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Elust 174 fishnets the catch of the day of the sexiest blog posts on the web. Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina's Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips. I'm in awe of Catalina's website and overall web presence. Fingers crossed Epoch, the company that provides credit card processing facilities for her site might work with me too. I've sent them an email.

Erotic Non Fiction

Voyageur Maggie and Paul

A complicated affair.

Kristina J Kink and Fetish

Encyclopaedic.

Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery

BRB SRS.

Erotic Fiction

barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences

Most enjoyable chastity erotica. I love the idea of downsizing the cage!

FYHO Her Boys

Bizarre love square.

Jasmine Gold A Submissive's First Threesome

Site seems to be offline.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End

Stephanie, Maires and Master have been engaged in a 36 day non stop sex marathon in a sharehouse. In consideration of their flatmates, who probably bought earplugs on day 1 and may have been considering hosing the loving throuple down with a fire extinguisher by day 36, they decide not to have a threesome in the shared kitchen and discuss getting their own house together.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo

Ooh, shiny! A toy for stimulating the G spot or prostate.

Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O

Whisper quiet, versatile and rumbly. I like the idea of the O ring for grip.

Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review

That's an impressive looking stallion cock. Especially with the addition of the syringe for squirting fake cum out of it.

Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison

A mini herd of adorable clit sucking unicorns.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine

Vote for your favourite in the comments.

Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare

Really important for sub and Dom.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships

Who'd have imagined in the 80s, when the variety of porn available to me was magazines and vhs tapes, what porn would be like in 2024. No post scarcity utopia, inter galactic space travel or true AI yet but we do have lots of genres of porn to choose from.

Betty's Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms

Recommended positions to get the perfect angle and constant, firm stimulation.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)

The one about the sharks in Paris looks like fun.

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune

A karaoke ode to a kinky threesome.

Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?

My latest.

Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow

Glaswegian shennanigans.

Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

That looks like the Kowloon Ladies Market. I found some treasures there. I still often wear a t-shirt I bought there 10 years ago that cost about £5 but is somehow made from indestructible fabric and shows almost no signs of wear after a decade.

Life's a Beach and this month in Elust 172, all the most talented sex bloggers on the net are here to share their posts. Cover image courtesy of Victoria CMT makes me wish I was somewhere warm and sunny playing in the sand right now.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Girl On The Net Practical sex tips: blankets, playlists and banishing shame!

What's your favourite sex playlist? I like this one. It's mostly deep house so it's got enough rhythm to keep things moving without being too frenetic and there are some lyrics but nothing too distracting.

Spices of Lust How To Use A Hismith Sex Machine (Solo + Couples)

Highly recommended. If you're not sure, you can always rent a pay per hour dungeon space that has one and try before you buy.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search E-Commerce for Sex Workers

An update to this post. CCbill replied. They said no.

Tulsi Tamora Is it normal to feel nervous when seeing a companion?

It's very normal to feel nervous before meeting with a companion who you're seeing for the first time. If that companion is as experienced and talented as Tulsi, you won't be feeling nervous for long once you've met.

Darla Blake From the bizarre to the banal, here’s some things you might not know about me!

Getting to know a very sexy sex worker.

The Silky Masseuse Setting Good Financial Boundaries

One more. Don't get a credit card. If you have credit cards, pay them off and then cancel them. I used to work for a bank. Credit cards are great. If you're a bank. Otherwise they're terrible. They're designed to make bankers richer and bank customers poorer. The idea is to encourage you to spend as much money as possible, as thoughtlessly as possible, and then ruin your life with interest repayments. Use a debit card instead. If your credit card debt is already out of control, here's some advice.

The Lady Phoenix The Boss Calls the Shots

Cocky Chris gets taken down a peg or two.

Catherine Schneider Hentai BDSM

If you're unfamiliar with the genre, you're in for a treat! There's a lot of free Hentai out there but if you find a Doujin artist you like, please consider commissioning some custom content or subscribing to their Patreon.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera Toy Test - Funzze.com Vibrating Anal Beads

11 inches of silicone anal beads.

Liz Black X Review of the Hermosa: A High-Quality Torso Sex Doll for Men by XTorso.com

Compact, Beautiful, and Functional.

Oz Bigdownunder Silver Surfer. Funzze Double-ended Stainless Steel Dildo Review

1. Aliens. 2. The Hunt for Red October. 3. Evil Dead. 4. Austin Powers. 5. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. 6. Full Metal Jacket. 7. Borat. 8. Bladerunner. 9. Fight Club. 10. The Big Lebowsky. BRB off to watch a 20 hour movie marathon of all of the above.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J Exploring the Depths of Mindful Intimacy: A Guide to Enriched Connections

It's a journey. Or a space. Or a pillar.

Beyond Nonbinary Finding my Womanhood as I Bleed

A unique perspective on a sex change operation.

Charli and Margeaux How To Eat My Pussy

Just listen.

The Disorderly House Men Sharing Their Wives

Between consenting adults, if everyone involved is into it, why not?

Musings of a Switch Sexually Daring

William Wallace in a vulnerable position.

Erotic Fiction

Well Written Smut Co. This is Our Life

A short story in which old friends reunite for an orgy.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 34

An unstable table.

Fern River Van reminisces

Sweet dreams are made of throbbing shafts.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Super Smash Cache 3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts

A pro domme works in men's mental health. True that.

Blogging

the barefoot sub Airport Exposure With SWL

Few places could be trickier to find a moment out of view of passers-by and CCTV than an airport. barefoot sub rises to the challenge.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Three Years In and Loving Life

An interesting glimpse into a writer's reasons for writing. I recommend Ramone's Canvas Rebel interview too.

Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions.

Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too.

I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that =

Sex Work

The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1

The bane of every sex worker's existence. The time wasters.

Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers

I'd like to say I have a love hate relationship with twitter but to be honest, I have no love for Twitter at all and can't even be bothered hating it any more after all the shadowbanning. Best I can do is barely tolerate Twitter to the extent of maintaining the kind of presence on there that's expected of a SW.

Sandra Vitamin S

Sandra, TS Ama and Mistress Volga get silky.

Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama

Ama again! She's everywhere. This time with Oz and Mistress Chatterley.

Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans

I don't see why Twitter can't just have an NSFW on, NSFW off button and then advertisers can decide whether they want their ads to appear next to NSFW content or not. As opposed to rewarding SWs for all our hard work providing free content, without which Twitter would die, with sneaky backstabby shadowbans.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Funzze What's the BEST Material for Adult Toys?

Silicone is a personal favourite but I just recently received a stainless steel anal dildo from Funzze to review. I love it. Review coming soon.

Musings of a Switch The Early Days

William Wallace reminisces.

Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender

It's as if time itself has slowed down, each second stretched to its limits as we linger on the precipice of pleasure, suspended in the delicious agony of anticipation.

Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine

And puppy gets a leash and collar.

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold The Unicorn

The mythical beast with three backs.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33

+1 the Chemical Brothers.

FYHO The Polaroid

It's a Kodak moment

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)

Beautiful pic and post. Shirley Manson would approve.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting

Wet and wild. Never heard it called a platinum shower before. That's awesome.

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review

An ergonomic wand for people with accessibility needs.

Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder

Love the colours and design. Gigeresque.

Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo

That's a tentacular tentacle. My tentacle dildo is more of the squishy variety so a more rigid one would come in handy.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)

Even if you've never seen the movie and have no intention of seeing it, I still recommend watching this video review just to hear two highly experienced and knowledgeable kink historians chatting.

 

Once again, it's an honour to have my Clientopedia blog post featured alongside the writings of so many talented sex bloggers. Beautiful cover image this month courtesy of Jo Koss.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

You had me at Roman Slave Market! Possibly not the most politically correct screenplay ever written but it was the 1930s.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

That cum isn't going to wipe itself up. Might as well use his tongue.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

Maires and Master discuss what to do with their slave, Scallop. They settle on using her for a tray table.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Imperfect, genuinely interesting characters in a realistic setting with real chemistry in short story that builds a lot of atmosphere. This is really impressively well written. And the investment manager has magic fingers.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

I learned something new. It's possible to have an orgasm from running! And other forms of exercise. They're called coregasms. Awesome!

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Though wise men at their end know dark is right.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

From now on whenever anyone asks me what GFE is, I'm sending them this link. The definitive answer.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

The most important thing in the bedroom is not what happens between your legs but what happens between your ears.

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

An electro play butt plug purchased with a gift card won as one of the prizes from last months Elust.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

How to have the perfect threesome with an escort.

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Yes. But it seems like if you're not facing directly into the camera, a high level of blur is used and/or your face isn't evenly lit so there are uneven shadows and highlights, the deblur won't work that well. Yet. Wait and see where this tech is in a few  years.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Becky gets a sissy makeover.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

I subscribed. It's a fascinating subject and there really is very little information available about how to be a professional submissive.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

An M F TS threesome, latex fetish, cross dressing and anal play. My kind of first date.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

A hardcore fucking machine DP session with a sequel yet to be published set in a sex dungeon.

Oz Valentine's Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Roses and chocolates are overrated. Book an escort or two for a Valentine's day treat!

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

My post with all the answers for clients curious about how to safely arrange an appointment with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Beautiful pic. I'd love to see the transwoman version.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone reaches to his muses for inspiration.

The September edition, Elust 166, is jam packed with sexy blog posts for your reading pleasure.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles

Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Super Smash Cache and Silken claws on how to handle male subs and when chastity isn't all that respectively.

Erotic Non Fiction

Take A Look At Yourself

The barefoot sub sees a sexy sight in the mirror.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man

Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend

Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple

Beyond Non-binary, Betty's Toy Box and Joan Price have changes to the libido, a way to use toys to stimulate the vulva just inside the vaginal opening and sexiness for sexagenarians.

Product Reviews

The Basilisk

Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer

Sexy Toys reviewed on the blogs of Musings of a switch and Liz X Likes.

Erotic Fiction

The Gym

Steph's Surprise

Dare

The Bradley Shower Pole

FYHO, Voyageur, Dr Girlfriend and Sinclair Sexsmith with the best erotica on the net this month.

Writing about writing

Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit

Ramone Quides gives thanks to writers and writers groups who helped motivate him this month.

Sex Work

Bring Your Fantasies to Life

The Perfect Enquiry

Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie

Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition

MMF Duo with Oz Bigdownunder

Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin

Charlie Rose, Meet the Minx, Oz, Sandra and Hellga share their writing on different aspects of sex work. Fantasies, how to get in contact, a cuckolding duo, fighting for the rights and freedoms of the adult industry, bisexual MMF and Femdom FMTY.

Elust 164 Cover Image is courtesy of the barefoot sub.

 

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Engaging With A Mistress – Never Compromise Your Personality & Get Your Energies In Check

5 Oddly Specific Penis Facts You Didn’t Know

Public Displays of Affection

Podopheleus, Supersmashcache and Musings of a Switch present three excellent and informative articles.

Books and Movies

TammyJo and Peter Discuss Bound (2015): The Celluloid Dungeon

A film review of a kinky movie thanks to two very knowledgeable kink experts.

Erotic Fiction

Fumbling Toward Ecstasy

My Mistress

Dedicated

Bedroom Eyes 27

My Buddy Blew Me While We Watched The Game

Tasty Erotic Morsels

Steamy erotica thanks to When Jerry Met Ali, Voyageur, For Your Heart Only, Jerusalem Mortimer, Ambyr Leigh and Mirror Secret Mirror.

Product reviews

New Tenga Puffy Soft Reusable Masturbators Review

A review of a squishy fuck toy from Safe Lust.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Ten Things I Am Not - Kinky Edition

Effective Punishment for Subs: A Comprehensive Guide for D/s Dynamics

The barefoot sub and Silken Claws on kink and fetish.

Sex Work

Cross Dressing Threesome with Ellie and Nikita

The one about Financial Domination

Her: My first time with a woman

Krásná kurvička. A Trio of Duos

Strap-On Workout

What is the Most Popular Sex Worker Name?

Katie Wright, Audrey Astor, Sienna Nichols, Oz Bigdownunder, Hellga and myself with 6 articles on diverse types of sex work experiences.

Erotic Non Fiction

Pleasured

Pieces of Jade has a plan.

Elust 163 cover image courtesy of  Jordan Maxx.

Decorated dungeons, submersible sex toys, wildness, erotic imaginings, perverted poetry and the oldest profession.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Accepting Sadism: Separating Hurt and Harm

15 Sex Room Decor Themes To Consider

7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dom Dirty Talk

Kylie Cockwhore’s Kinky Commentary Part Two

Great posts from Silken Claws, Spices of Lust, Super Smash cache and Morgan Destera. I especially enjoyed the dungeon decor ideas. Given the opportunity, I'd open a Japanese love hotel dungeon with dozens of themed mini dungeon rooms for hourly rentals. Medieval torture chamber in the basement. Alien experimentation suite in the penthouse. One can but dream.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Embrace Your Inner Wildness and Take a Leap of Faith

Public Sex

The Barefoot Sub and Musings of a Switch share their thoughts. And that image on the Wildness post. Wow!

Product Reviews

Tenga Geo Coral Masturbator Review

Review of the Wave Shower Head Stimulator by Womanizer and Hans Grohe

Sucky Ducky. Funzze Clit Sucking Toy Review

Viben Fierce Wand

Safelust, Liz X, Oz and Witch of the Wands with four fully submersible sex toys. Bath time has never been so fun!

Erotic Fiction

Blowing Off Steam

Stay

Hot Spanking Scene

Foryourheartonly, When Jerry Met Ali and Mirror Secret Mirror present their erotic imaginings. These are some talented authors. I'd love to see all three get film adaptations.

Erotic Non Fiction

Red-Bottom Blues

Mistress Victory never ceases to amaze with her depraved rhyming couplets.

Sex Work

Stepping Into a World of Feet

Blue Door Dungeon

How to be an Ideal Client

The ‘Mommy Goddess’ and the Mass Reporting of Sex Workers on Instagram

Double Penetration with Big Dildos

Chat GPT, Bing AI and Google Bard's Opinions on Sex Work

Hemmily Rose, Sandra, Tulsi Tamora, Olivia Snow, Hellga and myself want you to know, sex work is work. There's a whole unbelievably diverse world of different kinds of sex work out there but we all fairly unanimously want decriminalisation and we'd all like to share content online without being silenced and censored. Everything in the world is about sex. Money is what makes the world go around. Is it really that shocking when consenting adults exchange sex and money?

Image courtesy of Vicky Vette.

Welcome to Elust 161

Happy to have a post included in Elust alongside the work of so many talented sex bloggers, blogging sex workers, erotica authors and sex toy reviewers.

Product Reviews

Funzze Remote Control Dual Stim Vibe

TOY TEST – PinkPunch PEACHU Clit Sucker

B-Vibe Trio Rechargeable Butt Plug Review

Harrow Bulb Depth Trainer From John Thomas Toys Review

4 toys. 4 great reviews. Click the links above to see which are recommended.

Erotic Fiction

Red Rose - first chapter of MIRROR SECRET MIRROR

Bound

Matthew meets Jamie

Behind the Lens: A Tale of Intimacy and Artistry

Elust has introduced me to diverse and talented erotica authors. If you're not familiar with the genre, have a read of these. You'll be hooked.

Erotic Non Fiction

Cock Sucking - An Oral Fixation

Just a taste of the barefoot sub's skills.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Why Lifestyle D/s?

In a Pinch

Male Chastity: Everything You Need to Know

From a pinch on the thigh to a lifetime in a cock cage. Three posts demonstrating the endless possibilities of kink.

Sex Work

Gangbang Fantasy

A Duo with Ruth and Her Habibi

Why do we Need a Search Engine for Independent Sex Worker Websites?

My post alongside a threesome with Hellga and a session with Sandra and an imaginative client.

State of the World

Is It Time to Reevaluate Our Spending on Pleasure and Entertainment?

"Sexual health and pleasure are just as important as any other aspect of our lives, and investing in quality sex toys can be a game-changer." Absolutely!

Books and Movies

Recent Reading

Four books about non-monogamy.

Writing about Writing

Adventures in Writing: Learning Lessons from Three Regrets of my Writing Life

Mischa Eliot is a passionate author and this is a fascinating insight.

Poetry

Miami Girl

I enjoyed the poem and love Miami. I think the poet would enjoy Haulover beach even more (A nudist beach 2km away).

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sexy things that are really NOT that sexy!

That cake smeared screaming head is horrific.