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Welcome to Elust 188

 

Cover image courtesy of Sasha Carter. Sasha is a London-based high-end escort, travel companion and Sunroom content creator.

Erotic Non-Fiction

Morgan Destera, After 10 Months

Making up for lost time.

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Alchemy of Touch: Re-Sacralising Sensuality in a Desensitised World through Tantric Praxis

Tantra does not offer an escape from the world. It offers a plunge into its depths.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei: Prologue - 14

If the building supervisor calls and sees a seemingly lifeless human shaped outline under a blanket, he's running out of there and alerting the authorities.

Schey Place Books, Interview with the Eroticist

Stories of Embarrassed Naked Women.

Phoebe Pearl, Teased Desires: A Sissy Cuckold Short Story

Her husband, in his ridiculous pink dress and white-lace stockings, knelt at the foot of the mattress, clutching his chastity cage.

B.R.Saiph, Packing For Splash Mocha: A Cuck’s Viewpoint

I'm peggin', peggin' you oo oo So put your loving hand out, baby.

Sinclair Sexsmith, Did I Say You Could Touch Me?

Beautiful writing as always from Sugarbutch. Shows that D/s dynamics come in all shapes and sizes. He who is doing the penetrating is very much the s in this. I am curious what the something bigger was. He's inside her so a cock sleeve? But he's crushed against the base of it so a strap-on? Or maybe DV with small cock and big strap-on until he cums and goes soft and then his little soft cock is just squashed under the base of the strap-on. The latter is my interpretation. See what you think.

Liz X, Sip of Shimmering Shadows - Warlock's Enchanted Desire - Bimbofication Erotica

Vaelgor and Aenara in a frisky romantasy.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Dayna McAlpine, A UK Boomer, Gen X, Millenial and Gen Z Man On Sex In 2025

I've just finished reading Men in Love by Irvine Welsh. A sequel to Trainspotting. I enjoyed it and the themes are similar to this article. Although, maybe don't take sex and relationship advice from Sick Boy, or Spud, or Begbie.

Riz Ward, Top 20 Couch Sex Positions To Spice Up Your Sex Life 

Ah, the old falling asleep with your hand inside a bag of doritos position. A classic.

Pleasure Me Now, Wear It, Lick It, Taste It: Delectable Flavors of Edible Underwear

Usually not a fan of food and or drink involved in sex with a few notable exceptions eg Tosca- Honey, and of course Salma Hayek pouring tequila down her leg into Quentin Tarantino's mouth.

Product Reviews

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Strap-On Review

You could certainly assert dominance in the queue at the post office packing 9 inches of silicone heat.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Tryst AMA Ask Me Anything Interview on Reddit

Tryst's wait time for approving new accounts is down from 43 days at the time of the AMA to 23 days today. Still way too slow but it's progress.

Ulla Burns, The Psychology of the Lost Boy: Why Some Men Need the Mommie Domme to Feel Whole Again

Part I of The Maternal Mindfuck Series.

Noa Aliya, How to Treat Noa with Respect and Class

Demonstrate respect, maintain a polished appearance, heed boundaries, communicate with class and you'll get the full experience.

Elvee Payne, Airport Shanan

Shenannigans?

Sandra, Foot Fetish. Lick Between My Toes

Pungent aromas.

Hellga, Russian Cock. Я обожаю захлёбываться русским хером

Da.

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The Marburger list: BDSM in film and television, pre-1975

Oldskool kinky kool.

State of the World

Girl on the Net, Age verification: what’s the harm?

OSA is possibly the stupidest most Orwellian thing ever invented.

Sex News

Auntie Vice, Top Ethical Sex-Toy Shops

For USA. If you're in UK, Regulation is good. And Godemiche. 1st Sunday of every month in London is LAM. London Alternative Market.

Welcome to Elust 179

Cover image courtesy of  Countess Diamond.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

LDRBJFTW long distance relationship blowjobs for the win!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

This is all completely lost on me I'm afraid. Each to their own, anyone who enjoys tantra, that's great. Personally I like my sex profane and with an absence of mumbo jumbo.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lucy gets an earful.

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

A mysterious stranger story. This is fun. The contents of my inbox are a lot less cryptic.

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

I love a good cuckolding scenario.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Beastly bivius.

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Gigreesque!

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Techy.

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

I one bookmarked an ovipositor toy from Sinnovator since it looked awesome. Never got around to buying one. One day. But the bookmark found it's way into my bookmarks toolbar so now every time I glance at that part of my screen, I get delightful mental images. So there it stays.

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Will have you yodelling for the fjords.

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Written by the same author as the other tantra article? It has some very similar phrases eg about tantra being misunderstood in the west as purely sexual.

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire - 10 Years Of Submission

A sub exposed and naked stands before two fearsome Mistresses.

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

barefoot roped up and drooling. That's hot!

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

If you're meeting with a sex worker, just enjoy the session for what it is. Please don't "fall in love". You're meeting a professional who's providing a service and to the best of their ability creating the exact scene that's perfect for you. They're not being themselves, they're being an illusion of what you need them to be in that moment. Many of us love our work. I do. I care about my clients. A lot. But there is no Oz to fall in love with. Oz is a service I provide when I'm working. When the hour is up, Oz no longer exists. The Oz who appears for the next client is a different Oz depending on what that client needs Oz to be.

Sex Work

Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication

Essential reading.

Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work

This is really well written and makes a lot of excellent points. An optimistic look at the future of sex work.

Elizabeth, Torture Goddess

Elizabeth's writing is evocative as always.

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed

My post.

Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu

Yallah.

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel

Crafty.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins

NRE, new relationship energy. But without any LDRBJFTW.

The cover image for Elust 177 is courtesy of Vivienne Black and what an image it is!

 

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn't a Crowd

Three is the magic number.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop's Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Two powerhouses come together over bubbly.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Spicing things up in the kitchen to elevate the aftertaste.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Know Thyself, Know Your Partner

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

A kink scene institution relocates.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

A look behind the curtain of a profession often unseen and misunderstood.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

A magical blend of fantasy and desire takes roleplay to a whole new level.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

My post. Navigating the fine print of online privacy.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Some local favourite play spaces and a few new ones.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 2

I predict that someone's going to get taught a lesson in the next chapter or two.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

This jewelled delight promises to make your toy chest sparkle.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure - Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

A surprise twist on glass that will definitely catch your attention!

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

A sex toy breakpoint test.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Elevating intimacy one boundary at a time.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

Bon voyage barefoot!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

How exploring meditation can bring a new rhythm to intimacy.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Making time for playtime in long-term femdom.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

Creative ways to reignite the romantic flame.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

A love story that might just be your next romantic obsession.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Two things I certainly love. Sex and Sci-Fi.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

And Japan.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

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The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.

The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:

A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.

Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:

Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:

Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.

Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:

Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.

Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:

A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.

Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:

A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.

Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:

Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.

Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:

Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.

Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:

An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.

Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:

Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.

Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:

Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.

Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:

Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:

A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.

Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:

Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.

Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:

Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.

Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:

A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.

Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:

A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.

Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:

An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.

The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:

A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.