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Welcome to Elust 185

Cover image courtesy of  Ellie Stockholm. If you like Ellie's content, please vote here = AltStar Awards 2025 Vote: Best Premium Social Media Star.

Betty's Toy Box, How to Use a Butt Plug: The Basics from Betty’s Toy Box

Fox Digital, WordPress, Squarespace, Wix. Which Platform Is Best For Your Escort Website?

Elizabeth of London, MMF & FFM

State of the World

Femina Viva, What do we do with fake allies or do they just not know any better?

Erotic Non-Fiction

Kristina J, Reflecting on My Sexual Conditioning: Unraveling the Messages I Grew Up With

Mx Valentina, Simple is beautiful: the joys of a barehanded spanking

Writing About Writing

Ramone Quides, Framing For a Better 2025

Good sex, PDAs, turn ons, wank fantasies, and porn genres.

 

For science.

 

Erotic Fiction

 

Schey Place Books, Erotica with Substance

 

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

 

Product Reviews

 

Erotic Non Fiction

 

Sex Work

 

Books and Movies

 

Welcome to Elust 179

Cover image courtesy of  Countess Diamond.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

LDRBJFTW long distance relationship blowjobs for the win!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

This is all completely lost on me I'm afraid. Each to their own, anyone who enjoys tantra, that's great. Personally I like my sex profane and with an absence of mumbo jumbo.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lucy gets an earful.

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

A mysterious stranger story. This is fun. The contents of my inbox are a lot less cryptic.

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

I love a good cuckolding scenario.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Beastly bivius.

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Gigreesque!

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Techy.

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

I one bookmarked an ovipositor toy from Sinnovator since it looked awesome. Never got around to buying one. One day. But the bookmark found it's way into my bookmarks toolbar so now every time I glance at that part of my screen, I get delightful mental images. So there it stays.

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Will have you yodelling for the fjords.

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Written by the same author as the other tantra article? It has some very similar phrases eg about tantra being misunderstood in the west as purely sexual.

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire - 10 Years Of Submission

A sub exposed and naked stands before two fearsome Mistresses.

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

barefoot roped up and drooling. That's hot!

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

If you're meeting with a sex worker, just enjoy the session for what it is. Please don't "fall in love". You're meeting a professional who's providing a service and to the best of their ability creating the exact scene that's perfect for you. They're not being themselves, they're being an illusion of what you need them to be in that moment. Many of us love our work. I do. I care about my clients. A lot. But there is no Oz to fall in love with. Oz is a service I provide when I'm working. When the hour is up, Oz no longer exists. The Oz who appears for the next client is a different Oz depending on what that client needs Oz to be.

Sex Work

Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication

Essential reading.

Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work

This is really well written and makes a lot of excellent points. An optimistic look at the future of sex work.

Elizabeth, Torture Goddess

Elizabeth's writing is evocative as always.

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed

My post.

Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu

Yallah.

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel

Crafty.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins

NRE, new relationship energy. But without any LDRBJFTW.

Cover image courtesy of Eddy. Photography by Maurice Farrell.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.

 

Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis, Goldilocks – A Supernatural BDSM Horror Story

Ramone Quides, Queenie and Little Dick, Part 1: Reticence

Kristina J, Captivated and Caught: Kristina J.‘s Seductive Revenge

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 1

Product Reviews

Liz X Likes, The Future of Pleasure is Here: A Comprehensive Review of the Keon Automatic Masturbator

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Dildo with a Twist

Princess Previews, N Joy Disco

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Glass Toys

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Fist and Furious: The Ins and Outs of Anal Fisting

barefoot sub, Ageing, By Barefoot

Buzzing Babe, Buying Amazon Sex Toys the Smart Way

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Adult SEO. An Interview with Maverank

Lady Ava, Why Am I a Dominatrix?

Hellga, Showers of Gold: A Duo with Christine Love and Mr. E

Sandra, The Ouroboros. Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session

Erotic Non Fiction

Beyond Non-Binary, Baby steps for a baby domme learning her new profession

Lilly in Distress, Slave Spa

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty's Toy Box, Mastering the Art of Nipple Clamps

Hannah McKnight, Saturday Night’s Alright for Kinkiness

Books and Movies

LA Jayne, Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal

The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.

The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:

A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.

Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:

Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:

Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.

Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:

Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.

Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:

A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.

Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:

A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.

Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:

Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.

Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:

Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.

Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:

An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.

Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:

Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.

Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:

Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.

Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:

Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:

A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.

Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:

Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.

Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:

Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.

Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:

A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.

Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:

A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.

Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:

An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.

The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:

A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.

Cover image courtesy of Multi Award Winning Adult Model & Content Creator! Zara Du Rose. Subscribe on Fansly for Solo, GG & BG content, Cock ratings, Custom clips and Sexy voice messages.

Erotic Fiction

Ramone Quides Eggs and Cream

Carbonara for breakfast. Why not?

For Your Heart Only The Shower

Wetter than a fishes wet bits.

Jasmine Gold Turnabout is Fair Play

Sexy switchy erotica.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 35

The penultimate.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Carrie Young The Joys of Erotic Humiliation

Compelling subject matter and very well written.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search How to Build a Website

My post.

The Disorderly House How To Be An Escort The Right Way & Have A Thrilling Career

Hmm. Some good tips in there but some misinformation too. Would have been better with some input from sex workers.

The Silky Masseuse Mastering the Art of Boundaries: A Pleasure Provider’s Guide

There's some science to setting boundaries and the skill can be refined to the point of an art form with experience. This article is an excellent place to start.

Beyond Non Binary Being a client with a professional sex worker, and the inherent balance of power

I like this. What a dreamy client!

Oz Bigdownunder Sexual Equanimity by Podopheleus

Oz reviews Pod.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Orgasm Monster Pro

Looks like a cattle prod but will it make you Moo?

the barefoot sub The (Bestvibe) Phoenix Rises: Thrusting Vibe

A dildo eternal.

Tiger Lily Kiiroo PowerBlow Review: The Ultimate Blowjob Simulator

Suckbot.

Sydney Screams NS Novelties Inya Grinder Vibrating Grind Pad Review

Hands free humping.

Betty's Toy Box Squirting Fantasy Dildos : Centaur and Phoenix Are Ready for Your Next Role Play

They're ready but are you ready for 200ml of monster semen?

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

N Likes I don't really like fucking

Neither do I. I love it.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

LA Jayne The Origin of Pain

This is going to hurt.

Girl on the Net Sensitivity Training: Sexual Feedback for Shy People

Am shy. Can confirm.

State of the World

Hannah McKnight Everybody Knows

A positive experience going out en Femme.

Erotic Non-Fiction

The Big Gay Review Sexy Thoughts #20: Reflection 

Nothing like a nice relaxing wank in the shower to destress after a long day.

Life's a Beach and this month in Elust 172, all the most talented sex bloggers on the net are here to share their posts. Cover image courtesy of Victoria CMT makes me wish I was somewhere warm and sunny playing in the sand right now.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Girl On The Net Practical sex tips: blankets, playlists and banishing shame!

What's your favourite sex playlist? I like this one. It's mostly deep house so it's got enough rhythm to keep things moving without being too frenetic and there are some lyrics but nothing too distracting.

Spices of Lust How To Use A Hismith Sex Machine (Solo + Couples)

Highly recommended. If you're not sure, you can always rent a pay per hour dungeon space that has one and try before you buy.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search E-Commerce for Sex Workers

An update to this post. CCbill replied. They said no.

Tulsi Tamora Is it normal to feel nervous when seeing a companion?

It's very normal to feel nervous before meeting with a companion who you're seeing for the first time. If that companion is as experienced and talented as Tulsi, you won't be feeling nervous for long once you've met.

Darla Blake From the bizarre to the banal, here’s some things you might not know about me!

Getting to know a very sexy sex worker.

The Silky Masseuse Setting Good Financial Boundaries

One more. Don't get a credit card. If you have credit cards, pay them off and then cancel them. I used to work for a bank. Credit cards are great. If you're a bank. Otherwise they're terrible. They're designed to make bankers richer and bank customers poorer. The idea is to encourage you to spend as much money as possible, as thoughtlessly as possible, and then ruin your life with interest repayments. Use a debit card instead. If your credit card debt is already out of control, here's some advice.

The Lady Phoenix The Boss Calls the Shots

Cocky Chris gets taken down a peg or two.

Catherine Schneider Hentai BDSM

If you're unfamiliar with the genre, you're in for a treat! There's a lot of free Hentai out there but if you find a Doujin artist you like, please consider commissioning some custom content or subscribing to their Patreon.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera Toy Test - Funzze.com Vibrating Anal Beads

11 inches of silicone anal beads.

Liz Black X Review of the Hermosa: A High-Quality Torso Sex Doll for Men by XTorso.com

Compact, Beautiful, and Functional.

Oz Bigdownunder Silver Surfer. Funzze Double-ended Stainless Steel Dildo Review

1. Aliens. 2. The Hunt for Red October. 3. Evil Dead. 4. Austin Powers. 5. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. 6. Full Metal Jacket. 7. Borat. 8. Bladerunner. 9. Fight Club. 10. The Big Lebowsky. BRB off to watch a 20 hour movie marathon of all of the above.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J Exploring the Depths of Mindful Intimacy: A Guide to Enriched Connections

It's a journey. Or a space. Or a pillar.

Beyond Nonbinary Finding my Womanhood as I Bleed

A unique perspective on a sex change operation.

Charli and Margeaux How To Eat My Pussy

Just listen.

The Disorderly House Men Sharing Their Wives

Between consenting adults, if everyone involved is into it, why not?

Musings of a Switch Sexually Daring

William Wallace in a vulnerable position.

Erotic Fiction

Well Written Smut Co. This is Our Life

A short story in which old friends reunite for an orgy.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 34

An unstable table.

Fern River Van reminisces

Sweet dreams are made of throbbing shafts.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Super Smash Cache 3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts

A pro domme works in men's mental health. True that.

Blogging

the barefoot sub Airport Exposure With SWL

Few places could be trickier to find a moment out of view of passers-by and CCTV than an airport. barefoot sub rises to the challenge.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Three Years In and Loving Life

An interesting glimpse into a writer's reasons for writing. I recommend Ramone's Canvas Rebel interview too.

Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Though wise men at their end know dark is right.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few  years.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Becky gets a sissy makeover.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.

Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.