Sex Worker Search

Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Though wise men at their end know dark is right.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few  years.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Becky gets a sissy makeover.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.

Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.

Elust 169 has it all. From a stunning image courtesy of Calea Toxic, to Wonder Woman, orgasm denial, spanking, Femdom, snowman sex toys, sex dolls, big balls, the best sex toys of 2023, self-pleasure, buggery, G- spots, and so much more.

Blogging

Ramone Quides,  Oh, What a November to Remember!

Reflections on the year that was and teasers for upcoming plans for 2024.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, TammyJo & Peter discuss Professor Marston & the Wonder Women

Covering how to be bi and kinky in the 1930s, negotiating polyamory in the closet, and the femdom episode of Speed Buggy.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cut to the Chaste, A Debate Over Orgasm Denial and Chastity

There is more to chastity than orgasm denial, eg psychological power dynamics, exploration of boundaries, and intimacy-building.

Pieces of Jade, Happy Christm-ASS

180 whacks!

Morgan Destera, Guest Blog - Kylie Cockwhore

Your favorite gay cockslut is a sucker of thumbs, amongst other things.

Podopheleus, 7 Powerful Insights: Exploring the Essence of France FemDom with Inanna Justice

Inanna Justice and Pod discuss France FemDom, an international three-day event celebrating female domination.

Product reviews

barefoot, The Joy Snowman- A Bestvibe Review

Tis the season to wank yourself off with a sex toy shaped like a snowman.

Sex Toy DB,   This Hip Doll Fucks You Back: Sinloli Ethel 27lb “Smart” Hip Doll Review

A sex doll with a ridiculously cool superpower: she fucks back

Joanne's Reviews, Colon Balls Platinum Silicone Depth Trainer

The smallest of the four size options is not small enough for those new to anal, at roughly the size of a satsuma.

Betty's Toy Box, The Top 10 New Sex Toys of 2023. A Sexy Year in Review

The most popular toys of the past year, the newest, most innovative, and bestselling sex toys.

Princess Previews, Top 10 Sex Toys of 2023

Number one on this list and number one on Betty's list above are both on my shopping list for sure.

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold, Teacher's Pet

A parent teacher conference gets smutty.

Jaime Mortimer. Bedroom Eyes 31

Maires gets buggered. Stephanie has an unusual pet name. "Scallop".

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J,  The Role of Ego in BDSM: Navigating Power Dynamics with Awareness

Musings of a Switch, Female desires.

William fantasises about having the appearance and desires of a woman

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes, Everything you need to know about the G-Spot

This article discusses the elusive g-spot, describing its location and variations in sensitivity, offering tips on how to find and stimulate it using fingers, vibrators, or different sexual positions, and showcasing popular g-spot toys to enhance sexual experiences and intimacy with your partner.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Liz X Likes, Unlocking the Surprising Mental Health Benefits of Self-Pleasure

The mental health benefits of self-pleasure, including stress relief through oxytocin release, improved mood due to endorphins and dopamine, and better sleep regulation.

Sex Work

Lady Phoenix, 12 Months A Slave

Slave M's journey over the past year has involved intense training in serving and worshiping his Mistress, highlighting his significant progress and numerous new experiences during their sessions and outings, ultimately demonstrating the potential for a novice slave to excel under proper guidance and commitment.

Ms Sapora Knight, Erotic Devotion

Vividly describes a passionate and spiritual union between two individuals, emphasizing the intense sensations, emotional connection, and surrendering of the self to a transcendent experience of love and desire.

Sex Worker Search, Sexworkopedia

An A to Z of sex work.

Delilah Odell, Adventures In Playing For Both Teams: January 2024 Edition

An escort's  experiences as a client of escorts between December 2018 and July 2023.

The perfect image thanks to Pod1213 to illustrate the sexiness that is this months collection of sex blog posts in Elust 167.

 

Product Reviews

Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator

Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox

The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action

Review: Magic Wand Micro

Midnight Menagerie Teufl

The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023

I'm a big monster dildo fan. That Teufl looks amazing!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame

Home for the Polydays

What if your +1 for Christmas dinner is your polycule? Ready for Polyamory has some ideas.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship

Silken Claws on setting protocol, relation with punishment, how to set the right level of intensity, whether consent is necessary and much more when it comes to maintenance spankings.

Erotic Fiction

Red Panties and Purple Passions

Bedroom Eyes 30

Sexy story time with Ramone Quides and Jerusalem Mortimer.

Books and Movies

Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings

Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon

"A small town girl who runs into big time trouble as she takes on her roommates identity as a dominatrix to pay the bills" sounds like fun!

Sex Work

Come to Dubai Habibi

Locktober Special

Kink: Prostate massage

On Promises

Facility X Dungeon

Censorship

The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine

Oz,  Lady Phoenix, Mina, Lousia, myself and Hellga with diverse takes on sex work and the adult industry.

Image courtesy of Vicky Vette.

Welcome to Elust 161

Happy to have a post included in Elust alongside the work of so many talented sex bloggers, blogging sex workers, erotica authors and sex toy reviewers.

Product Reviews

Funzze Remote Control Dual Stim Vibe

TOY TEST – PinkPunch PEACHU Clit Sucker

B-Vibe Trio Rechargeable Butt Plug Review

Harrow Bulb Depth Trainer From John Thomas Toys Review

4 toys. 4 great reviews. Click the links above to see which are recommended.

Erotic Fiction

Red Rose - first chapter of MIRROR SECRET MIRROR

Bound

Matthew meets Jamie

Behind the Lens: A Tale of Intimacy and Artistry

Elust has introduced me to diverse and talented erotica authors. If you're not familiar with the genre, have a read of these. You'll be hooked.

Erotic Non Fiction

Cock Sucking - An Oral Fixation

Just a taste of the barefoot sub's skills.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Why Lifestyle D/s?

In a Pinch

Male Chastity: Everything You Need to Know

From a pinch on the thigh to a lifetime in a cock cage. Three posts demonstrating the endless possibilities of kink.

Sex Work

Gangbang Fantasy

A Duo with Ruth and Her Habibi

Why do we Need a Search Engine for Independent Sex Worker Websites?

My post alongside a threesome with Hellga and a session with Sandra and an imaginative client.

State of the World

Is It Time to Reevaluate Our Spending on Pleasure and Entertainment?

"Sexual health and pleasure are just as important as any other aspect of our lives, and investing in quality sex toys can be a game-changer." Absolutely!

Books and Movies

Recent Reading

Four books about non-monogamy.

Writing about Writing

Adventures in Writing: Learning Lessons from Three Regrets of my Writing Life

Mischa Eliot is a passionate author and this is a fascinating insight.

Poetry

Miami Girl

I enjoyed the poem and love Miami. I think the poet would enjoy Haulover beach even more (A nudist beach 2km away).

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sexy things that are really NOT that sexy!

That cake smeared screaming head is horrific.