Welcome to Elust 179
Cover image courtesy of Countess Diamond.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines
LDRBJFTW long distance relationship blowjobs for the win!
Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality
This is all completely lost on me I'm afraid. Each to their own, anyone who enjoys tantra, that's great. Personally I like my sex profane and with an absence of mumbo jumbo.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Cub, Luc listens in
Lucy gets an earful.
Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1
A mysterious stranger story. This is fun. The contents of my inbox are a lot less cryptic.
Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading
I love a good cuckolding scenario.
Product Reviews
Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime
Beastly bivius.
Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo
Gigreesque!
Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable
Techy.
Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation
I one bookmarked an ovipositor toy from Sinnovator since it looked awesome. Never got around to buying one. One day. But the bookmark found it's way into my bookmarks toolbar so now every time I glance at that part of my screen, I get delightful mental images. So there it stays.
Of Sex and Love, Heidi
Will have you yodelling for the fjords.
Erotic Non Fiction
Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth
Written by the same author as the other tantra article? It has some very similar phrases eg about tantra being misunderstood in the west as purely sexual.
Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire - 10 Years Of Submission
A sub exposed and naked stands before two fearsome Mistresses.
barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark
barefoot roped up and drooling. That's hot!
Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion
If you're meeting with a sex worker, just enjoy the session for what it is. Please don't "fall in love". You're meeting a professional who's providing a service and to the best of their ability creating the exact scene that's perfect for you. They're not being themselves, they're being an illusion of what you need them to be in that moment. Many of us love our work. I do. I care about my clients. A lot. But there is no Oz to fall in love with. Oz is a service I provide when I'm working. When the hour is up, Oz no longer exists. The Oz who appears for the next client is a different Oz depending on what that client needs Oz to be.
Sex Work
Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication
Essential reading.
Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work
This is really well written and makes a lot of excellent points. An optimistic look at the future of sex work.
Elizabeth, Torture Goddess
Elizabeth's writing is evocative as always.
Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed
My post.
Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu
Yallah.
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel
Crafty.
Writing about writing
Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins
NRE, new relationship energy. But without any LDRBJFTW.
The cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of The Ultimate Exotic Seductress, Nyala Mali.
The Sex Shed - How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps:
A practical guide on identifying and using safe anal toys, focusing on materials, design, and safety tips.
Ramone Quides - Destroyer of Good Erotica!:
Reflections on the challenges of writing erotica and the author's creative process.
LA Jayne, Against the Discourse
Kristina J - The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent:
Exploring the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships through the concept of the Wheel of Consent.
Beyond Non-Binary - What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?:
Personal stories and reflections on the world of dominatrixes, blending witchcraft and dominatrix archetypes.
Morgan Destera - TOY TEST - Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise:
A review of a glow-in-the-dark glass butt plug, highlighting its unique features and user experience.
Betty's Toy Box - Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples:
A video review of a strapless strap-on vibrator, focusing on its benefits for couples.
Sydney Screams - Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review:
Detailed review of the Beowulf fantasy dildo, discussing its texture, design, and user experience.
Princess Preview - Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo
Witch of the Wands - Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go:
Tips on discreetly traveling with sex toys, featuring the Crave Vesper necklace vibrator.
Unicorn Hunting Blog - Zara Du Rose Interview: ZDR Events and How to Become a Celebrity on the UK Party Scene:
An interview with Zara Du Rose discussing her events and tips for becoming a celebrity in the UK party scene.
Buzzing Babe - Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure:
Introduction to light BDSM and how it can enhance pleasure and intimacy in relationships.
Sex Toy DB - 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind-Blowing Fucking Machine:
Creative ways to use the Kiiroo Keon sex machine for an enhanced sexual experience.
Stan's Swingers - Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play:
Exploring the dynamics of public play within the swinging community, emphasizing consent and communication.
barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss
The History of BDSM - The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon:
A review of the film "The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed" from a BDSM perspective.
Hannah McKnight - Behold, the Power of Forms:
Discussion on the importance of forms in the transgender community and their impact on identity.
Sex Worker Search - Best Business Practices for Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA:
Guidelines for sex work websites to comply with VISA's business practices, focusing on content moderation and ethical standards.
Oz Bigdownunder - Just a Cock in a Cage:
A personal narrative exploring the experience of chastity and sexual control.
Sandra - Summertime Gangbang:
A vivid recount of a gangbang session, blending eroticism with playful football analogies.
Hellga - Yoga Malasana Pose Anal Action:
An erotic tale featuring anal action in various positions, including the yoga malasana pose.
The Siren Domme - REVIEW: The Nest by Loonerfun:
A detailed review of The Nest, a play space in Cardiff, highlighting its ambiance and suitability for shibari sessions.
Elust 174 fishnets the catch of the day of the sexiest blog posts on the web. Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina's Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips. I'm in awe of Catalina's website and overall web presence. Fingers crossed Epoch, the company that provides credit card processing facilities for her site might work with me too. I've sent them an email.
Erotic Non Fiction
Voyageur Maggie and Paul
A complicated affair.
Kristina J Kink and Fetish
Encyclopaedic.
Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery
BRB SRS.
Erotic Fiction
barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences
Most enjoyable chastity erotica. I love the idea of downsizing the cage!
FYHO Her Boys
Bizarre love square.
Jasmine Gold A Submissive's First Threesome
Site seems to be offline.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End
Stephanie, Maires and Master have been engaged in a 36 day non stop sex marathon in a sharehouse. In consideration of their flatmates, who probably bought earplugs on day 1 and may have been considering hosing the loving throuple down with a fire extinguisher by day 36, they decide not to have a threesome in the shared kitchen and discuss getting their own house together.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo
Ooh, shiny! A toy for stimulating the G spot or prostate.
Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O
Whisper quiet, versatile and rumbly. I like the idea of the O ring for grip.
Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review
That's an impressive looking stallion cock. Especially with the addition of the syringe for squirting fake cum out of it.
Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison
A mini herd of adorable clit sucking unicorns.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine
Vote for your favourite in the comments.
Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare
Really important for sub and Dom.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships
Who'd have imagined in the 80s, when the variety of porn available to me was magazines and vhs tapes, what porn would be like in 2024. No post scarcity utopia, inter galactic space travel or true AI yet but we do have lots of genres of porn to choose from.
Betty's Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms
Recommended positions to get the perfect angle and constant, firm stimulation.
Books and Movies
LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)
The one about the sharks in Paris looks like fun.
Sex Work
Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune
A karaoke ode to a kinky threesome.
Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?
My latest.
Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow
Glaswegian shennanigans.
Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong
That looks like the Kowloon Ladies Market. I found some treasures there. I still often wear a t-shirt I bought there 10 years ago that cost about £5 but is somehow made from indestructible fabric and shows almost no signs of wear after a decade.
Cover image courtesy of Multi Award Winning Adult Model & Content Creator! Zara Du Rose. Subscribe on Fansly for Solo, GG & BG content, Cock ratings, Custom clips and Sexy voice messages.
Erotic Fiction
Ramone Quides Eggs and Cream
Carbonara for breakfast. Why not?
For Your Heart Only The Shower
Wetter than a fishes wet bits.
Jasmine Gold Turnabout is Fair Play
Sexy switchy erotica.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 35
The penultimate.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Carrie Young The Joys of Erotic Humiliation
Compelling subject matter and very well written.
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search How to Build a Website
My post.
The Disorderly House How To Be An Escort The Right Way & Have A Thrilling Career
Hmm. Some good tips in there but some misinformation too. Would have been better with some input from sex workers.
The Silky Masseuse Mastering the Art of Boundaries: A Pleasure Provider’s Guide
There's some science to setting boundaries and the skill can be refined to the point of an art form with experience. This article is an excellent place to start.
Beyond Non Binary Being a client with a professional sex worker, and the inherent balance of power
I like this. What a dreamy client!
Oz Bigdownunder Sexual Equanimity by Podopheleus
Oz reviews Pod.
Product Reviews
Morgan Destera TOY TEST - Funzze Orgasm Monster Pro
Looks like a cattle prod but will it make you Moo?
the barefoot sub The (Bestvibe) Phoenix Rises: Thrusting Vibe
A dildo eternal.
Tiger Lily Kiiroo PowerBlow Review: The Ultimate Blowjob Simulator
Suckbot.
Sydney Screams NS Novelties Inya Grinder Vibrating Grind Pad Review
Hands free humping.
Betty's Toy Box Squirting Fantasy Dildos : Centaur and Phoenix Are Ready for Your Next Role Play
They're ready but are you ready for 200ml of monster semen?
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
N Likes I don't really like fucking
Neither do I. I love it.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
LA Jayne The Origin of Pain
This is going to hurt.
Girl on the Net Sensitivity Training: Sexual Feedback for Shy People
Am shy. Can confirm.
State of the World
Hannah McKnight Everybody Knows
A positive experience going out en Femme.
Erotic Non-Fiction
The Big Gay Review Sexy Thoughts #20: Reflection
Nothing like a nice relaxing wank in the shower to destress after a long day.
Elust 171's cup runneth over, like Sydney Screams ' bathtub in the enticing cover image, with sex toys and sexiness spilling out in all directions.
Amazing Calvin and Hobbes tattoo too.
I vaguely remembered Calvin saying something profound in the original cartoon. This is that =
Sex Work
The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1
The bane of every sex worker's existence. The time wasters.
Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers
I'd like to say I have a love hate relationship with twitter but to be honest, I have no love for Twitter at all and can't even be bothered hating it any more after all the shadowbanning. Best I can do is barely tolerate Twitter to the extent of maintaining the kind of presence on there that's expected of a SW.
Sandra Vitamin S
Sandra, TS Ama and Mistress Volga get silky.
Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama
Ama again! She's everywhere. This time with Oz and Mistress Chatterley.
Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans
I don't see why Twitter can't just have an NSFW on, NSFW off button and then advertisers can decide whether they want their ads to appear next to NSFW content or not. As opposed to rewarding SWs for all our hard work providing free content, without which Twitter would die, with sneaky backstabby shadowbans.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Funzze What's the BEST Material for Adult Toys?
Silicone is a personal favourite but I just recently received a stainless steel anal dildo from Funzze to review. I love it. Review coming soon.
Musings of a Switch The Early Days
William Wallace reminisces.
Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender
It's as if time itself has slowed down, each second stretched to its limits as we linger on the precipice of pleasure, suspended in the delicious agony of anticipation.
Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine
And puppy gets a leash and collar.
Erotic Fiction
Jasmine Gold The Unicorn
The mythical beast with three backs.
Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33
+1 the Chemical Brothers.
FYHO The Polaroid
It's a Kodak moment
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)
Beautiful pic and post. Shirley Manson would approve.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting
Wet and wild. Never heard it called a platinum shower before. That's awesome.
Product Reviews
Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review
An ergonomic wand for people with accessibility needs.
Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder
Love the colours and design. Gigeresque.
Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo
That's a tentacular tentacle. My tentacle dildo is more of the squishy variety so a more rigid one would come in handy.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)
Even if you've never seen the movie and have no intention of seeing it, I still recommend watching this video review just to hear two highly experienced and knowledgeable kink historians chatting.