Life's a Beach and this month in Elust 172, all the most talented sex bloggers on the net are here to share their posts. Cover image courtesy of Victoria CMT makes me wish I was somewhere warm and sunny playing in the sand right now.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Girl On The Net Practical sex tips: blankets, playlists and banishing shame!
What's your favourite sex playlist? I like this one. It's mostly deep house so it's got enough rhythm to keep things moving without being too frenetic and there are some lyrics but nothing too distracting.
Spices of Lust How To Use A Hismith Sex Machine (Solo + Couples)
Highly recommended. If you're not sure, you can always rent a pay per hour dungeon space that has one and try before you buy.
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search E-Commerce for Sex Workers
An update to this post. CCbill replied. They said no.
Tulsi Tamora Is it normal to feel nervous when seeing a companion?
It's very normal to feel nervous before meeting with a companion who you're seeing for the first time. If that companion is as experienced and talented as Tulsi, you won't be feeling nervous for long once you've met.
Darla Blake From the bizarre to the banal, here’s some things you might not know about me!
Getting to know a very sexy sex worker.
The Silky Masseuse Setting Good Financial Boundaries
One more. Don't get a credit card. If you have credit cards, pay them off and then cancel them. I used to work for a bank. Credit cards are great. If you're a bank. Otherwise they're terrible. They're designed to make bankers richer and bank customers poorer. The idea is to encourage you to spend as much money as possible, as thoughtlessly as possible, and then ruin your life with interest repayments. Use a debit card instead. If your credit card debt is already out of control, here's some advice.
The Lady Phoenix The Boss Calls the Shots
Cocky Chris gets taken down a peg or two.
Catherine Schneider Hentai BDSM
If you're unfamiliar with the genre, you're in for a treat! There's a lot of free Hentai out there but if you find a Doujin artist you like, please consider commissioning some custom content or subscribing to their Patreon.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera Toy Test - Funzze.com Vibrating Anal Beads
11 inches of silicone anal beads.
Liz Black X Review of the Hermosa: A High-Quality Torso Sex Doll for Men by XTorso.com
Compact, Beautiful, and Functional.
Oz Bigdownunder Silver Surfer. Funzze Double-ended Stainless Steel Dildo Review
- Aliens. 2. The Hunt for Red October. 3. Evil Dead. 4. Austin Powers. 5. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. 6. Full Metal Jacket. 7. Borat. 8. Bladerunner. 9. Fight Club. 10. The Big Lebowsky. BRB off to watch a 20 hour movie marathon of all of the above.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J Exploring the Depths of Mindful Intimacy: A Guide to Enriched Connections
It's a journey. Or a space. Or a pillar.
Beyond Nonbinary Finding my Womanhood as I Bleed
A unique perspective on a sex change operation.
Charli and Margeaux How To Eat My Pussy
Just listen.
The Disorderly House Men Sharing Their Wives
Between consenting adults, if everyone involved is into it, why not?
Musings of a Switch Sexually Daring
William Wallace in a vulnerable position.
Erotic Fiction
Well Written Smut Co. This is Our Life
A short story in which old friends reunite for an orgy.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 34
An unstable table.
Fern River Van reminisces
Sweet dreams are made of throbbing shafts.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Super Smash Cache 3 Emotional Needs of Sext Chat & Femdom Enthusiasts
A pro domme works in men's mental health. True that.
Blogging
the barefoot sub Airport Exposure With SWL
Few places could be trickier to find a moment out of view of passers-by and CCTV than an airport. barefoot sub rises to the challenge.
Writing about writing
Ramone Quides Three Years In and Loving Life
An interesting glimpse into a writer's reasons for writing. I recommend Ramone's Canvas Rebel interview too.
The September edition, Elust 166, is jam packed with sexy blog posts for your reading pleasure.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles
Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential
Super Smash Cache and Silken claws on how to handle male subs and when chastity isn't all that respectively.
Erotic Non Fiction
The barefoot sub sees a sexy sight in the mirror.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man
Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend
Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple
Beyond Non-binary, Betty's Toy Box and Joan Price have changes to the libido, a way to use toys to stimulate the vulva just inside the vaginal opening and sexiness for sexagenarians.
Product Reviews
Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer
Sexy Toys reviewed on the blogs of Musings of a switch and Liz X Likes.
Erotic Fiction
FYHO, Voyageur, Dr Girlfriend and Sinclair Sexsmith with the best erotica on the net this month.
Writing about writing
Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit
Ramone Quides gives thanks to writers and writers groups who helped motivate him this month.
Sex Work
Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie
Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition
Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin
Charlie Rose, Meet the Minx, Oz, Sandra and Hellga share their writing on different aspects of sex work. Fantasies, how to get in contact, a cuckolding duo, fighting for the rights and freedoms of the adult industry, bisexual MMF and Femdom FMTY.
Elust 165 is now live with a ravishing cover Image courtesy of Mistress Andrómeda X.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Breaking Chains: Reimagining BDSM Roles
Super Smash Cache explains why there's much more to BDSM than binary roles of a masculine, sadistic, Dominant top and a feminine, masochistic, submissive bottom.
Erotic Fiction
Four sexy stories from When Jerry Met Ali, For Your Heart Only, Voyageur and Jerusalem Mortimer.
Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor
The Rise of the Penis Plush aka Piemel Knuffel
Liz Black embraces the penis plushy.
Writing about writing
Musings and Flashers and Hope, Oh My!
Ramone Quides accesses resources for improving at writing and discovers skills that can be used to turn outlines and unfinished drafts into completed works.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Cracking Tits? Or Lumps, Bumps And Flaws?
The barefoot sub presents a picture of herself and her friend SWL to illustrate a discussion on self confidence and body image.
Product reviews
Review of Velociraptor Dildo from Laphwing
TOY TEST – Celani Nipple Sucker
Oz, Morgan Destera and Princess Previews review three sex toys.
Sex Work
No Data on Prostitution? Just Make It Up!
Victoria Myers, Jack Violet and Evelyn Vale discuss three very different subjects all related to sex work.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Monogamists get a lil polyamory as a treat on the Ultimatum
People With Penises Can Wear Strap-Ons Too!
Gabrielle Alexa Noel and Girly Juice on some sort of reality dating TV show and some excellent reasons why penis owners can, and should, use strap-ons. That "reality" show looks like prime evidence for no reality whatsoever being involved in reality tv. So they just put some couples in an apartment building and filmed them in the hope that they'd do something entertaining? What if they all got along fine and chilled out together. Maybe played a board game or took a nap. Wouldn't make very compelling television. It's scripted. All reality television is scripted.
Books and Movies
The Shelves of a Feeble-Minded Book Slut: Part One
Book shelf envy. I live in one of the most expensive post codes in the world. London, W1. In an apartment that makes Harry Potter's broom cupboard look spacious. No room for a book shelf. I love it here and it's the perfect location and perfect apartment for me as a sex worker. But one day I'll get a bigger place and first thing I'll do is install a massive bookshelf and fill it with books.
Elust 164 Cover Image is courtesy of the barefoot sub.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Engaging With A Mistress – Never Compromise Your Personality & Get Your Energies In Check
5 Oddly Specific Penis Facts You Didn’t Know
Podopheleus, Supersmashcache and Musings of a Switch present three excellent and informative articles.
Books and Movies
TammyJo and Peter Discuss Bound (2015): The Celluloid Dungeon
A film review of a kinky movie thanks to two very knowledgeable kink experts.
Erotic Fiction
My Buddy Blew Me While We Watched The Game
Steamy erotica thanks to When Jerry Met Ali, Voyageur, For Your Heart Only, Jerusalem Mortimer, Ambyr Leigh and Mirror Secret Mirror.
Product reviews
New Tenga Puffy Soft Reusable Masturbators Review
A review of a squishy fuck toy from Safe Lust.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Ten Things I Am Not - Kinky Edition
Effective Punishment for Subs: A Comprehensive Guide for D/s Dynamics
The barefoot sub and Silken Claws on kink and fetish.
Sex Work
Cross Dressing Threesome with Ellie and Nikita
The one about Financial Domination
Her: My first time with a woman
Krásná kurvička. A Trio of Duos
What is the Most Popular Sex Worker Name?
Katie Wright, Audrey Astor, Sienna Nichols, Oz Bigdownunder, Hellga and myself with 6 articles on diverse types of sex work experiences.
Erotic Non Fiction
Pieces of Jade has a plan.
Elust 163 cover image courtesy of Jordan Maxx.
Decorated dungeons, submersible sex toys, wildness, erotic imaginings, perverted poetry and the oldest profession.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Accepting Sadism: Separating Hurt and Harm
15 Sex Room Decor Themes To Consider
7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dom Dirty Talk
Kylie Cockwhore’s Kinky Commentary Part Two
Great posts from Silken Claws, Spices of Lust, Super Smash cache and Morgan Destera. I especially enjoyed the dungeon decor ideas. Given the opportunity, I'd open a Japanese love hotel dungeon with dozens of themed mini dungeon rooms for hourly rentals. Medieval torture chamber in the basement. Alien experimentation suite in the penthouse. One can but dream.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Embrace Your Inner Wildness and Take a Leap of Faith
The Barefoot Sub and Musings of a Switch share their thoughts. And that image on the Wildness post. Wow!
Product Reviews
Tenga Geo Coral Masturbator Review
Review of the Wave Shower Head Stimulator by Womanizer and Hans Grohe
Sucky Ducky. Funzze Clit Sucking Toy Review
Safelust, Liz X, Oz and Witch of the Wands with four fully submersible sex toys. Bath time has never been so fun!
Erotic Fiction
Foryourheartonly, When Jerry Met Ali and Mirror Secret Mirror present their erotic imaginings. These are some talented authors. I'd love to see all three get film adaptations.
Erotic Non Fiction
Mistress Victory never ceases to amaze with her depraved rhyming couplets.
Sex Work
The ‘Mommy Goddess’ and the Mass Reporting of Sex Workers on Instagram
Double Penetration with Big Dildos
Chat GPT, Bing AI and Google Bard's Opinions on Sex Work
Hemmily Rose, Sandra, Tulsi Tamora, Olivia Snow, Hellga and myself want you to know, sex work is work. There's a whole unbelievably diverse world of different kinds of sex work out there but we all fairly unanimously want decriminalisation and we'd all like to share content online without being silenced and censored. Everything in the world is about sex. Money is what makes the world go around. Is it really that shocking when consenting adults exchange sex and money?