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Welcome to Elust 181

Who wouldn't follow that white rabbit? Cover image courtesy of Angelica Noi.Photography by Chris Nutt.  

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Come-In (Part 2)

There's going to be an event where hundreds of naked people will simultaneously masturbate to orgasm? Let's go!

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 5

Sensei teaches Yua, Chiaki and Asuka a lesson.

Peach Kisser, Mid-Flight Hospitality

A sapphic trip to the mile high club. Loins swimming with desire.

Simone Francis, Fetish Secretary

What's the office policy regarding inserting company property into one's orifices during business hours?

Ambyr Leigh, My Terrible Date Fucked Me Bareback In The Backseat Of His Car

That's going to leave a stain on the upholstery.

Schey Place Books, The Story So Far

The award winning adventures of story of reunited lovers, Christian and Alison.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Natalie Hepburn, Surviving a Dead Bedroom

It's pining for the fjords.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Erotism and the Transcendence of the Ego

The boundless unity of existence.

Blogging

Miss Ruby Reviews, A Decade in the Sex Toy Industry

Happy decaversary!

Erotic Non Fiction

Modesty Ablaze, Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10

The questions = What are your thoughts on foreplay? Favourite types, Best Experiences, Wishes? What parts of your lover’s body are you most drawn to? If you don’t currently have a lover, consider past or future lovers. Consider a moment in your life of great sensuality, eroticism or sexuality. Then answer the questions that Mary Oliver does in her poem “Gratitude” as they apply to that moment: If you were to recreate the early days of your favourite sexy relationship, what would they look like? Would you change anything? What would you want more of in your sex life?

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The alchemy of surrender and activation

Shiva and Shakti are at it again.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast Marchosias

Demonic

Oh Joy Sex Toy, The Uberrime Fantasy by Hien Pham

Avatar the last dildo bender.

Sydney Screams, FemmeFunn Klio Vibrator Review

A triple action rabbit style vibrator with g-spot, a-spot and clitoral stimulation.

Liz X, Beyond Ordinary Stimulation - Kiiroo ProWand with App Streaming

A wand that integrates with different online streaming sites so that lights change colour to indicate when the model receives a tip from a viewer.

Lushense, Introducing the Viballdo - The World's 1st Vibrating Ball Dildo

The evolution of ball sex.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cara Sutra, How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex

Helping to dispel multiple myths and stigma surrounding strap-on sex.

Sex Work

Lady Ava Sheridon, The Application Process; and why yours might be unsuccessful

FAQ’s

Kristina J, Authenticity and Connection: The Art of Being Real in Sex Work

Feel the realness.

Princess Kaz, Dommes – Carving Out You-Time

The importance of self care. Especially for us introverts.

Miss Kim Rub, Leather Fetishist Domme

Gotta love the smell and texture of leather.

Sex Worker Search, Are Sex Workers Welcome on Bluesky?

I hope to update this with a definitive answer if Bluesky responds.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humour

History of BDSM, “People Who Like Kinky Sex Are Just Bad In Bed”: Evie Magazine and the Raw Milkmaid Dress

This must be the most "only in America" thing of all time = Evie Magazine is a conservative women’s magazine first published in 2019. Its aesthetics and content reflect the “trad life/trad wife” movement, creating a pastoral fantasy of rural, agrarian labour combined with an idealized hetero-nuclear family. At the fringier end of things, Evie’s content splices into ideologies like pronatalism, anti-vaccination, the benefits of “raw milk” and other health quackery, transphobia, anti-feminism, COVID denial, QAnon, etc.

Welcome to Elust 180

Cover image courtesy of  Natasha Kaur.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

 

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Intersection of Sacred Sex and Kink in Tantric Philosophy

 

The role of kink within tantra.

 

Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions - 1 to 5

 

Good sex, PDAs, turn ons, wank fantasies, and porn genres.

 

For science.

 

Erotic Fiction

 

Fern River Cub, Luc sits for Asami (Part 1)
I love the concept and it's very well written. I am a bit confused about the dildo making method. Plaster? To make a mould and then the finished product is glazed ceramic? I'm not sure about the porcelain dildo. Too easy to chip or scratch the glaze. Maybe silicone in the mould would be better?

Schey Place Books, Erotica with Substance

 

A historical thriller that sizzles.
Simone Francis, Bondage Violation
Written and illustrated to kinky perfection.
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 5
Seamus' students finally get the lesson they've been eagerly anticipating. Spankings.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

 

Ramone Quides, Time to Celebrate the Holiday Season
Putting the X (rated) in Xmas.

Product Reviews

 

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast “The Serpent”
A wiggly, wobbly, demon's blood red coloured, snake skin textured dildo. Now there's a stocking filler.
Liz X, Leten Insulated Cabin Telescopic Heating Male Masturbator Review
Infrared thermal tech.
Miss Ruby Reviews, Womanizer Vibe
Ergonomic sage green vibrator.

Erotic Non Fiction

 

Kristina J, The Power Manifesto: How I Own My Life as a Sex Worker
Hear, hear.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Alchemy of Surrender and Activation
Yin yang yoni.
Femina Viva, Tripping the life fantastic: real life is wilder than any book I’ve ever read
12 suitcases.
barefoot sub, Belated Birthday Beatings
Nice marks.

Sex Work

 

Sex Worker Search, Interview with Cory Doctorow. Disenshittification of the Internet for Sex Workers
My post.
Oz Bigdownunder, A Duo with Queen Kali Rain, Makiyo and Cherry
Beta boy gets disciplined in quadruplicate.
Hellga, An Offering to Aphrodite. A Duo with Maîtresse Nuit and Oz
The Goddess of love, harmony and unity. She also approves of floggings and anal sex.

Books and Movies

 

History of BDSM, Sanctuary (2022): The Celluloid Dungeon
A movie about the power dynamics of a relationship between a Pro Domme and her client who is a CEO.

Welcome to Elust 179

Cover image courtesy of  Countess Diamond.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

LDRBJFTW long distance relationship blowjobs for the win!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

This is all completely lost on me I'm afraid. Each to their own, anyone who enjoys tantra, that's great. Personally I like my sex profane and with an absence of mumbo jumbo.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lucy gets an earful.

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

A mysterious stranger story. This is fun. The contents of my inbox are a lot less cryptic.

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

I love a good cuckolding scenario.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Beastly bivius.

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Gigreesque!

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Techy.

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

I one bookmarked an ovipositor toy from Sinnovator since it looked awesome. Never got around to buying one. One day. But the bookmark found it's way into my bookmarks toolbar so now every time I glance at that part of my screen, I get delightful mental images. So there it stays.

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Will have you yodelling for the fjords.

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Written by the same author as the other tantra article? It has some very similar phrases eg about tantra being misunderstood in the west as purely sexual.

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire - 10 Years Of Submission

A sub exposed and naked stands before two fearsome Mistresses.

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

barefoot roped up and drooling. That's hot!

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

If you're meeting with a sex worker, just enjoy the session for what it is. Please don't "fall in love". You're meeting a professional who's providing a service and to the best of their ability creating the exact scene that's perfect for you. They're not being themselves, they're being an illusion of what you need them to be in that moment. Many of us love our work. I do. I care about my clients. A lot. But there is no Oz to fall in love with. Oz is a service I provide when I'm working. When the hour is up, Oz no longer exists. The Oz who appears for the next client is a different Oz depending on what that client needs Oz to be.

Sex Work

Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication

Essential reading.

Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work

This is really well written and makes a lot of excellent points. An optimistic look at the future of sex work.

Elizabeth, Torture Goddess

Elizabeth's writing is evocative as always.

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed

My post.

Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu

Yallah.

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel

Crafty.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins

NRE, new relationship energy. But without any LDRBJFTW.

Welcome to Elust 178

This month's best and sexiest blog posts featuring a beautiful cover image courtesy of Anais Leigh.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts

William's thoughts on online videos.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening

Exploring deeper intimacy through meditative practices.

The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide

Wanking 101.

Betty's Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try

Tempted to try them all right here, right now in Joe and the Juice.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Civility counts.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner

Sexplosive.

Little Red Spanking, The Lover’s Spat: A Paddle Story

Nothing better than the sound effects of a really good paddling.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything

i horny robot.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3

Seamus gets his hands on a rattan cane.

Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow

She got a real pretty mouth, ain't she?

Jasmine Gold, A Nun's Humiliation

Ginny sells her soul to the devil.

Product Reviews

Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn't Know Existed (2024)

A roundup of standout devices for male-focused enjoyment.

Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo's Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker

We don't have flying cars yet but we do have this.

Sex Work

Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You

Magnifique!

Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices

From a top Pro Domme.

Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory

My post.

Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker

A new Pro Domme thinking about rates.

Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz

Terrific threesome.

Nuit d'Or, Self-care For Dominants

Excellent advice from an experienced BDSM coach and mentor.

Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave

Sissygsms.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Special guest appearance from Freddy Krueger.

Poetry

Simone Francis, Watch Me

Photo illustrated.

The cover image for Elust 177 is courtesy of Vivienne Black and what an image it is!

 

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn't a Crowd

Three is the magic number.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop's Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Two powerhouses come together over bubbly.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Spicing things up in the kitchen to elevate the aftertaste.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Know Thyself, Know Your Partner

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

A kink scene institution relocates.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

A look behind the curtain of a profession often unseen and misunderstood.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

A magical blend of fantasy and desire takes roleplay to a whole new level.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

My post. Navigating the fine print of online privacy.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Some local favourite play spaces and a few new ones.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 2

I predict that someone's going to get taught a lesson in the next chapter or two.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

This jewelled delight promises to make your toy chest sparkle.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure - Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

A surprise twist on glass that will definitely catch your attention!

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

A sex toy breakpoint test.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Elevating intimacy one boundary at a time.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

Bon voyage barefoot!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

How exploring meditation can bring a new rhythm to intimacy.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Making time for playtime in long-term femdom.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

Creative ways to reignite the romantic flame.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

A love story that might just be your next romantic obsession.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Two things I certainly love. Sex and Sci-Fi.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

And Japan.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

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