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Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.

 

Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis, Goldilocks – A Supernatural BDSM Horror Story

Ramone Quides, Queenie and Little Dick, Part 1: Reticence

Kristina J, Captivated and Caught: Kristina J.‘s Seductive Revenge

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 1

Product Reviews

Liz X Likes, The Future of Pleasure is Here: A Comprehensive Review of the Keon Automatic Masturbator

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Dildo with a Twist

Princess Previews, N Joy Disco

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Glass Toys

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Fist and Furious: The Ins and Outs of Anal Fisting

barefoot sub, Ageing, By Barefoot

Buzzing Babe, Buying Amazon Sex Toys the Smart Way

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Adult SEO. An Interview with Maverank

Lady Ava, Why Am I a Dominatrix?

Hellga, Showers of Gold: A Duo with Christine Love and Mr. E

Sandra, The Ouroboros. Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session

Erotic Non Fiction

Beyond Non-Binary, Baby steps for a baby domme learning her new profession

Lilly in Distress, Slave Spa

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty's Toy Box, Mastering the Art of Nipple Clamps

Hannah McKnight, Saturday Night’s Alright for Kinkiness

Books and Movies

LA Jayne, Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal

Elust 176 Eddy

The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.

The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:

A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.

Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:

Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:

Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.

Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:

Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.

Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:

A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.

Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:

A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.

Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:

Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.

Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:

Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.

Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:

An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.

Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:

Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.

Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:

Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.

Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:

Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:

A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.

Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:

Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.

Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:

Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.

Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:

A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.

Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:

A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.

Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:

An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.

The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:

A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.

Cover image courtesy of Multi Award Winning Adult Model & Content Creator! Zara Du Rose. Subscribe on Fansly for Solo, GG & BG content, Cock ratings, Custom clips and Sexy voice messages.

Erotic Fiction

Ramone Quides Eggs and Cream

Carbonara for breakfast. Why not?

For Your Heart Only The Shower

Wetter than a fishes wet bits.

Jasmine Gold Turnabout is Fair Play

Sexy switchy erotica.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 35

The penultimate.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Carrie Young The Joys of Erotic Humiliation

Compelling subject matter and very well written.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search How to Build a Website

My post.

The Disorderly House How To Be An Escort The Right Way & Have A Thrilling Career

Hmm. Some good tips in there but some misinformation too. Would have been better with some input from sex workers.

The Silky Masseuse Mastering the Art of Boundaries: A Pleasure Provider’s Guide

There's some science to setting boundaries and the skill can be refined to the point of an art form with experience. This article is an excellent place to start.

Beyond Non Binary Being a client with a professional sex worker, and the inherent balance of power

I like this. What a dreamy client!

Oz Bigdownunder Sexual Equanimity by Podopheleus

Oz reviews Pod.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Orgasm Monster Pro

Looks like a cattle prod but will it make you Moo?

the barefoot sub The (Bestvibe) Phoenix Rises: Thrusting Vibe

A dildo eternal.

Tiger Lily Kiiroo PowerBlow Review: The Ultimate Blowjob Simulator

Suckbot.

Sydney Screams NS Novelties Inya Grinder Vibrating Grind Pad Review

Hands free humping.

Betty's Toy Box Squirting Fantasy Dildos : Centaur and Phoenix Are Ready for Your Next Role Play

They're ready but are you ready for 200ml of monster semen?

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

N Likes I don't really like fucking

Neither do I. I love it.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

LA Jayne The Origin of Pain

This is going to hurt.

Girl on the Net Sensitivity Training: Sexual Feedback for Shy People

Am shy. Can confirm.

State of the World

Hannah McKnight Everybody Knows

A positive experience going out en Femme.

Erotic Non-Fiction

The Big Gay Review Sexy Thoughts #20: Reflection 

Nothing like a nice relaxing wank in the shower to destress after a long day.

Life's a Beach and this month in Elust 172, all the most talented sex bloggers on the net are here to share their posts. Cover image courtesy of Victoria CMT makes me wish I was somewhere warm and sunny playing in the sand right now.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Girl On The Net Practical sex tips: blankets, playlists and banishing shame!

What's your favourite sex playlist? I like this one. It's mostly deep house so it's got enough rhythm to keep things moving without being too frenetic and there are some lyrics but nothing too distracting.

Spices of Lust How To Use A Hismith Sex Machine (Solo + Couples)

Highly recommended. If you're not sure, you can always rent a pay per hour dungeon space that has one and try before you buy.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search E-Commerce for Sex Workers

An update to this post. CCbill replied. They said no.

Tulsi Tamora Is it normal to feel nervous when seeing a companion?

It's very normal to feel nervous before meeting with a companion who you're seeing for the first time. If that companion is as experienced and talented as Tulsi, you won't be feeling nervous for long once you've met.

Darla Blake From the bizarre to the banal, here’s some things you might not know about me!

Getting to know a very sexy sex worker.

The Silky Masseuse Setting Good Financial Boundaries

One more. Don't get a credit card. If you have credit cards, pay them off and then cancel them. I used to work for a bank. Credit cards are great. If you're a bank. Otherwise they're terrible. They're designed to make bankers richer and bank customers poorer. The idea is to encourage you to spend as much money as possible, as thoughtlessly as possible, and then ruin your life with interest repayments. Use a debit card instead. If your credit card debt is already out of control, here's some advice.

The Lady Phoenix The Boss Calls the Shots

Cocky Chris gets taken down a peg or two.

Catherine Schneider Hentai BDSM

If you're unfamiliar with the genre, you're in for a treat! There's a lot of free Hentai out there but if you find a Doujin artist you like, please consider commissioning some custom content or subscribing to their Patreon.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera Toy Test - Funzze.com Vibrating Anal Beads

11 inches of silicone anal beads.

Liz Black X Review of the Hermosa: A High-Quality Torso Sex Doll for Men by XTorso.com

Compact, Beautiful, and Functional.

Oz Bigdownunder Silver Surfer. Funzze Double-ended Stainless Steel Dildo Review

  1. Aliens. 2. The Hunt for Red October. 3. Evil Dead. 4. Austin Powers. 5. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. 6. Full Metal Jacket. 7. Borat. 8. Bladerunner. 9. Fight Club. 10. The Big Lebowsky. BRB off to watch a 20 hour movie marathon of all of the above.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J Exploring the Depths of Mindful Intimacy: A Guide to Enriched Connections

It's a journey. Or a space. Or a pillar.

Beyond Nonbinary Finding my Womanhood as I Bleed

A unique perspective on a sex change operation.

Charli and Margeaux How To Eat My Pussy

Just listen.

The Disorderly House Men Sharing Their Wives

Between consenting adults, if everyone involved is into it, why not?

Musings of a Switch Sexually Daring

William Wallace in a vulnerable position.

Erotic Fiction

Well Written Smut Co. This is Our Life

A short story in which old friends reunite for an orgy.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 34

An unstable table.

Fern River Van reminisces

Sweet dreams are made of throbbing shafts.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Super Smash Cache 3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts

A pro domme works in men's mental health. True that.

Blogging

the barefoot sub Airport Exposure With SWL

Few places could be trickier to find a moment out of view of passers-by and CCTV than an airport. barefoot sub rises to the challenge.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Three Years In and Loving Life

An interesting glimpse into a writer's reasons for writing. I recommend Ramone's Canvas Rebel interview too.

Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Though wise men at their end know dark is right.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few  years.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Becky gets a sissy makeover.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.

Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.

Elust 169 has it all. From a stunning image courtesy of Calea Toxic, to Wonder Woman, orgasm denial, spanking, Femdom, snowman sex toys, sex dolls, big balls, the best sex toys of 2023, self-pleasure, buggery, G- spots, and so much more.

Blogging

Ramone Quides,  Oh, What a November to Remember!

Reflections on the year that was and teasers for upcoming plans for 2024.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, TammyJo & Peter discuss Professor Marston & the Wonder Women

Covering how to be bi and kinky in the 1930s, negotiating polyamory in the closet, and the femdom episode of Speed Buggy.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cut to the Chaste, A Debate Over Orgasm Denial and Chastity

There is more to chastity than orgasm denial, eg psychological power dynamics, exploration of boundaries, and intimacy-building.

Pieces of Jade, Happy Christm-ASS

180 whacks!

Morgan Destera, Guest Blog - Kylie Cockwhore

Your favorite gay cockslut is a sucker of thumbs, amongst other things.

Podopheleus, 7 Powerful Insights: Exploring the Essence of France FemDom with Inanna Justice

Inanna Justice and Pod discuss France FemDom, an international three-day event celebrating female domination.

Product reviews

barefoot, The Joy Snowman- A Bestvibe Review

Tis the season to wank yourself off with a sex toy shaped like a snowman.

Sex Toy DB,   This Hip Doll Fucks You Back: Sinloli Ethel 27lb “Smart” Hip Doll Review

A sex doll with a ridiculously cool superpower: she fucks back

Joanne's Reviews, Colon Balls Platinum Silicone Depth Trainer

The smallest of the four size options is not small enough for those new to anal, at roughly the size of a satsuma.

Betty's Toy Box, The Top 10 New Sex Toys of 2023. A Sexy Year in Review

The most popular toys of the past year, the newest, most innovative, and bestselling sex toys.

Princess Previews, Top 10 Sex Toys of 2023

Number one on this list and number one on Betty's list above are both on my shopping list for sure.

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold, Teacher's Pet

A parent teacher conference gets smutty.

Jaime Mortimer. Bedroom Eyes 31

Maires gets buggered. Stephanie has an unusual pet name. "Scallop".

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J,  The Role of Ego in BDSM: Navigating Power Dynamics with Awareness

Musings of a Switch, Female desires.

William fantasises about having the appearance and desires of a woman

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes, Everything you need to know about the G-Spot

This article discusses the elusive g-spot, describing its location and variations in sensitivity, offering tips on how to find and stimulate it using fingers, vibrators, or different sexual positions, and showcasing popular g-spot toys to enhance sexual experiences and intimacy with your partner.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Liz X Likes, Unlocking the Surprising Mental Health Benefits of Self-Pleasure

The mental health benefits of self-pleasure, including stress relief through oxytocin release, improved mood due to endorphins and dopamine, and better sleep regulation.

Sex Work

Lady Phoenix, 12 Months A Slave

Slave M's journey over the past year has involved intense training in serving and worshiping his Mistress, highlighting his significant progress and numerous new experiences during their sessions and outings, ultimately demonstrating the potential for a novice slave to excel under proper guidance and commitment.

Ms Sapora Knight, Erotic Devotion

Vividly describes a passionate and spiritual union between two individuals, emphasizing the intense sensations, emotional connection, and surrendering of the self to a transcendent experience of love and desire.

Sex Worker Search, Sexworkopedia

An A to Z of sex work.

Delilah Odell, Adventures In Playing For Both Teams: January 2024 Edition

An escort's  experiences as a client of escorts between December 2018 and July 2023.

Image courtesy of Adrianna Assante.

It's Christmas Eve and Elust 168 is a gift that keeps on giving. We delve into a diverse range of topics within the realm of books, movies, erotic fiction, sex work, product reviews, and thoughtful insights on kink and relationships. From a book review of "Principle Decisions" by Thea Belmont, exploring BDSM themes and deep character exploration, to an examination of the Canadian psychological drama "I Love a Man in Uniform (1993)" and its exploration of obsession and control. Dive into reviews of erotic fiction, insights on kink and fetish, and product reviews covering various adult toys. Join me in opening up a Santa's sackful of erotica and sexuality.

Thanks to ChatGPT for a little help with the summaries to follow.

Books and Movies

Book Review: Principle Decisions by Thea Belmont

Sally Bend reviews "Principle Decisions" by Thea Belmont, praising its deep character exploration and BDSM themes. The protagonist, Vivienne, is a complex character whose journey into submission is both cathartic and reflective. Bend recommends the book for its engaging romance and thoughtful depiction of personal and relational dynamics.

I Love a Man in Uniform (1993): The Celluloid Dungeon

Celluloid Dungeon reviews a Canadian psychological drama, exploring how Henry Adler, a bank clerk turned actor, becomes increasingly obsessed with his police officer role in a TV cop show. As he immerses himself in his character and the accompanying uniform, he descends into a disturbing desire for control and intimidation, ultimately leading to tragic consequences.

Exit To Eden, by Anne Rice

Oz Bigdownunder reviews "Exit to Eden" by Anne Rice. Sadly it seems the book superficially handles its BDSM theme and transitions awkwardly from a kinky narrative to a conventional romance.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

What’s Wrong With Forced Feminization?

Cut to the Chaste explores the cultural and psychological aspects of Forced Feminization, whereby submissive men engage in feminizing activities, sometimes as part of their chastity dynamics. The author reflects on the personal and societal implications, debates around sexism and consent in kink, and the personal experiences and boundaries related to feminization, aiming to provide a nuanced view of the subject.

A little pick me up.

The barefoot sub discusses the therapeutic and calming effects of rope suspension. Rope bondage can be a personal sanctuary, offering a form of escape from mental clutter and emotional distress. barefoot recounts a recent experience of rope play that provided emotional relief and a sense of peace, highlighting the importance of such activities as personal coping mechanisms.

BDSM Aftercare

The Disorderly House post emphasizes the crucial importance of aftercare in BDSM activities for both the submissive and the dominant. It describes the physiological and psychological changes experienced during BDSM play, including the highs of power play and the subsequent "drop" experienced by both parties. The article explains what a sub drop and a Dom drop are and discusses the potential physical and emotional symptoms. It then underscores the necessity of aftercare to mitigate these effects, offering a variety of aftercare practices to ensure the well-being of all participants and maintain the intimacy of the relationship.

Unlocking Pleasure: 14 Essential Prodomme Tips for Baby Subs

Podopheleus' post aimed at individuals new to the BDSM scene. Pod shares personal insights and guidance for those exploring submission and considering engaging with a professional dominatrix. The article covers a range of topics, including the importance of thorough research, respect and communication, setting personal boundaries, and understanding the human aspect of dominatrix-submissive relationships. It emphasizes the need for consent, self-respect, and patience in navigating these dynamics, aiming to prepare new submissives for a safe and fulfilling journey into BDSM.

Erotic Fiction

Tender Domination

An excerpt from a story by Ramone Quides being written for a book release. It narrates a vivid scene of a couple engaging in dominant-submissive play, specifically focusing on the female dominance in their sexual relationship. Set in a secluded yet accessible location, the story explores the dynamics of consent, control, and sexual fulfilment between the couple, "Mark" and the narrator. It depicts scenes of eroticism, dominance, and aftercare, highlighting the trust and communication that underpin their relationship. The excerpt provides a glimpse into the power play, emotional connection, and the sensual pleasure of BDSM activities, aiming to entice readers with the couple's intimate and controlled exploration of dominance and submission.

End

"The Ghost of Timor – Ch.21 – End" is a concluding chapter of a serialized erotic fiction story, detailing the protagonist Alison's introspective and sensual journey. It reflects on her past and present relationships, particularly focusing on rekindling an old flame, Jeremy, and navigating the complexities of her desires and regrets. The narrative is rich with moments of self-discovery, sexual exploration, and emotional revelation, culminating in a vividly described solo erotic experience amidst the countryside. Alison's journey is one of self-acceptance and exploration, marked by a poignant questioning of past decisions and a newfound willingness to embrace her desires. The story is published by Dr Girlfriend, an author known for writing erotic fiction.

Sexy Ghost Story – Mia’s Books

A post by Tabitha Rayne announcing the release of her new erotic tale and audiobook titled "Mia's Books – A Ghostly Obsession," just in time for the spooky season. The story revolves around Mia, an insomniac who finds solace in reading spicy romance novels to fall asleep. One night, she sneaks into a library and encounters a ghostly entity that emerges from a dusty tome and begins a spectral seduction. This paranormal experience continues at home as Mia falls in love with the spirit, which knows how to please her but becomes increasingly demanding.

Sex Work

Squeeze me Please Me

Kristina-J's informative guide to cock rings. The post reflects Kristina's knowledge and experience in sexual wellness, aiming to educate readers on the benefits and proper use of cock rings.

Double Deflowering

Lady Phoenix recounts a sensual BDSM session between the author, a dominatrix, and a young man named Henry. In their second meeting, the session is aimed to be more sensual and exploratory, particularly focusing on Henry's anal deflowering. Lady Phoenix describes preparing Henry for the experience, including wearing a strap-on and guiding him through his first anal penetration with care and gradual intensity. The narrative delves into the physical sensations and emotional dynamics of the encounter, highlighting trust, consent, and discovery. It concludes with Henry also losing his actual virginity, making it a double deflowering session, guided by Lady Phoenix's expertise and the symbolic power of her Phoenix tattoo, leading to a synchronized climax.

Happy Poo Emoji

The post is a blog entry by Sandra detailing her experience with a new client who requested a scat fetish session as part of a kinky girlfriend experience. The client was respectful and sincere, leading to a successful encounter where they engaged in a fetish act involving defecation. Sandra narrates the unusual request with a sense of normalcy and professionalism, reflecting on the nature of such requests in the sex work industry.

What to Do When Your Sexual Expectations Fail You?

Sapora Knight addresses the issue of sexual performance anxiety and the unrealistic expectations individuals often have in intimate settings. It emphasizes the impact of mental stress and societal pressures on sexual dysfunction and the disconnect from true intimacy. The author suggests a shift towards presence and internal awareness, offering practical advice and steps to foster genuine connection and pleasure, moving away from goal-oriented mindsets to more fulfilling sexual experiences. The post encourages readers to explore and embrace vulnerability in their sexual relationships for deeper intimacy.

Revolting Prostitutes Book Review

My review of an excellent book by Juno Mac and Molly Smith. RP emphasizes the importance of listening to sex workers' voices, advocating for their rights and dignity, and challenging the stigmatization they face. The authors argue for the decriminalization of sex work as a means to enhance safety and working conditions, presenting a well-researched discussion on the legal, social, and economic dimensions of the industry.

Product reviews

Tracy's Dog Flowliper Vibrator - Innovative Features and Honest Insights

Liz X provides a detailed evaluation of the Flowliper Vibrator, highlighting its innovative features and sharing personal insights. The review covers aspects like design, build quality, charging, waterproof capabilities, and user experience, emphasizing its lightweight nature, IPX6 waterproof rating, and versatile stimulation heads. Liz praises the product's packaging, magnetic charging, and fun pulse mode, while noting its milder suction and niche pulse mode as potential drawbacks.

Review: Velvet Thruster Prime

Princess Previews evaluates the Velvet Thruster Prime, a modular thruster with multiple heads and accessories, highlighting its thrusting capabilities, versatility, and innovative design. Despite praising its performance and unique features, the review also notes significant issues with durability and water resistance. The Prime is recognized for its powerful thrusting ability but criticized for technical problems and its high price, leading to a mixed overall impression.

RawLoveStudio Moonbean Unicorn Dildo

The review on Witch of the Wands covers the Moonbean Unicorn Dildo by RawLoveStudio, celebrating its fantasy unicorn horn design and suitability for beginners to fantasy toys. The dildo is praised for its unique design, comfortable handling, and gentle texture, suitable for both strap-on use and hand-held play. The reviewer highlights its aesthetic appeal, custom color options, and the delightful experience it provides, especially noting the comfortable base and silicone's perfect squish. Overall, the review recommends the Moonbean for those venturing into fantasy toys or looking to add a whimsical touch to their collection.

Uncle Bob Silicone Dildo From John Thomas Toys

The SexToyDB review criticizes the Qiui BeatPat Electro-Spanker for its poor design and ineffective electro play feature, which fails to deliver the promised sensations. The device's cheap feel and an unintuitive app further detract from the experience. The review concludes by advising against the purchase due to its fundamental flaws and lack of value.

Qiui BeatPat Electro-Spanker Review: Is This Thing Even On?

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Keeping Your Toys Clean: A Guide to Protecting Your Health and Pleasure

Buzz Vibes blog highlights the necessity of cleaning sex toys to prevent infections, preserve their quality, and ensure hygiene. It recommends appropriate cleaning methods based on the toy's material, proper storage, and regular checks for damage. Using condoms on porous toys and suitable lubricants is also advised for safety and enhanced pleasure. The blog underscores that proper care extends toy life and ensures safe usage.

The perfect image thanks to Pod1213 to illustrate the sexiness that is this months collection of sex blog posts in Elust 167.

 

Product Reviews

Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator

Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox

The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action

Review: Magic Wand Micro

Midnight Menagerie Teufl

The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023

I'm a big monster dildo fan. That Teufl looks amazing!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame

Home for the Polydays

What if your +1 for Christmas dinner is your polycule? Ready for Polyamory has some ideas.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship

Silken Claws on setting protocol, relation with punishment, how to set the right level of intensity, whether consent is necessary and much more when it comes to maintenance spankings.

Erotic Fiction

Red Panties and Purple Passions

Bedroom Eyes 30

Sexy story time with Ramone Quides and Jerusalem Mortimer.

Books and Movies

Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings

Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon

"A small town girl who runs into big time trouble as she takes on her roommates identity as a dominatrix to pay the bills" sounds like fun!

Sex Work

Come to Dubai Habibi

Locktober Special

Kink: Prostate massage

On Promises

Facility X Dungeon

Censorship

The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine

Oz,  Lady Phoenix, Mina, Lousia, myself and Hellga with diverse takes on sex work and the adult industry.

The September edition, Elust 166, is jam packed with sexy blog posts for your reading pleasure.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles

Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Super Smash Cache and Silken claws on how to handle male subs and when chastity isn't all that respectively.

Erotic Non Fiction

Take A Look At Yourself

The barefoot sub sees a sexy sight in the mirror.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man

Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend

Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple

Beyond Non-binary, Betty's Toy Box and Joan Price have changes to the libido, a way to use toys to stimulate the vulva just inside the vaginal opening and sexiness for sexagenarians.

Product Reviews

The Basilisk

Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer

Sexy Toys reviewed on the blogs of Musings of a switch and Liz X Likes.

Erotic Fiction

The Gym

Steph's Surprise

Dare

The Bradley Shower Pole

FYHO, Voyageur, Dr Girlfriend and Sinclair Sexsmith with the best erotica on the net this month.

Writing about writing

Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit

Ramone Quides gives thanks to writers and writers groups who helped motivate him this month.

Sex Work

Bring Your Fantasies to Life

The Perfect Enquiry

Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie

Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition

MMF Duo with Oz Bigdownunder

Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin

Charlie Rose, Meet the Minx, Oz, Sandra and Hellga share their writing on different aspects of sex work. Fantasies, how to get in contact, a cuckolding duo, fighting for the rights and freedoms of the adult industry, bisexual MMF and Femdom FMTY.

Elust 165 is now live with a ravishing cover Image courtesy of Mistress Andrómeda X.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Breaking Chains: Reimagining BDSM Roles

Super Smash Cache explains why there's much more to BDSM than binary roles of a masculine, sadistic, Dominant top and a feminine, masochistic, submissive bottom.

Erotic Fiction

Fantasies

Coffee

Reverie

Bedroom Eyes 28

Four sexy stories from When Jerry Met Ali, For Your Heart Only, Voyageur and Jerusalem Mortimer.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

The Rise of the Penis Plush aka Piemel Knuffel

Liz Black embraces the penis plushy.

Writing about writing

Musings and Flashers and Hope, Oh My!

Ramone Quides accesses resources for improving at writing and discovers skills that can be used to turn outlines and unfinished drafts into completed works.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Cracking Tits? Or Lumps, Bumps And Flaws?

The barefoot sub presents a picture of herself and her friend SWL to illustrate a discussion on self confidence and body image.

Product reviews

Review of Velociraptor Dildo from Laphwing

TOY TEST – Celani Nipple Sucker

We-Vibe Ditto+

Oz, Morgan Destera and Princess Previews review three sex toys.

Sex Work

Large chest for sale!

No Data on Prostitution? Just Make It Up!

Evelyn Becomes a Client!

Victoria Myers, Jack Violet and Evelyn Vale discuss three very different subjects all related to sex work.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Monogamists get a lil polyamory as a treat on the Ultimatum

People With Penises Can Wear Strap-Ons Too!

Gabrielle Alexa Noel and Girly Juice on some sort of reality dating TV show and some excellent reasons why penis owners can, and should, use strap-ons. That "reality" show looks like prime evidence for no reality whatsoever being involved in reality tv. So they just put some couples in an apartment building and filmed them in the hope that they'd do something entertaining? What if they all got along fine and chilled out together. Maybe played a board game or took a nap. Wouldn't make very compelling television. It's scripted. All reality television is scripted.

Books and Movies

The Shelves of a Feeble-Minded Book Slut: Part One

Book shelf envy. I live in one of the most expensive post codes in the world. London, W1. In an apartment that makes Harry Potter's broom cupboard look spacious. No room for a book shelf. I love it here and it's the perfect location and perfect apartment for me as a sex worker. But one day I'll get a bigger place and first thing I'll do is install a massive bookshelf and fill it with books.