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Welcome to Elust 190

Cover image courtesy of Kate Leigh. 

A bubbling cauldron of austenitic sex blog posts will put the shakti in your vajrayana.

Sex & Relationships

Morgan Destera, Ten Years!

The trip mentioned in this post is recounted in detail in the latest post on Morgan's blog. Check it out!

Sex Toy DB, So You’ve Bought a Sex Machine … Now What?

X2 the plumbers pipe clamps recommendation to fix your sex machine in place. When I had my f machine clamped to the bed frame, that thing was a beast.

Lushense, How To Choose The Best Lubricant For Your Intimate Moments

Silicone lube with metal or glass toys is a good shout. Just take care not to get it on fabric. It's not easy to wash out.

Betty's Toy Box, The Smart Guide to Penis Extensions for Couples

Detachable penis.

Kink & Fetish

Mx Valentina, A Man isn't Whole without a Woman to Serve

The fortunate few are allowed to serve a sex witch.

Erotica

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei - Prologue 16

That student has spent 16 chapters getting penetrated by Sensei. She's going to get home from school 16 days late, walking like John Wayne.

Sugarbutch, You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out

And take it they do.

Liz Black X, Lumiis Glow - Sasha's Bimbo Bliss Fiction

Bimbotastic.

Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Erotic Body as Cosmic Mirror: Tantric Rituals of Union and the Politics of Liberation

My vajrayana is overflowing with shakti.

Hannah McKnight, He’s Wearing a Skirt…

If the femme clothes fits.

Sex Work

Elizabeth of London, Athens

Fox Digital, How to Attract Wealthy Clients in an Oversaturated Market

Does it really matter how affluent they are? £300 is £300, I don't care if it's handed to me by a billionaire or a barista.

The Siren Domme, Five Archetypes of a Dom/me (and Why You Don’t Have to Pick Just One)

Whenever I see emdashes, I copy and paste the article into grammarly to see how much of it is AI generated. Only 8% in this case which is a relief. It would be a bit scary if something this well written, accurately describing various Domme archetypes was 100% chat gpt. I suspect what the author, and many of us (myself included) has done, is drafted notes, typed up the ideas, and then used Gen AI for fine tuning and formatting the post for SEO optimisation.

Sex Worker Search, Payment Portal Pre-Release Invite

Give it a try. I think this, or something very like it, will be the future for sex workers. I can't wait to see how we can benefit from receiving payments directly via a widget on our own personal websites and see hypocrites like onlyfans that take 30% + of our hard earned profits whilst providing effectively no value and doing nothing for our community, take a massive financial hit as we all leave their platform.

Hellga, Conor's Craic. My Upcoming Tour of Dublin, Ireland

Top of the morning to you.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Pillion (2025): The Celluloid Dungeon

Writing About Writing

Oxy Shop, Femdom Fiction: How Erotic Stories Spark Real-Life Submission

More emdashes. Grammarly says this one is close to 100% AI generated. The subject matter is interesting. The content is informative. The formatting is impeccable. Look at how all the sentences are almost the exact same length and the paragraphs all have almost the exact same number of sentences. It's like a ChatGPT haiku of SEO optimised text blocks.

Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes

No emdashes. Compare and contrast. Varying character count of sentences and paragraphs, first person perspective, personal opinions and anecdotes, a lot less structured, no subheadings. Grammarly says it's zero percent AI. It does look like it's been deliberately SEO optimised so the author is probably following the guidance of the Yoast plug in or similar. I use Yoast too. It is good for search ranking but the reason it's good for search ranking is because Google is giving us better rankings in exchange for making content that's easier for it's AI to parse and then extracting our ideas, without crediting us, to generate it's own AI mode responses which appear above search results. So it's tricking us into agreeing to a Faustian bargain where we are working to help Google render ourselves obsolete. But that's progress. I'm not anti AI but I do think things like what I describe above are taking the piss.

Product Reviews

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Three Bead Stainless Steel Butt Plug Review

Austenitic.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Femina Viva, Is Learning How to Receive My Waterloo?

Waterloo? That's between Southwark and Westminster on the Jubilee line, innit?

Welcome to Elust 178

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts

William's thoughts on online videos.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening

Exploring deeper intimacy through meditative practices.

The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide

Wanking 101.

Betty's Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try

Tempted to try them all right here, right now in Joe and the Juice.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Civility counts.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner

Sexplosive.

Little Red Spanking, The Lover’s Spat: A Paddle Story

Nothing better than the sound effects of a really good paddling.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything

i horny robot.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3

Seamus gets his hands on a rattan cane.

Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow

She got a real pretty mouth, ain't she?

Jasmine Gold, A Nun's Humiliation

Ginny sells her soul to the devil.

Product Reviews

Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn't Know Existed (2024)

A roundup of standout devices for male-focused enjoyment.

Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo's Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker

We don't have flying cars yet but we do have this.

Sex Work

Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You

Magnifique!

Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices

From a top Pro Domme.

Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory

My post.

Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker

A new Pro Domme thinking about rates.

Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz

Terrific threesome.

Nuit d'Or, Self-care For Dominants

Excellent advice from an experienced BDSM coach and mentor.

Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave

Sissygsms.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Special guest appearance from Freddy Krueger.

Poetry

Simone Francis, Watch Me

Photo illustrated.