Tag: Buzzvibes

Welcome to Elust 197

Cover image courtesy of Melanie Rosalee.

My online and offline sex worker site post features in Elust 197 and I think sending in posts to be included in Elust editions, re-posting Elust, and getting new backlinks from other people who re-post Elust is a brilliant way to work on SEO and work towards better search ranking.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Her Empire, How to Rebuild Intimacy in Long Term Relationships

Relationships take work. If that doesn't work, sex workers.

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Subtle Body as Political Territory: Tantra, Bio-Power, and the Liberation of Sensation

If it's prāṇa that powers Rafaello's word count, I need more prāṇa.

Femina Viva, Spirituality and Sexuality: Two Sides of the Same Coin?

You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometime you'll find you get what you need.

Erotic Non Fiction

Morgan Destera, Self Perception and Acceptance

Big is beautiful.

Sex Work

Cassandra Eden, The Mirror of Aphrodite: Confession of a Devotee of Love

Praise her.

Sex Worker Search, Comparison of Online vs Offline Sex Worker Websites

My data porn.

Oz Bigdownunder, Mistress Harriet, Mistress Vanessa Sin, sissy and Oz

A chateau of carnality.

Hellga, Group Sessions eg Cuckolding, Stag/Vixen and Voyeurism

Horny.

Sandra, The Brat Bat

Over the knee.

Milady, Ménage à trois in Paris with Sophie

Tres bien.

Adam Black, Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort

Suite.

State of the World

Fapspins, How Webcam Sites Really Charge You (Tokens, Tips & Real Costs)

I tried spinning their webcam wheel a few times out of curiosity. It sent me to random webcam sites I'd never heard of but then I have no way of knowing whether I'm looking at an actual webcam, or a pre-recorded video, or AI generated clip, or stolen content, or if any of the models are getting paid.

Sugarbutch, Twenty Years of Sugarbutch

and about 20 years of Sugarbutch on Elust too.

Product reviews

Liz Black X, Best G-Spot Vibrator? SVibe Axi Review for Beginners or Pros

From the makers of the snail vibe.

Buzzvibes, Vibrator Types Explained: Bullet vs Wand vs Suction (Pros & Cons)

Try before you buy. Visit a sex worker who owns all three types of toy and see which works best for you!

Sex Toy DB, Cowgirl Unicorn Review: The Ride-On Sex Machine Is Everything I Hoped For

Giddy up.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Dominatrixes in video games: The Celluloid Dungeon

Bayonetta rule 34 gifs often depicted as a futanari.

Erotic Fiction

Cuckold Stories, [43M] Locked in lace : I am now a sissy cuck to my wife

The evolution of the sissy cuck.

Sex News

Horny Chat, How to get Stripchat Tokens at no cost ? (2026 methods)

Like I said for the other cam link, how do you know if any of the live webcam models are live, or on webcam, or if they're getting paid? Search for "stripchat" on reddit and it's all models saying don't bother, not enough traffic, and clients saying, the "models" are all stolen content clips and AI bots. If you want a webcam session, why not contact a sex worker who has their own personal website, who is active on socials, who has an extensive web presence and is therefore unlikely to be fake and pay them directly for a webcam session so they don't have to give commission to a cam site?

Welcome to Elust 189

Cover image courtesy of Venus Fantasy.

Pole may be slippery when wet.

Sex Work

Elizabeth of London, Sex in Selfridges

I tried it on but it was a bit tight.

Charli, Your Deposit, Your Provider, and You

Do your research, pay deposits to genuine providers, not to scammers.

Jack Parker, How to Discuss Sex Work with Friends and Family

In my case, don't, but if you did, excellent advice to follow here.

Hellga, One More Night in Paris

C’est sexy. Tres sexy. It's fine written down but when I try to speak romance languages romantically, I sound like Brad Pitt in Inglorious Basterds.

Sandra, Hide and Seek in a Hotel Lobby & Hardcore Fucking in a Hotel Room

Only a ballerina would attempt to do anything involving walking, let alone running, in Louboutins.

Oz Bigdownunder, Mrs Robinson. MMF Duo with an Elegant English Mistress

Hard day at the office.

Sex Worker Search, How to Suck Like a Porn-Star

Sloppily.

Erotic Fiction

Mx Valentina, The Making of a Puppy

Woof.

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 15

Sensei has spent the last 14 chapters fucking his students, that school is going to fire him so hard when he does eventually go back to work.

Blogging

Morgan Destera, Announcement

I'm happy to hear Morgan will still be posting.

Liz X, Evolving Desires - My Journey from Soft Surrender to Darker Depths in Erotica

Extreme bimbofication.

Erotic Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Renewal of Desire: Sustaining Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

Tantra is not a distant, esoteric discipline but a living pedagogy capable of transforming relational life. My lingam throbs when you talk pedagogical to me.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Sexual Wellness Professional Alliance, The Best Sexual Wellness Workshops and Certification Programs

Well, well, well.

Femina Viva, Owning my demons

The horsies.

Product Reviews

Miss Ruby Reviews, We-Vibe Melt 2

A pressure wave clitoral suction toy.

Lushense, CockBlock - The Best Gay Sex Toy From Another Universe

Let’s answer the question every curious astronaut might ask: what is frotting?

Pleasure Me Now, We-Vibe Jive Review: Meet Your New Favorite Egg Vibrator!

What came first? The chicken or the egg?

Ramone Quides, A Most Tantalizing Kurve

The + and - are designed to be recognisable by touch. That's cool! Brail for buzz my clit harder. Or softer.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzzvibes, 5 Red Flags Your Sex Life Is Heading for a Snooze Fest

Maybe your love life's D.O.A. It's like you're always stuck in second gear When it hasn't been your day, your week
Your month, or even your year, but I'll be there for you.

Welcome to Elust 185

Cover image courtesy of Ellie Stockholm. If you like Ellie's content, please vote here = AltStar Awards 2025 Vote: Best Premium Social Media Star.

Elizabeth of London, MMF & FFM

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Not a Love Story (1981): The Celluloid Dungeon

Frank Noir, Favourite porn #9: Paul Thomas

State of the World

Femina Viva, What do we do with fake allies or do they just not know any better?

Erotic Non-Fiction

Kristina J, Reflecting on My Sexual Conditioning: Unraveling the Messages I Grew Up With

Mx Valentina, Simple is beautiful: the joys of a barehanded spanking

Writing About Writing

Ramone Quides, Framing For a Better 2025

Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions.

Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too.

I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that =

Sex Work

The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1

The bane of every sex worker's existence. The time wasters.

Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers

I'd like to say I have a love hate relationship with twitter but to be honest, I have no love for Twitter at all and can't even be bothered hating it any more after all the shadowbanning. Best I can do is barely tolerate Twitter to the extent of maintaining the kind of presence on there that's expected of a SW.

Sandra Vitamin S

Sandra, TS Ama and Mistress Volga get silky.

Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama

Ama again! She's everywhere. This time with Oz and Mistress Chatterley.

Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans

I don't see why Twitter can't just have an NSFW on, NSFW off button and then advertisers can decide whether they want their ads to appear next to NSFW content or not. As opposed to rewarding SWs for all our hard work providing free content, without which Twitter would die, with sneaky backstabby shadowbans.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Funzze What's the BEST Material for Adult Toys?

Silicone is a personal favourite but I just recently received a stainless steel anal dildo from Funzze to review. I love it. Review coming soon.

Musings of a Switch The Early Days

William Wallace reminisces.

Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender

It's as if time itself has slowed down, each second stretched to its limits as we linger on the precipice of pleasure, suspended in the delicious agony of anticipation.

Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine

And puppy gets a leash and collar.

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold The Unicorn

The mythical beast with three backs.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33

+1 the Chemical Brothers.

FYHO The Polaroid

It's a Kodak moment

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)

Beautiful pic and post. Shirley Manson would approve.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting

Wet and wild. Never heard it called a platinum shower before. That's awesome.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review

An ergonomic wand for people with accessibility needs.

Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder

Love the colours and design. Gigeresque.

Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo

That's a tentacular tentacle. My tentacle dildo is more of the squishy variety so a more rigid one would come in handy.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)

Even if you've never seen the movie and have no intention of seeing it, I still recommend watching this video review just to hear two highly experienced and knowledgeable kink historians chatting.