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Welcome to Elust 178

This month's best and sexiest blog posts featuring a beautiful cover image courtesy of Anais Leigh.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts

William's thoughts on online videos.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening

Exploring deeper intimacy through meditative practices.

The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide

Wanking 101.

Betty's Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try

Tempted to try them all right here, right now in Joe and the Juice.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Civility counts.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner

Sexplosive.

Little Red Spanking, The Lover’s Spat: A Paddle Story

Nothing better than the sound effects of a really good paddling.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything

i horny robot.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3

Seamus gets his hands on a rattan cane.

Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow

She got a real pretty mouth, ain't she?

Jasmine Gold, A Nun's Humiliation

Ginny sells her soul to the devil.

Product Reviews

Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn't Know Existed (2024)

A roundup of standout devices for male-focused enjoyment.

Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo's Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker

We don't have flying cars yet but we do have this.

Sex Work

Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You

Magnifique!

Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices

From a top Pro Domme.

Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory

My post.

Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker

A new Pro Domme thinking about rates.

Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz

Terrific threesome.

Nuit d'Or, Self-care For Dominants

Excellent advice from an experienced BDSM coach and mentor.

Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave

Sissygsms.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Special guest appearance from Freddy Krueger.

Poetry

Simone Francis, Watch Me

Photo illustrated.

The cover image for Elust 177 is courtesy of Vivienne Black and what an image it is!

 

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn't a Crowd

Three is the magic number.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop's Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Two powerhouses come together over bubbly.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Spicing things up in the kitchen to elevate the aftertaste.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Know Thyself, Know Your Partner

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

A kink scene institution relocates.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

A look behind the curtain of a profession often unseen and misunderstood.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

A magical blend of fantasy and desire takes roleplay to a whole new level.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

My post. Navigating the fine print of online privacy.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Some local favourite play spaces and a few new ones.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 2

I predict that someone's going to get taught a lesson in the next chapter or two.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

This jewelled delight promises to make your toy chest sparkle.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure - Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

A surprise twist on glass that will definitely catch your attention!

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

A sex toy breakpoint test.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Elevating intimacy one boundary at a time.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

Bon voyage barefoot!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

How exploring meditation can bring a new rhythm to intimacy.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Making time for playtime in long-term femdom.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

Creative ways to reignite the romantic flame.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

A love story that might just be your next romantic obsession.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Two things I certainly love. Sex and Sci-Fi.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

And Japan.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

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Cover image courtesy of Eddy. Photography by Maurice Farrell.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.

 

Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis, Goldilocks – A Supernatural BDSM Horror Story

Ramone Quides, Queenie and Little Dick, Part 1: Reticence

Kristina J, Captivated and Caught: Kristina J.‘s Seductive Revenge

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 1

Product Reviews

Liz X Likes, The Future of Pleasure is Here: A Comprehensive Review of the Keon Automatic Masturbator

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Dildo with a Twist

Princess Previews, N Joy Disco

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Glass Toys

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Fist and Furious: The Ins and Outs of Anal Fisting

barefoot sub, Ageing, By Barefoot

Buzzing Babe, Buying Amazon Sex Toys the Smart Way

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Adult SEO. An Interview with Maverank

Lady Ava, Why Am I a Dominatrix?

Hellga, Showers of Gold: A Duo with Christine Love and Mr. E

Sandra, The Ouroboros. Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session

Erotic Non Fiction

Beyond Non-Binary, Baby steps for a baby domme learning her new profession

Lilly in Distress, Slave Spa

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty's Toy Box, Mastering the Art of Nipple Clamps

Hannah McKnight, Saturday Night’s Alright for Kinkiness

Books and Movies

LA Jayne, Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal

Elust 176 Eddy

The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.

The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:

A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.

Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:

Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:

Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.

Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:

Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.

Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:

A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.

Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:

A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.

Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:

Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.

Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:

Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.

Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:

An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.

Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:

Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.

Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:

Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.

Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:

Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:

A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.

Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:

Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.

Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:

Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.

Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:

A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.

Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:

A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.

Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:

An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.

The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:

A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.

Elust 174 fishnets the catch of the day of the sexiest blog posts on the web. Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina's Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips. I'm in awe of Catalina's website and overall web presence. Fingers crossed Epoch, the company that provides credit card processing facilities for her site might work with me too. I've sent them an email.

Erotic Non Fiction

Voyageur Maggie and Paul

A complicated affair.

Kristina J Kink and Fetish

Encyclopaedic.

Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery

BRB SRS.

Erotic Fiction

barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences

Most enjoyable chastity erotica. I love the idea of downsizing the cage!

FYHO Her Boys

Bizarre love square.

Jasmine Gold A Submissive's First Threesome

Site seems to be offline.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End

Stephanie, Maires and Master have been engaged in a 36 day non stop sex marathon in a sharehouse. In consideration of their flatmates, who probably bought earplugs on day 1 and may have been considering hosing the loving throuple down with a fire extinguisher by day 36, they decide not to have a threesome in the shared kitchen and discuss getting their own house together.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo

Ooh, shiny! A toy for stimulating the G spot or prostate.

Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O

Whisper quiet, versatile and rumbly. I like the idea of the O ring for grip.

Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review

That's an impressive looking stallion cock. Especially with the addition of the syringe for squirting fake cum out of it.

Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison

A mini herd of adorable clit sucking unicorns.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine

Vote for your favourite in the comments.

Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare

Really important for sub and Dom.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships

Who'd have imagined in the 80s, when the variety of porn available to me was magazines and vhs tapes, what porn would be like in 2024. No post scarcity utopia, inter galactic space travel or true AI yet but we do have lots of genres of porn to choose from.

Betty's Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms

Recommended positions to get the perfect angle and constant, firm stimulation.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)

The one about the sharks in Paris looks like fun.

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune

A karaoke ode to a kinky threesome.

Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?

My latest.

Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow

Glaswegian shennanigans.

Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

That looks like the Kowloon Ladies Market. I found some treasures there. I still often wear a t-shirt I bought there 10 years ago that cost about £5 but is somehow made from indestructible fabric and shows almost no signs of wear after a decade.

Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions.

Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too.

I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that =

Sex Work

The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1

The bane of every sex worker's existence. The time wasters.

Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers

I'd like to say I have a love hate relationship with twitter but to be honest, I have no love for Twitter at all and can't even be bothered hating it any more after all the shadowbanning. Best I can do is barely tolerate Twitter to the extent of maintaining the kind of presence on there that's expected of a SW.

Sandra Vitamin S

Sandra, TS Ama and Mistress Volga get silky.

Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama

Ama again! She's everywhere. This time with Oz and Mistress Chatterley.

Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans

I don't see why Twitter can't just have an NSFW on, NSFW off button and then advertisers can decide whether they want their ads to appear next to NSFW content or not. As opposed to rewarding SWs for all our hard work providing free content, without which Twitter would die, with sneaky backstabby shadowbans.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Funzze What's the BEST Material for Adult Toys?

Silicone is a personal favourite but I just recently received a stainless steel anal dildo from Funzze to review. I love it. Review coming soon.

Musings of a Switch The Early Days

William Wallace reminisces.

Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender

It's as if time itself has slowed down, each second stretched to its limits as we linger on the precipice of pleasure, suspended in the delicious agony of anticipation.

Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine

And puppy gets a leash and collar.

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold The Unicorn

The mythical beast with three backs.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33

+1 the Chemical Brothers.

FYHO The Polaroid

It's a Kodak moment

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)

Beautiful pic and post. Shirley Manson would approve.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting

Wet and wild. Never heard it called a platinum shower before. That's awesome.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review

An ergonomic wand for people with accessibility needs.

Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder

Love the colours and design. Gigeresque.

Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo

That's a tentacular tentacle. My tentacle dildo is more of the squishy variety so a more rigid one would come in handy.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)

Even if you've never seen the movie and have no intention of seeing it, I still recommend watching this video review just to hear two highly experienced and knowledgeable kink historians chatting.

 

Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Though wise men at their end know dark is right.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few  years.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Becky gets a sissy makeover.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.

Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.

Image courtesy of Adrianna Assante.

It's Christmas Eve and Elust 168 is a gift that keeps on giving. We delve into a diverse range of topics within the realm of books, movies, erotic fiction, sex work, product reviews, and thoughtful insights on kink and relationships. From a book review of "Principle Decisions" by Thea Belmont, exploring BDSM themes and deep character exploration, to an examination of the Canadian psychological drama "I Love a Man in Uniform (1993)" and its exploration of obsession and control. Dive into reviews of erotic fiction, insights on kink and fetish, and product reviews covering various adult toys. Join me in opening up a Santa's sackful of erotica and sexuality.

Thanks to ChatGPT for a little help with the summaries to follow.

Books and Movies

Book Review: Principle Decisions by Thea Belmont

Sally Bend reviews "Principle Decisions" by Thea Belmont, praising its deep character exploration and BDSM themes. The protagonist, Vivienne, is a complex character whose journey into submission is both cathartic and reflective. Bend recommends the book for its engaging romance and thoughtful depiction of personal and relational dynamics.

I Love a Man in Uniform (1993): The Celluloid Dungeon

Celluloid Dungeon reviews a Canadian psychological drama, exploring how Henry Adler, a bank clerk turned actor, becomes increasingly obsessed with his police officer role in a TV cop show. As he immerses himself in his character and the accompanying uniform, he descends into a disturbing desire for control and intimidation, ultimately leading to tragic consequences.

Exit To Eden, by Anne Rice

Oz Bigdownunder reviews "Exit to Eden" by Anne Rice. Sadly it seems the book superficially handles its BDSM theme and transitions awkwardly from a kinky narrative to a conventional romance.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

What’s Wrong With Forced Feminization?

Cut to the Chaste explores the cultural and psychological aspects of Forced Feminization, whereby submissive men engage in feminizing activities, sometimes as part of their chastity dynamics. The author reflects on the personal and societal implications, debates around sexism and consent in kink, and the personal experiences and boundaries related to feminization, aiming to provide a nuanced view of the subject.

A little pick me up.

The barefoot sub discusses the therapeutic and calming effects of rope suspension. Rope bondage can be a personal sanctuary, offering a form of escape from mental clutter and emotional distress. barefoot recounts a recent experience of rope play that provided emotional relief and a sense of peace, highlighting the importance of such activities as personal coping mechanisms.

BDSM Aftercare

The Disorderly House post emphasizes the crucial importance of aftercare in BDSM activities for both the submissive and the dominant. It describes the physiological and psychological changes experienced during BDSM play, including the highs of power play and the subsequent "drop" experienced by both parties. The article explains what a sub drop and a Dom drop are and discusses the potential physical and emotional symptoms. It then underscores the necessity of aftercare to mitigate these effects, offering a variety of aftercare practices to ensure the well-being of all participants and maintain the intimacy of the relationship.

Unlocking Pleasure: 14 Essential Prodomme Tips for Baby Subs

Podopheleus' post aimed at individuals new to the BDSM scene. Pod shares personal insights and guidance for those exploring submission and considering engaging with a professional dominatrix. The article covers a range of topics, including the importance of thorough research, respect and communication, setting personal boundaries, and understanding the human aspect of dominatrix-submissive relationships. It emphasizes the need for consent, self-respect, and patience in navigating these dynamics, aiming to prepare new submissives for a safe and fulfilling journey into BDSM.

Erotic Fiction

Tender Domination

An excerpt from a story by Ramone Quides being written for a book release. It narrates a vivid scene of a couple engaging in dominant-submissive play, specifically focusing on the female dominance in their sexual relationship. Set in a secluded yet accessible location, the story explores the dynamics of consent, control, and sexual fulfilment between the couple, "Mark" and the narrator. It depicts scenes of eroticism, dominance, and aftercare, highlighting the trust and communication that underpin their relationship. The excerpt provides a glimpse into the power play, emotional connection, and the sensual pleasure of BDSM activities, aiming to entice readers with the couple's intimate and controlled exploration of dominance and submission.

End

"The Ghost of Timor – Ch.21 – End" is a concluding chapter of a serialized erotic fiction story, detailing the protagonist Alison's introspective and sensual journey. It reflects on her past and present relationships, particularly focusing on rekindling an old flame, Jeremy, and navigating the complexities of her desires and regrets. The narrative is rich with moments of self-discovery, sexual exploration, and emotional revelation, culminating in a vividly described solo erotic experience amidst the countryside. Alison's journey is one of self-acceptance and exploration, marked by a poignant questioning of past decisions and a newfound willingness to embrace her desires. The story is published by Dr Girlfriend, an author known for writing erotic fiction.

Sexy Ghost Story – Mia’s Books

A post by Tabitha Rayne announcing the release of her new erotic tale and audiobook titled "Mia's Books – A Ghostly Obsession," just in time for the spooky season. The story revolves around Mia, an insomniac who finds solace in reading spicy romance novels to fall asleep. One night, she sneaks into a library and encounters a ghostly entity that emerges from a dusty tome and begins a spectral seduction. This paranormal experience continues at home as Mia falls in love with the spirit, which knows how to please her but becomes increasingly demanding.

Sex Work

Squeeze me Please Me

Kristina-J's informative guide to cock rings. The post reflects Kristina's knowledge and experience in sexual wellness, aiming to educate readers on the benefits and proper use of cock rings.

Double Deflowering

Lady Phoenix recounts a sensual BDSM session between the author, a dominatrix, and a young man named Henry. In their second meeting, the session is aimed to be more sensual and exploratory, particularly focusing on Henry's anal deflowering. Lady Phoenix describes preparing Henry for the experience, including wearing a strap-on and guiding him through his first anal penetration with care and gradual intensity. The narrative delves into the physical sensations and emotional dynamics of the encounter, highlighting trust, consent, and discovery. It concludes with Henry also losing his actual virginity, making it a double deflowering session, guided by Lady Phoenix's expertise and the symbolic power of her Phoenix tattoo, leading to a synchronized climax.

Happy Poo Emoji

The post is a blog entry by Sandra detailing her experience with a new client who requested a scat fetish session as part of a kinky girlfriend experience. The client was respectful and sincere, leading to a successful encounter where they engaged in a fetish act involving defecation. Sandra narrates the unusual request with a sense of normalcy and professionalism, reflecting on the nature of such requests in the sex work industry.

What to Do When Your Sexual Expectations Fail You?

Sapora Knight addresses the issue of sexual performance anxiety and the unrealistic expectations individuals often have in intimate settings. It emphasizes the impact of mental stress and societal pressures on sexual dysfunction and the disconnect from true intimacy. The author suggests a shift towards presence and internal awareness, offering practical advice and steps to foster genuine connection and pleasure, moving away from goal-oriented mindsets to more fulfilling sexual experiences. The post encourages readers to explore and embrace vulnerability in their sexual relationships for deeper intimacy.

Revolting Prostitutes Book Review

My review of an excellent book by Juno Mac and Molly Smith. RP emphasizes the importance of listening to sex workers' voices, advocating for their rights and dignity, and challenging the stigmatization they face. The authors argue for the decriminalization of sex work as a means to enhance safety and working conditions, presenting a well-researched discussion on the legal, social, and economic dimensions of the industry.

Product reviews

Tracy's Dog Flowliper Vibrator - Innovative Features and Honest Insights

Liz X provides a detailed evaluation of the Flowliper Vibrator, highlighting its innovative features and sharing personal insights. The review covers aspects like design, build quality, charging, waterproof capabilities, and user experience, emphasizing its lightweight nature, IPX6 waterproof rating, and versatile stimulation heads. Liz praises the product's packaging, magnetic charging, and fun pulse mode, while noting its milder suction and niche pulse mode as potential drawbacks.

Review: Velvet Thruster Prime

Princess Previews evaluates the Velvet Thruster Prime, a modular thruster with multiple heads and accessories, highlighting its thrusting capabilities, versatility, and innovative design. Despite praising its performance and unique features, the review also notes significant issues with durability and water resistance. The Prime is recognized for its powerful thrusting ability but criticized for technical problems and its high price, leading to a mixed overall impression.

RawLoveStudio Moonbean Unicorn Dildo

The review on Witch of the Wands covers the Moonbean Unicorn Dildo by RawLoveStudio, celebrating its fantasy unicorn horn design and suitability for beginners to fantasy toys. The dildo is praised for its unique design, comfortable handling, and gentle texture, suitable for both strap-on use and hand-held play. The reviewer highlights its aesthetic appeal, custom color options, and the delightful experience it provides, especially noting the comfortable base and silicone's perfect squish. Overall, the review recommends the Moonbean for those venturing into fantasy toys or looking to add a whimsical touch to their collection.

Uncle Bob Silicone Dildo From John Thomas Toys

The SexToyDB review criticizes the Qiui BeatPat Electro-Spanker for its poor design and ineffective electro play feature, which fails to deliver the promised sensations. The device's cheap feel and an unintuitive app further detract from the experience. The review concludes by advising against the purchase due to its fundamental flaws and lack of value.

Qiui BeatPat Electro-Spanker Review: Is This Thing Even On?

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Keeping Your Toys Clean: A Guide to Protecting Your Health and Pleasure

Buzz Vibes blog highlights the necessity of cleaning sex toys to prevent infections, preserve their quality, and ensure hygiene. It recommends appropriate cleaning methods based on the toy's material, proper storage, and regular checks for damage. Using condoms on porous toys and suitable lubricants is also advised for safety and enhanced pleasure. The blog underscores that proper care extends toy life and ensures safe usage.

The perfect image thanks to Pod1213 to illustrate the sexiness that is this months collection of sex blog posts in Elust 167.

 

Product Reviews

Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator

Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox

The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action

Review: Magic Wand Micro

Midnight Menagerie Teufl

The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023

I'm a big monster dildo fan. That Teufl looks amazing!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame

Home for the Polydays

What if your +1 for Christmas dinner is your polycule? Ready for Polyamory has some ideas.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship

Silken Claws on setting protocol, relation with punishment, how to set the right level of intensity, whether consent is necessary and much more when it comes to maintenance spankings.

Erotic Fiction

Red Panties and Purple Passions

Bedroom Eyes 30

Sexy story time with Ramone Quides and Jerusalem Mortimer.

Books and Movies

Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings

Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon

"A small town girl who runs into big time trouble as she takes on her roommates identity as a dominatrix to pay the bills" sounds like fun!

Sex Work

Come to Dubai Habibi

Locktober Special

Kink: Prostate massage

On Promises

Facility X Dungeon

Censorship

The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine

Oz,  Lady Phoenix, Mina, Lousia, myself and Hellga with diverse takes on sex work and the adult industry.

The September edition, Elust 166, is jam packed with sexy blog posts for your reading pleasure.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles

Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Super Smash Cache and Silken claws on how to handle male subs and when chastity isn't all that respectively.

Erotic Non Fiction

Take A Look At Yourself

The barefoot sub sees a sexy sight in the mirror.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man

Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend

Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple

Beyond Non-binary, Betty's Toy Box and Joan Price have changes to the libido, a way to use toys to stimulate the vulva just inside the vaginal opening and sexiness for sexagenarians.

Product Reviews

The Basilisk

Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer

Sexy Toys reviewed on the blogs of Musings of a switch and Liz X Likes.

Erotic Fiction

The Gym

Steph's Surprise

Dare

The Bradley Shower Pole

FYHO, Voyageur, Dr Girlfriend and Sinclair Sexsmith with the best erotica on the net this month.

Writing about writing

Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit

Ramone Quides gives thanks to writers and writers groups who helped motivate him this month.

Sex Work

Bring Your Fantasies to Life

The Perfect Enquiry

Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie

Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition

MMF Duo with Oz Bigdownunder

Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin

Charlie Rose, Meet the Minx, Oz, Sandra and Hellga share their writing on different aspects of sex work. Fantasies, how to get in contact, a cuckolding duo, fighting for the rights and freedoms of the adult industry, bisexual MMF and Femdom FMTY.