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Welcome to Elust 190

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A bubbling cauldron of austenitic sex blog posts will put the shakti in your vajrayana.

Sex & Relationships

Morgan Destera, Ten Years!

The trip mentioned in this post is recounted in detail in the latest post on Morgan's blog. Check it out!

Sex Toy DB, So You’ve Bought a Sex Machine … Now What?

X2 the plumbers pipe clamps recommendation to fix your sex machine in place. When I had my f machine clamped to the bed frame, that thing was a beast.

Lushense, How To Choose The Best Lubricant For Your Intimate Moments

Silicone lube with metal or glass toys is a good shout. Just take care not to get it on fabric. It's not easy to wash out.

Betty's Toy Box, The Smart Guide to Penis Extensions for Couples

Detachable penis.

Kink & Fetish

Mx Valentina, A Man isn't Whole without a Woman to Serve

The fortunate few are allowed to serve a sex witch.

Erotica

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 16

That student has spent 16 chapters getting penetrated by Sensei. She's going to get home from school 16 days late, walking like John Wayne.

Sugarbutch, You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out

And take it they do.

Liz Black X, Lumiis Glow - Sasha's Bimbo Bliss Fiction

Bimbotastic.

Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Erotic Body as Cosmic Mirror: Tantric Rituals of Union and the Politics of Liberation

My vajrayana is overflowing with shakti.

Hannah McKnight, He’s Wearing a Skirt…

If the femme clothes fits.

Sex Work

Elizabeth of London, Athens

The pathos of getting a boner in public in speedos that just won't go away.

Fox Digital, How to Attract Wealthy Clients in an Oversaturated Market

Does it really matter how affluent they are? £300 is £300, I don't care if it's handed to me by a billionaire or a barista.

The Siren Domme, Five Archetypes of a Dom/me (and Why You Don’t Have to Pick Just One)

Whenever I see emdashes, I copy and paste the article into grammarly to see how much of it is AI generated. Only 8% in this case which is a relief. It would be a bit scary if something this well written, accurately describing various Domme archetypes was 100% chat gpt. I suspect what the author, and many of us (myself included) has done, is drafted notes, typed up the ideas, and then used Gen AI for fine tuning and formatting the post for SEO optimisation.

Sex Worker Search, Payment Portal Pre-Release Invite

Give it a try. I think this, or something very like it, will be the future for sex workers. I can't wait to see how we can benefit from receiving payments directly via a widget on our own personal websites and see hypocrites like onlyfans that take 30% + of our hard earned profits whilst providing effectively no value and doing nothing for our community, take a massive financial hit as we all leave their platform.

Hellga, Conor's Craic. My Upcoming Tour of Dublin, Ireland

Top of the morning to you.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Pillion (2025): The Celluloid Dungeon

I'd ride his hog any day.

Writing About Writing

Oxy Shop, Femdom Fiction: How Erotic Stories Spark Real-Life Submission

More emdashes. Grammarly says this one is close to 100% AI generated. The subject matter is interesting. The content is informative. The formatting is impeccable. Look at how all the sentences are almost the exact same length and the paragraphs all have almost the exact same number of sentences. It's like a ChatGPT haiku of SEO optimised text blocks.

Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes

No emdashes. Compare and contrast. Varying character count of sentences and paragraphs, first person perspective, personal opinions and anecdotes, a lot less structured, no subheadings. Grammarly says it's zero percent AI. It does look like it's been deliberately SEO optimised so the author is probably following the guidance of the Yoast plug in or similar. I use Yoast too. It is good for search ranking but the reason it's good for search ranking is because Google is giving us better rankings in exchange for making content that's easier for it's AI to parse and then extracting our ideas, without crediting us, to generate it's own AI mode responses which appear above search results. So it's tricking us into agreeing to a Faustian bargain where we are working to help Google render ourselves obsolete. But that's progress. I'm not anti AI but I do think things like what I describe above are taking the piss.

Product Reviews

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Three Bead Stainless Steel Butt Plug Review

Austenitic.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Femina Viva, Is Learning How to Receive My Waterloo?

Waterloo? That's between Southwark and Westminster on the Jubilee line, innit?

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Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis, Goldilocks – A Supernatural BDSM Horror Story

Ramone Quides, Queenie and Little Dick, Part 1: Reticence

Kristina J, Captivated and Caught: Kristina J.‘s Seductive Revenge

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 1

Product Reviews

Liz X Likes, The Future of Pleasure is Here: A Comprehensive Review of the Keon Automatic Masturbator

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Dildo with a Twist

Princess Previews, N Joy Disco

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Glass Toys

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Fist and Furious: The Ins and Outs of Anal Fisting

barefoot sub, Ageing, By Barefoot

Buzzing Babe, Buying Amazon Sex Toys the Smart Way

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Adult SEO. An Interview with Maverank

Lady Ava, Why Am I a Dominatrix?

Hellga, Showers of Gold: A Duo with Christine Love and Mr. E

Sandra, The Ouroboros. Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session

Erotic Non Fiction

Beyond Non-Binary, Baby steps for a baby domme learning her new profession

Lilly in Distress, Slave Spa

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty's Toy Box, Mastering the Art of Nipple Clamps

Hannah McKnight, Saturday Night’s Alright for Kinkiness

Books and Movies

LA Jayne, Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal

Elust 176 Eddy

The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.

The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:

A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.

Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:

Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:

Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.

Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:

Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.

Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:

A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.

Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:

A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.

Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:

Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.

Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:

Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.

Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:

An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.

Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:

Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.

Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:

Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.

Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:

Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:

A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.

Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:

Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.

Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:

Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.

Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:

A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.

Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:

A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.

Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:

An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.

The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:

A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.

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Erotic Fiction

Ramone Quides Eggs and Cream

Carbonara for breakfast. Why not?

For Your Heart Only The Shower

Wetter than a fishes wet bits.

Jasmine Gold Turnabout is Fair Play

Sexy switchy erotica.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 35

The penultimate.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Carrie Young The Joys of Erotic Humiliation

Compelling subject matter and very well written.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search How to Build a Website

My post.

The Disorderly House How To Be An Escort The Right Way & Have A Thrilling Career

Hmm. Some good tips in there but some misinformation too. Would have been better with some input from sex workers.

The Silky Masseuse Mastering the Art of Boundaries: A Pleasure Provider’s Guide

There's some science to setting boundaries and the skill can be refined to the point of an art form with experience. This article is an excellent place to start.

Beyond Non Binary Being a client with a professional sex worker, and the inherent balance of power

I like this. What a dreamy client!

Oz Bigdownunder Sexual Equanimity by Podopheleus

Oz reviews Pod.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Orgasm Monster Pro

Looks like a cattle prod but will it make you Moo?

the barefoot sub The (Bestvibe) Phoenix Rises: Thrusting Vibe

A dildo eternal.

Tiger Lily Kiiroo PowerBlow Review: The Ultimate Blowjob Simulator

Suckbot.

Sydney Screams NS Novelties Inya Grinder Vibrating Grind Pad Review

Hands free humping.

Betty's Toy Box Squirting Fantasy Dildos : Centaur and Phoenix Are Ready for Your Next Role Play

They're ready but are you ready for 200ml of monster semen?

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

N Likes I don't really like fucking

Neither do I. I love it.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

LA Jayne The Origin of Pain

This is going to hurt.

Girl on the Net Sensitivity Training: Sexual Feedback for Shy People

Am shy. Can confirm.

State of the World

Hannah McKnight Everybody Knows

A positive experience going out en Femme.

Erotic Non-Fiction

The Big Gay Review Sexy Thoughts #20: Reflection 

Nothing like a nice relaxing wank in the shower to destress after a long day.