share their posts. Cover image courtesy of Victoria CMT makes me wish I was somewhere warm and sunny playing in the sand right now.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Girl On The Net Practical sex tips: blankets, playlists and banishing shame!

What's your favourite sex playlist? I like this one. It's mostly deep house so it's got enough rhythm to keep things moving without being too frenetic and there are some lyrics but nothing too distracting.

Spices of Lust How To Use A Hismith Sex Machine (Solo + Couples)

Highly recommended. If you're not sure, you can always rent a pay per hour dungeon space that has one and try before you buy.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search E-Commerce for Sex Workers

An update to this post. CCbill replied. They said no.

Tulsi Tamora Is it normal to feel nervous when seeing a companion?

It's very normal to feel nervous before meeting with a companion who you're seeing for the first time. If that companion is as experienced and talented as Tulsi, you won't be feeling nervous for long once you've met.

Darla Blake From the bizarre to the banal, here’s some things you might not know about me!

Getting to know a very sexy sex worker.

The Silky Masseuse Setting Good Financial Boundaries

One more. Don't get a credit card. If you have credit cards, pay them off and then cancel them. I used to work for a bank. Credit cards are great. If you're a bank. Otherwise they're terrible. They're designed to make bankers richer and bank customers poorer. The idea is to encourage you to spend as much money as possible, as thoughtlessly as possible, and then ruin your life with interest repayments. Use a debit card instead. If your credit card debt is already out of control, here's some advice.

The Lady Phoenix The Boss Calls the Shots

Cocky Chris gets taken down a peg or two.

Catherine Schneider Hentai BDSM

If you're unfamiliar with the genre, you're in for a treat! There's a lot of free Hentai out there but if you find a Doujin artist you like, please consider commissioning some custom content or subscribing to their Patreon.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera Toy Test - Funzze.com Vibrating Anal Beads

11 inches of silicone anal beads.

Liz Black X Review of the Hermosa: A High-Quality Torso Sex Doll for Men by XTorso.com

Compact, Beautiful, and Functional.

Oz Bigdownunder Silver Surfer. Funzze Double-ended Stainless Steel Dildo Review

  1. Aliens. 2. The Hunt for Red October. 3. Evil Dead. 4. Austin Powers. 5. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. 6. Full Metal Jacket. 7. Borat. 8. Bladerunner. 9. Fight Club. 10. The Big Lebowsky. BRB off to watch a 20 hour movie marathon of all of the above.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J Exploring the Depths of Mindful Intimacy: A Guide to Enriched Connections

It's a journey. Or a space. Or a pillar.

Beyond Nonbinary Finding my Womanhood as I Bleed

A unique perspective on a sex change operation.

Charli and Margeaux How To Eat My Pussy

Just listen.

The Disorderly House Men Sharing Their Wives

Between consenting adults, if everyone involved is into it, why not?

Musings of a Switch Sexually Daring

William Wallace in a vulnerable position.

Erotic Fiction

Well Written Smut Co. This is Our Life

A short story in which old friends reunite for an orgy.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 34

An unstable table.

Fern River Van reminisces

Sweet dreams are made of throbbing shafts.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Super Smash Cache 3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts

A pro domme works in men's mental health. True that.

Blogging

the barefoot sub Airport Exposure With SWL

Few places could be trickier to find a moment out of view of passers-by and CCTV than an airport. barefoot sub rises to the challenge.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Three Years In and Loving Life

An interesting glimpse into a writer's reasons for writing. I recommend Ramone's Canvas Rebel interview too.

Elust 169 has it all. From a stunning image courtesy of Calea Toxic, to Wonder Woman, orgasm denial, spanking, Femdom, snowman sex toys, sex dolls, big balls, the best sex toys of 2023, self-pleasure, buggery, G- spots, and so much more.

Blogging

Ramone Quides,  Oh, What a November to Remember!

Reflections on the year that was and teasers for upcoming plans for 2024.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, TammyJo & Peter discuss Professor Marston & the Wonder Women

Covering how to be bi and kinky in the 1930s, negotiating polyamory in the closet, and the femdom episode of Speed Buggy.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cut to the Chaste, A Debate Over Orgasm Denial and Chastity

There is more to chastity than orgasm denial, eg psychological power dynamics, exploration of boundaries, and intimacy-building.

Pieces of Jade, Happy Christm-ASS

180 whacks!

Morgan Destera, Guest Blog - Kylie Cockwhore

Your favorite gay cockslut is a sucker of thumbs, amongst other things.

Podopheleus, 7 Powerful Insights: Exploring the Essence of France FemDom with Inanna Justice

Inanna Justice and Pod discuss France FemDom, an international three-day event celebrating female domination.

Product reviews

barefoot, The Joy Snowman- A Bestvibe Review

Tis the season to wank yourself off with a sex toy shaped like a snowman.

Sex Toy DB,   This Hip Doll Fucks You Back: Sinloli Ethel 27lb “Smart” Hip Doll Review

A sex doll with a ridiculously cool superpower: she fucks back

Joanne's Reviews, Colon Balls Platinum Silicone Depth Trainer

The smallest of the four size options is not small enough for those new to anal, at roughly the size of a satsuma.

Betty's Toy Box, The Top 10 New Sex Toys of 2023. A Sexy Year in Review

The most popular toys of the past year, the newest, most innovative, and bestselling sex toys.

Princess Previews, Top 10 Sex Toys of 2023

Number one on this list and number one on Betty's list above are both on my shopping list for sure.

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold, Teacher's Pet

A parent teacher conference gets smutty.

Jaime Mortimer. Bedroom Eyes 31

Maires gets buggered. Stephanie has an unusual pet name. "Scallop".

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J,  The Role of Ego in BDSM: Navigating Power Dynamics with Awareness

Musings of a Switch, Female desires.

William fantasises about having the appearance and desires of a woman

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes, Everything you need to know about the G-Spot

This article discusses the elusive g-spot, describing its location and variations in sensitivity, offering tips on how to find and stimulate it using fingers, vibrators, or different sexual positions, and showcasing popular g-spot toys to enhance sexual experiences and intimacy with your partner.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Liz X Likes, Unlocking the Surprising Mental Health Benefits of Self-Pleasure

The mental health benefits of self-pleasure, including stress relief through oxytocin release, improved mood due to endorphins and dopamine, and better sleep regulation.

Sex Work

Lady Phoenix, 12 Months A Slave

Slave M's journey over the past year has involved intense training in serving and worshiping his Mistress, highlighting his significant progress and numerous new experiences during their sessions and outings, ultimately demonstrating the potential for a novice slave to excel under proper guidance and commitment.

Ms Sapora Knight, Erotic Devotion

Vividly describes a passionate and spiritual union between two individuals, emphasizing the intense sensations, emotional connection, and surrendering of the self to a transcendent experience of love and desire.

Sex Worker Search, Sexworkopedia

An A to Z of sex work.

Delilah Odell, Adventures In Playing For Both Teams: January 2024 Edition

An escort's  experiences as a client of escorts between December 2018 and July 2023.

Elust 165 is now live with a ravishing cover Image courtesy of Mistress Andrómeda X.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Breaking Chains: Reimagining BDSM Roles

Super Smash Cache explains why there's much more to BDSM than binary roles of a masculine, sadistic, Dominant top and a feminine, masochistic, submissive bottom.

Erotic Fiction

Fantasies

Coffee

Reverie

Bedroom Eyes 28

Four sexy stories from When Jerry Met Ali, For Your Heart Only, Voyageur and Jerusalem Mortimer.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

The Rise of the Penis Plush aka Piemel Knuffel

Liz Black embraces the penis plushy.

Writing about writing

Musings and Flashers and Hope, Oh My!

Ramone Quides accesses resources for improving at writing and discovers skills that can be used to turn outlines and unfinished drafts into completed works.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Cracking Tits? Or Lumps, Bumps And Flaws?

The barefoot sub presents a picture of herself and her friend SWL to illustrate a discussion on self confidence and body image.

Product reviews

Review of Velociraptor Dildo from Laphwing

TOY TEST – Celani Nipple Sucker

We-Vibe Ditto+

Oz, Morgan Destera and Princess Previews review three sex toys.

Sex Work

Large chest for sale!

No Data on Prostitution? Just Make It Up!

Evelyn Becomes a Client!

Victoria Myers, Jack Violet and Evelyn Vale discuss three very different subjects all related to sex work.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Monogamists get a lil polyamory as a treat on the Ultimatum

People With Penises Can Wear Strap-Ons Too!

Gabrielle Alexa Noel and Girly Juice on some sort of reality dating TV show and some excellent reasons why penis owners can, and should, use strap-ons. That "reality" show looks like prime evidence for no reality whatsoever being involved in reality tv. So they just put some couples in an apartment building and filmed them in the hope that they'd do something entertaining? What if they all got along fine and chilled out together. Maybe played a board game or took a nap. Wouldn't make very compelling television. It's scripted. All reality television is scripted.

Books and Movies

The Shelves of a Feeble-Minded Book Slut: Part One

Book shelf envy. I live in one of the most expensive post codes in the world. London, W1. In an apartment that makes Harry Potter's broom cupboard look spacious. No room for a book shelf. I love it here and it's the perfect location and perfect apartment for me as a sex worker. But one day I'll get a bigger place and first thing I'll do is install a massive bookshelf and fill it with books.