Welcome to Elust 179
Cover image courtesy of Countess Diamond.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines
LDRBJFTW long distance relationship blowjobs for the win!
Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality
This is all completely lost on me I'm afraid. Each to their own, anyone who enjoys tantra, that's great. Personally I like my sex profane and with an absence of mumbo jumbo.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Cub, Luc listens in
Lucy gets an earful.
Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1
A mysterious stranger story. This is fun. The contents of my inbox are a lot less cryptic.
Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading
I love a good cuckolding scenario.
Product Reviews
Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime
Beastly bivius.
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo
Gigreesque!
Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable
Techy.
Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation
I one bookmarked an ovipositor toy from Sinnovator since it looked awesome. Never got around to buying one. One day. But the bookmark found it's way into my bookmarks toolbar so now every time I glance at that part of my screen, I get delightful mental images. So there it stays.
Of Sex and Love, Heidi
Will have you yodelling for the fjords.
Erotic Non Fiction
Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth
Written by the same author as the other tantra article? It has some very similar phrases eg about tantra being misunderstood in the west as purely sexual.
Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire - 10 Years Of Submission
A sub exposed and naked stands before two fearsome Mistresses.
barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark
barefoot roped up and drooling. That's hot!
Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion
If you're meeting with a sex worker, just enjoy the session for what it is. Please don't "fall in love". You're meeting a professional who's providing a service and to the best of their ability creating the exact scene that's perfect for you. They're not being themselves, they're being an illusion of what you need them to be in that moment. Many of us love our work. I do. I care about my clients. A lot. But there is no Oz to fall in love with. Oz is a service I provide when I'm working. When the hour is up, Oz no longer exists. The Oz who appears for the next client is a different Oz depending on what that client needs Oz to be.
Sex Work
Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication
Essential reading.
Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work
This is really well written and makes a lot of excellent points. An optimistic look at the future of sex work.
Elizabeth, Torture Goddess
Elizabeth's writing is evocative as always.
Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed
My post.
Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu
Yallah.
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel
Crafty.
Writing about writing
Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins
NRE, new relationship energy. But without any LDRBJFTW.
The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.
The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:
A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.
Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:
Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.
LA Jayne, Against the Discourse
Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:
Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.
Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:
Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.
Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:
A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.
Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:
A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.
Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:
Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.
Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo
Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:
Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.
Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:
An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.
Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:
Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.
Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:
Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.
Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:
Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.
barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss
The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:
A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.
Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:
Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.
Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:
Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.
Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:
A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.
Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:
A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.
Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:
An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.
The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:
A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.
Elust 174 fishnets the catch of the day of the sexiest blog posts on the web. Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina's Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips. I'm in awe of Catalina's website and overall web presence. Fingers crossed Epoch, the company that provides credit card processing facilities for her site might work with me too. I've sent them an email.
Erotic Non Fiction
Voyageur Maggie and Paul
A complicated affair.
Kristina J Kink and Fetish
Encyclopaedic.
Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery
BRB SRS.
Erotic Fiction
barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences
Most enjoyable chastity erotica. I love the idea of downsizing the cage!
FYHO Her Boys
Bizarre love square.
Jasmine Gold A Submissive's First Threesome
Site seems to be offline.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End
Stephanie, Maires and Master have been engaged in a 36 day non stop sex marathon in a sharehouse. In consideration of their flatmates, who probably bought earplugs on day 1 and may have been considering hosing the loving throuple down with a fire extinguisher by day 36, they decide not to have a threesome in the shared kitchen and discuss getting their own house together.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo
Ooh, shiny! A toy for stimulating the G spot or prostate.
Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O
Whisper quiet, versatile and rumbly. I like the idea of the O ring for grip.
Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review
That's an impressive looking stallion cock. Especially with the addition of the syringe for squirting fake cum out of it.
Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison
A mini herd of adorable clit sucking unicorns.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine
Vote for your favourite in the comments.
Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare
Really important for sub and Dom.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships
Who'd have imagined in the 80s, when the variety of porn available to me was magazines and vhs tapes, what porn would be like in 2024. No post scarcity utopia, inter galactic space travel or true AI yet but we do have lots of genres of porn to choose from.
Betty's Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms
Recommended positions to get the perfect angle and constant, firm stimulation.
Books and Movies
LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)
The one about the sharks in Paris looks like fun.
Sex Work
Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune
A karaoke ode to a kinky threesome.
Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?
My latest.
Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow
Glaswegian shennanigans.
Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong
That looks like the Kowloon Ladies Market. I found some treasures there. I still often wear a t-shirt I bought there 10 years ago that cost about £5 but is somehow made from indestructible fabric and shows almost no signs of wear after a decade.
Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions.
Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too.
I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that =
Sex Work
The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1
The bane of every sex worker's existence. The time wasters.
Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers
I'd like to say I have a love hate relationship with twitter but to be honest, I have no love for Twitter at all and can't even be bothered hating it any more after all the shadowbanning. Best I can do is barely tolerate Twitter to the extent of maintaining the kind of presence on there that's expected of a SW.
Sandra Vitamin S
Sandra, TS Ama and Mistress Volga get silky.
Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama
Ama again! She's everywhere. This time with Oz and Mistress Chatterley.
Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans
I don't see why Twitter can't just have an NSFW on, NSFW off button and then advertisers can decide whether they want their ads to appear next to NSFW content or not. As opposed to rewarding SWs for all our hard work providing free content, without which Twitter would die, with sneaky backstabby shadowbans.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Funzze What's the BEST Material for Adult Toys?
Silicone is a personal favourite but I just recently received a stainless steel anal dildo from Funzze to review. I love it. Review coming soon.
Musings of a Switch The Early Days
William Wallace reminisces.
Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender
It's as if time itself has slowed down, each second stretched to its limits as we linger on the precipice of pleasure, suspended in the delicious agony of anticipation.
Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine
And puppy gets a leash and collar.
Erotic Fiction
Jasmine Gold The Unicorn
The mythical beast with three backs.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33
+1 the Chemical Brothers.
FYHO The Polaroid
It's a Kodak moment
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)
Beautiful pic and post. Shirley Manson would approve.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting
Wet and wild. Never heard it called a platinum shower before. That's awesome.
Product Reviews
Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review
An ergonomic wand for people with accessibility needs.
Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder
Love the colours and design. Gigeresque.
Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo
That's a tentacular tentacle. My tentacle dildo is more of the squishy variety so a more rigid one would come in handy.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)
Even if you've never seen the movie and have no intention of seeing it, I still recommend watching this video review just to hear two highly experienced and knowledgeable kink historians chatting.
Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon
You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.
Erotic Fiction
When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur
That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32
Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.
Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man
Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub The Impact Of Running
I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!
Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day
Though wise men at their end know dark is right.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire
From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples
The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.
Product Reviews
Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review
An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.
Sex Work
Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity
How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.
Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?
Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few years.
The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson
Becky gets a sissy makeover.
Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive
I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.
Sandra Duo with TS Ama
An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.
Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask
A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.
Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley
Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!
Sex Worker Search Clientopedia
My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.
Blogging
Musings of a Switch An independent artist search
Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.
Writing about writing
Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block
Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.
Blogging
Ramone Quides, Oh, What a November to Remember!
Reflections on the year that was and teasers for upcoming plans for 2024.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, TammyJo & Peter discuss Professor Marston & the Wonder Women
Covering how to be bi and kinky in the 1930s, negotiating polyamory in the closet, and the femdom episode of Speed Buggy.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Cut to the Chaste, A Debate Over Orgasm Denial and Chastity
There is more to chastity than orgasm denial, eg psychological power dynamics, exploration of boundaries, and intimacy-building.
Pieces of Jade, Happy Christm-ASS
180 whacks!
Morgan Destera, Guest Blog - Kylie Cockwhore
Your favorite gay cockslut is a sucker of thumbs, amongst other things.
Podopheleus, 7 Powerful Insights: Exploring the Essence of France FemDom with Inanna Justice
Inanna Justice and Pod discuss France FemDom, an international three-day event celebrating female domination.
Product reviews
barefoot, The Joy Snowman- A Bestvibe Review
Tis the season to wank yourself off with a sex toy shaped like a snowman.
Sex Toy DB, This Hip Doll Fucks You Back: Sinloli Ethel 27lb “Smart” Hip Doll Review
A sex doll with a ridiculously cool superpower: she fucks back
Joanne's Reviews, Colon Balls Platinum Silicone Depth Trainer
The smallest of the four size options is not small enough for those new to anal, at roughly the size of a satsuma.
Betty's Toy Box, The Top 10 New Sex Toys of 2023. A Sexy Year in Review
The most popular toys of the past year, the newest, most innovative, and bestselling sex toys.
Princess Previews, Top 10 Sex Toys of 2023
Number one on this list and number one on Betty's list above are both on my shopping list for sure.
Erotic Fiction
Jasmine Gold, Teacher's Pet
A parent teacher conference gets smutty.
Jaime Mortimer. Bedroom Eyes 31
Maires gets buggered. Stephanie has an unusual pet name. "Scallop".
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J, The Role of Ego in BDSM: Navigating Power Dynamics with Awareness
Musings of a Switch, Female desires.
William fantasises about having the appearance and desires of a woman
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buzz Vibes, Everything you need to know about the G-Spot
This article discusses the elusive g-spot, describing its location and variations in sensitivity, offering tips on how to find and stimulate it using fingers, vibrators, or different sexual positions, and showcasing popular g-spot toys to enhance sexual experiences and intimacy with your partner.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Liz X Likes, Unlocking the Surprising Mental Health Benefits of Self-Pleasure
The mental health benefits of self-pleasure, including stress relief through oxytocin release, improved mood due to endorphins and dopamine, and better sleep regulation.
Sex Work
Lady Phoenix, 12 Months A Slave
Slave M's journey over the past year has involved intense training in serving and worshiping his Mistress, highlighting his significant progress and numerous new experiences during their sessions and outings, ultimately demonstrating the potential for a novice slave to excel under proper guidance and commitment.
Ms Sapora Knight, Erotic Devotion
Vividly describes a passionate and spiritual union between two individuals, emphasizing the intense sensations, emotional connection, and surrendering of the self to a transcendent experience of love and desire.
Sex Worker Search, Sexworkopedia
An A to Z of sex work.
Delilah Odell, Adventures In Playing For Both Teams: January 2024 Edition
An escort's experiences as a client of escorts between December 2018 and July 2023.
The perfect image thanks to Pod1213 to illustrate the sexiness that is this months collection of sex blog posts in Elust 167.
Product Reviews
Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator
Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox
The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action
The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023
I'm a big monster dildo fan. That Teufl looks amazing!
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame
What if your +1 for Christmas dinner is your polycule? Ready for Polyamory has some ideas.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship
Silken Claws on setting protocol, relation with punishment, how to set the right level of intensity, whether consent is necessary and much more when it comes to maintenance spankings.
Erotic Fiction
Red Panties and Purple Passions
Sexy story time with Ramone Quides and Jerusalem Mortimer.
Books and Movies
Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings
Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon
"A small town girl who runs into big time trouble as she takes on her roommates identity as a dominatrix to pay the bills" sounds like fun!
Sex Work
The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine
Oz, Lady Phoenix, Mina, Lousia, myself and Hellga with diverse takes on sex work and the adult industry.
Image courtesy of Vicky Vette.
Welcome to Elust 161
Happy to have a post included in Elust alongside the work of so many talented sex bloggers, blogging sex workers, erotica authors and sex toy reviewers.
Product Reviews
Funzze Remote Control Dual Stim Vibe
TOY TEST – PinkPunch PEACHU Clit Sucker
B-Vibe Trio Rechargeable Butt Plug Review
Harrow Bulb Depth Trainer From John Thomas Toys Review
4 toys. 4 great reviews. Click the links above to see which are recommended.
Erotic Fiction
Red Rose - first chapter of MIRROR SECRET MIRROR
Behind the Lens: A Tale of Intimacy and Artistry
Elust has introduced me to diverse and talented erotica authors. If you're not familiar with the genre, have a read of these. You'll be hooked.
Erotic Non Fiction
Cock Sucking - An Oral Fixation
Just a taste of the barefoot sub's skills.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Male Chastity: Everything You Need to Know
From a pinch on the thigh to a lifetime in a cock cage. Three posts demonstrating the endless possibilities of kink.
Sex Work
A Duo with Ruth and Her Habibi
Why do we Need a Search Engine for Independent Sex Worker Websites?
My post alongside a threesome with Hellga and a session with Sandra and an imaginative client.
State of the World
Is It Time to Reevaluate Our Spending on Pleasure and Entertainment?
"Sexual health and pleasure are just as important as any other aspect of our lives, and investing in quality sex toys can be a game-changer." Absolutely!
Books and Movies
Four books about non-monogamy.
Writing about Writing
Adventures in Writing: Learning Lessons from Three Regrets of my Writing Life
Mischa Eliot is a passionate author and this is a fascinating insight.
Poetry
I enjoyed the poem and love Miami. I think the poet would enjoy Haulover beach even more (A nudist beach 2km away).
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Sexy things that are really NOT that sexy!
That cake smeared screaming head is horrific.